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ASTRO OBSERVATIONS

hey guyssssssssssssssssssssss it's been a month now,hasn't it? I suddenly got inspired cause I was supposed to start this like next weeek but here I am.

Again I am not a professional astrologer so I am talking strictly based on my obsevations and experiences. This will obviously not resonate with everyone and that's okay.

Featured by green and orange for good luck again haha

listening to I'll kill you by summer walker

Aries suns and placeements are actually very loyal. when they find someone/something they vibe with and 'are for them(this could be friends, romantic relationships,jobs etc)and they are also decsiive about that, they never go back. they can be pretty stubbron and sometimes choose what they want to see. for some reason Aries suns and personal placemets vibes with scorpio personal placements. Aries suns,moon and risings is this a coincidence?? anyways if an Aries placement is gving you mixed signals constantly then maybe they aren't as into you hun. they are pretty direct and if it isn't with their words, then it's their actions. If they like you and If they are 100% sure? you will know .they never beat around the bush, again ACTIONS. omg Aries personal placements just love teasing and bullying people they lmao. they are the type of friend thatv would make a mean joke at you and when someone else do it to you, they will lose their shit lmao. I mean if it's harmless and dosent hurt you then just know they care lol. they would tease you alot but these people do not play with THEIR people. they kind of remind me of scorpio,taurus and cancer placements in that regard. they are also very POSSESSIVE over their loved ones. when they get jealous, you can literally see it through their facial expressions and body language.

I noticed that Taurus suns have healthy esteem and boundries and if they don't, they still appear sure of themselves. they dont mind saying no if they arent comfortable with doing something unlike undeverloped libra placements. they are very protective of their properties/possessions and would notice if you touch their stuff without telling them, I'm not kidding. it's even more scary if it's a taurus personal placeemnt with virgo placements too. taurus placemnets always saying mine like... "that's mine" "that's my friend" 'that's my food'ok maybe I'm coming for all taurus placements but ik so many taurueses who alwyas uses "my' "mine" it's ridiculous. The tauruses I know arent the best at words of affirmations but show their love through 'being there for you constantly' "gift giving' and sometimes 'acts of service'. while leos can be jealous of someone who 'outshines' them and capricorns of whose at the top, Tauruses are most likely to get jealous of people who have material abundnace. they always put extra effort on their physical apperance cause when they look good, they really really feel goood. they have this grounded and not ready for drama energy to them. tauruses are one of the placeemnts that people can think they have their life together next to capricorns and virgos(not me noticing they are all earth signs, anywayyss)

Gemimi suns and risngs are always seen as extroverted and to me they are but they also have this side reseved for them and their space. Gemini suns are so charismatic and insecure people can be jealous of this. these signs never really open up about their 'sad emotions' based on my obsevation. they are constantly showing their bubbly and talkative side that if you aren't obseverving, you would miss that sad smile they accidently let slip. they are the type of people who would hide while crying. yes geminis are emotional!. all the gemini suns I know are very funny. I also think most people make assumptions about knowing them and their "personality' because they seem so open but that is actually not the case. they always maninatin this childlike energy and curosity even as they get older and I Love it!. They are also great storytellers. the kind of person people would stop to listen to their stories and for some reason they have manyyy of them.

it's no suprise that cancer risings are very sensitive to their emotions and surroundings. these people just love using "I feel" in a sentence huh (@angelvibezluv ughhhh Ly💙💜). my close friend who has a cancer rising and sun always use 'I feel' when explaning/expresssing her pov and opinions,very Interetsing. they have a very calming presecnce as well. no matter how intense a chart is having a cancer sun or rising will soften that shit in a way lol. very protective and nurturing of their close friends and family. If you want soemone to validate your whole emotions, go to your cancer friend. they are ridicuolusly loyal to people who are loyal to them and they tend to be taken advantage of because of their love and kindness. I always feel at home with cancer suns and risings for some reason. they just have that effect on others. would listen to your needs and get you things that you would really like. cancers are also very jealous people and would become petty if you make them feel that way or hurt them lol.

undeverloped leo placements love talking about themselves. that's it, that's the astro obsevation. jkjk. leo placememnts love being praised for what they do. Just like libra placements,they enjoy getting validation from people. leo placements can attract unnecessary competition because for some reason, someone is always trying to compete with them but this can also be viceversa. underdeveloped lilth in leo activerly seek attention from people. thry also love feeling like they are better,more attractive/fun, and charismatic than other people. undeverloped leo placements are also the type to fish for complimets, it's hilarious and cute. these people are also very hardowrking and passionate when it comes to their work and would get a job just to invest in ther physcial apperance. their image is also very very important to them.

short Interesting observations on the signs/MBTI

Capricorn suns/domiants love telling people what to do bu their eye would twitch if you did the same. they would literally look at you like the AUDACITY. this is why I feel like they are supposed to be their own boss or THE BOSS. If not, they would struggle with authroity figures

If you have both Aries and Scorpio perosnal placements, you are HOT please. also this both together in a chart can really give intimidating vibes. possibly very passionate and BLUNT.

Aquarius personal placements and urauns dominants were mostly likely bullied as a child. whether it' the sun or rising, they always have something they like or how they look/dress that is uncoventional. The confident ones really dont care what people think of them and this can literally make people drawn to their energy and worship them lol. they inspire people to be themselves. these placements are also very deep in the way they think and see life. they are also very creative since they have innovative and unique ideas.

I noticed that people with scopio peronal placements(epecifically sun,moon rising and veus) love THE WEEKEND... is this a coincidence? XD

Scorpio risings and sometimes moon can struggle with paranoia ad think the world is out to get them. they alse seem to get ntense reactions from people(I mean we all know this but I have witnessed this so many times)

Aquairus and scorpio personal placements together in a chart can hint to unstability(of emotions and feelings0or mood swings? can feel numb too. they can also struggle with rage that is behind the surface. these people are STREET and PEOPLE smart in my opinion. literal MASTERMINDS. im sorry but I am just going to assume that people fall in love with you.

mutuable signs and dominats really get projected on. they really do seve as a mirrior (I mean I am one) so if you are nice to them then they will most likely be nice to you. so if you don't like them then mayb echeck yourself

I think I read somewhere that Pisces risings can also struggle wuth people projecting on them and this is true. peple can also idolize them and if underdeveloped, they might really struggle with playing into peoples ideas of them.

gemini suns and moons have a sharp tongue omg. they just know what to say that will STING like crazy. undeverloped ones can easily call people names and make fun of them to get a laugh out of others. no it's not funny stop.

All the INTJ's and INtP's I know are either earth or air domiants or have it pominent in their chart(capricorns/virgos) (Aquairus?)

Sag and sag dominants has tested ENFJ or ENFP atleast once. change my mind lol

I feel like a cancer /cancer dominant Pisces/Pisces prominet chart would most likely be an INFP,INFJ or ISFJ

This was funnn lol, lemme know if anything resonated . Excuse any typos please I'm tired

remember to love yourself, and don't ever give up on you💙💜

[miles0201]

I feel so called out rn.....Yes me and my Cap Sun love to give advice or tell someone what they should do in a situation but when someone tries to do the same to me🤭....I struggle with authority figures there. So much resonated!! I agree, aries placements are such loyal people❤️ and Aquarius and Scorpio personal placements can hint to instability of emotions and feelings...😶....so much exposure all at once. Great Post!!

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Friendship based ask here!🙆🏻‍♀️ From your own experience/observations: what aspects (synastry only) have you commonly seen in long term platonic bonds, and which houses occupied in Composite? have a good dayyy 🧚🏻‍♀️

Hello! Thank you, hope you have a great day as well! xx I've received a similar message before, talking about aspects in Synastry and Composite I've seen in long lasting relationships, so let me just combine this to one and say:

Which aspects/overlays in Synastry in Composite have I witnissed in long term connections (platonic and romantic)? REMINDER: if your connection doesn't have these exact aspects it doesn't mean it's doomed, these are purely based on personal observation!

don't copy my work please!

Synastry:

✧ Ascendant conjunct Moon: great intuition over each others feelings. The Ascendant person can feel like reading the Moon person's mind and Moon feels at home and safe around the Ascendant person. The Moon person should pay attention not to overwhelm the Ascendant person though. The Moon person feels free and safe to vent though, so communication regarding feelings is eased, which is a big plus! ✧ Ascendant conjunct Venus: being together feels just great and is a lot of fun. Here, these two can find naturally to each other, being out together feels really good and the other person mostly acts really appropriate/to your likings. The other person is your 'type' and can give you what you need to feel (superficially) happy in a connection. Can be an aspect that is more shallow if the Venus person is too focused on looks and being presentable.

✧ Ascendant conjunct Sun: Usually a very friendly connection, the Sun person is like the Ascendant but on steroids and the familarity it creates will most likely bear the benfit for a rather harmonious time together. Where the Ascendant person goes and what they desire and need in life is something the Sun person identifies, but the Sun person can potentially be overbearing at times, because their needs and personality needs room and thus takes no consideration regarding the Ascendant persons feelings. Can be overbearing at worst. ✧ Sun in the 7th/conjunct Descendant (bonus if it's vice versa): The Sun person will help you cultivate what might feel hard for the Descendant/7th house person to integrate in their life on their own. The Sun person here acts like an archetype for the Descendant/7th house person that will be the model they can orientate themself on and gives them direct inspiration and examples. Can promise a lot of growth for both parties.

✧ North Node conjunct Ascendant/MC: The Ascendant person introduces the North Node person to the new opportunities and situations in life they desperately need in order to thrive for their Lunar Node's position. Both MC and Ascendant person can become the perfect example/ orientation point for the Lunar Node person. The Lunar Node person at best wants to stick with them for a long(er) time. Things can get pretty hasty from time to time as the NN person can be quiet impulsive and demanding when it comes to their wishes/desires which can feel overwhelming for the angle person.

✧ Sun opposite Moon: They can see the other as a complementary model to their emotional or mental state. Can really create a good balance between the different I's - the ego/personality based on (Sun) and the emotional one (Moon). Works like a pendulum, but only if one doesn't get too egocentric (especially Sun, but this also depend which element and modality the Moon is in, sometimes the Moon fights back but often time it can retreat quickly).

✧ Moon opposite/square Moon: The opposition is far easier to balance out and I witnessed in most cases very harmonious from the beginning! Just very complementary, sometimes there is nagging or a bit of frustration but generally speaking they value each other a lot and see the other as a safe haven (especially fixed and mutuable signs find their oppositional moon pairs often!). The square is a bit tougher, but even this can work, especially if it's WaterxFire, EarthxAir. Also fixed signs and mutable signs in a square have an easier time getting along and finding common ground than I witnessed with cardinal moons. So the square can create exciting tension, especially in romantic and/or sexual relationships does this square work like a magnet, but it needs lots of patience and understanding. Communication is key, but it can create really strong bonds because you thoroughly had to get to know the other and probbaly lots of talking was required.

✧ Moon conjunct Venus: a really really sweet aspect to have, this can make each other so extremely devoted to create a harmonious connections that feels like laying in a freshly made bed. Very cozy and both focus to make the other feel emotionally safe, comforted and loved by being emotionally avaible/accasible or spending quality time/doing acts of service. Of course a trine and sextile are equally favorable but I noticed the conjunction is especially strong here in long term connections.

✧ Venus opposite Mars: Creates a strong attraction between two people. Both feel intruiged by the other and most likely can have a soft spot for them. This can create the urge to show the other what they like and need in a connection, and as much as it is exciting, after a while both will realize that opposites require compromise as well, so occasionally it can feel like a bummer when the other doesn't get what to do to make you feel comfortable and loved, or tension/agression due to unspoken conflict stand between you. But generally speaking the attraction can be pretty strong and thus binds two people together.

✧ Mars conjunct Moon: aggressive love, that's all I can say here haha. Both love and care for each other furiously. This can evoke impatience and frustration if the other isn't physically or emotionally avaible, but both are very concerned in being together and kinda feel like they have a huge soft spot for the other. Mars becomes softer, Moon feels courted but also encouraged to be dominant in their emotions and demands if Mars is fair and equal.

✧ Vertex conjunct Venus: being together opens up new self realizations for the Vertex person and it most likely feels like the being with the Venus person is opening them to new ways of self discovery but also realizing what love (doesn't matter which kind here) and coming together can be the answer for many questions or the starting point for many journey regarding self realization. A conenction that might be hard to let go of, because being together opened so many doors and formed you on profound levels.

✧ Venus or/and Sun in the 12th: this is something I've witnessed surprisingly a lot of times in relationships especially. People tend to fall for those who have their Venus and/or Sun in their 12th house, especially if one (or both) planet makes a conjunction with the Ascendant still. I also noticed these were the long term connections that knew each other inside and out. Telepathic and an eerily strong bond was between them. This overlay requires a lot of trust from both people, because not all that is felt is manifested in real life or vice versa, so both got to trust their partner and their word. Requires really getting to know the other's character before letting the self completely fall in the connection.

✧ Moon in the 9th: I don't know who spread the rumor that 9th house overlays are bad or doomed, but this overlay is truly magical because you both will most likely keep expanding your emotional understanding for the other ans grow together. This overlay evokes a dynamic in a relationship that can work against stagnating emotionally in a connection. This person becomes your life partner and your souls roam this world together!

✧ 8th house/4th house overlays: especially if it's Moon, Sun, Venus or Mercury. I've talked a lot about the 8th house overlay on my blog before, but both of these overlays have in common that they create a deep emotional bond to another. Very intimate and can feel like an uncanny resemblance. Staying with each other through thick and thinn basically. 4th house and 8th house overlays can feel triggering at times, because they cna stir up old feelings and negative experiences, as well as childhood trauma (but profoundly when Sun, Moon and Saturn are involved).

✧ Mars in the 5th/7th: pushes your buttons the right way, usually indicates a lot of attraction from the Mars person towards the house person and the house person is just equally excited over the energy Mars provides. Usually in both cases the house person felt very tempted by the Mars person, but I believe this feelings is mutually. Again, creates a dynamic that in the 5th house case prevents both from 'boredom' and in the 7th house case motivates them to develope their assertivness more.

✧ Moon/Mars in the 2nd: very secure. Both feel that they self esteem is boosted by the other, also the connection strives on feeling good together. Spending leisuring time together, or something that makes them both feel good and desirable (even if it's anging around with greasy hair and feeling accepted in their naturalness, also very common, espcially with Moon in the 2nd). In romantic or/and sexual connections the Mars overlay can feel very sensual. Being together because it can be convenient/practical as well.

Composite:

✧ Grand Trine: I know it's not a placement but an aspect pattern, but those who have it in their composite chart usually 'bounce back' preatty quickly after a negative experience/time in their relationship. Works like a subconscious problem solver, possibly both don't even realize it at first.

✧ Moon in the 5th: So many moments will be spend together to feel joy and create meaningul memories together. Spoiling the other with being emotionally open and being unafraid of grand emotions. Really valuing the positive moments together, especially when it's after a negative experience/time. Not wanting to let the saprk that energizes them die. Can enhance romance in romantic connections.

✧ Personal planets in the 10th: motivational, both work towards a common goal together and most likely can pull themself together when the situation it requires and another placement that can two people 'bounce back' and refocus after a negative experience/time, but especially with Moon in the 10th both should pay attention not to forget to look inwards and harness their vulnerable feelings, taking a break to reconnect emotionally regardless of outer circumstances.

✧ Cancer/Leo Ascendant: these conenctions usually valued looking out for the other and taking care of their wellbeing. If one was sad, the ther was looked out for. Cancer rising did this by providing emotional safety and objectivity, Leo rising by reinforcement of positive feelings/self esteem of the other.

✧ Venus in the 3rd: Talking about feelings and needs! Love language becomes basically communication. Makes communication easier (if Venus isn't harshly aspected), but generally it keeps the 'flow' of a connection alive and both can overcome stagnant periods easier.

✧Sun in the 4th/conjunct IC: Feeling like home to each other and trying to provide a comfortable and secure space. The energy here can feel very protective, looking out for the other and being very sensitive to the other's change of emotions is common, as both strive to lay back in safety in the emotional spaces they share.

✧ Saturn in the 7th/8th: intimacy and how two people come together, work together, share their repsonsibilities of the connection and how much they can give to another without falling apart themself are focal points. This can really tie two people together. With the 8th house in Saturn both can be truly intimate and vulnerable in front of the other because they will need to let go of their overly controling and protective habits. In thr 7th house it's about equally distributed responsibility and work in the relationship. Being a team. Both will have their irresponsible tendencies or their egocentric/loner tendencies.

✧ NN conjunct/close to AC/MC: as mucch as the North Node can indicate instability, this can contribute to ongoing progress in a connection. Striving for something better and greater the both can reach. Feeling like there is more to the story, like this connection has a clear direction or special purpose to follow.

✧ Jupiter in the 7th/conjunct the DC: an expansive relationship, feeling like this connection only provides you with more possibilities to broaden your horizons, both don't feel caged in, and thus the freedom this placement provides can some feel insecure, but it's only to look over the garden wall and tell the other about the pretty things they saw, so they can continue their journey together. Both will come together to check in on the other, because being together doesn't exclude personal growth while being emotionally connected.

✧ Saturn aspects: I think without diminishing the negative effect and pressure Saturn provides, Saturn contact in a chart are normal and thus part of the journey. Saturn is known to work like glue, and I think the effect here can make a connection sacred, because both people trust the other, find them reliable and responsible in regard of their feelings and the tasks within the connection. Though 'failing' Saturn's lesson is okay too and very normal. It's also just a aprt of the journey, please don't forget that.

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PHYSICAL BEAUTY IN THE NATAL CHART🍭

Yes, beauty is extremely subjective however we can’t lie and say there isn’t a magnetism to certain people!

With that said, if you have 4+ of these placements you’re more likely to come across as desirable to a big variety of people. If you don’t, don’t worry there is much more little indicators out there. ;). Love yourself <3. Little disclaimer it may be a little different for males and females. 

Venus in 1st/ Libra Rising. No brainer, I swear such symmestrical beautiful people have this placement.

Neptune Dominant, dreamy type beauty.

Lillith- ascendant aspects. More of a sexual appeal, can be objectified at times ):, Usually the body is very desirable.

Moon in cancer for Women. This is beautiful and it radiates very feminine energy and more of a rounder softer look.

Moon in Leo. For males and woman this is very hottt placement 🔥. They most likely will show off their beauty as well.

Pisces ASC For women. Such pretty soft apperance with dreamy eyes. More classified as “adorable”.

SCORPIO ASC. I’ve never met a scorpio ascendant that wasn’t sooooooo desirable I swear. I get lost in their eyes.. 

Aries ASC.  Maybe not too feminine, more on the masculine so men may benefit more from this placement. But definitely attractive and aren’t afraid to let people know that. Desirable eyebrows/ eye shape.

Cancer ASC for women. Curvy figure. Very feminine features. They look like someone to snuggle with, just very attractive and sensual. 

Venus in Taurus. I know I talked about physically but in my opinion the way Venus in Taurus love is so sensual and beautiful it makes you view them so physically attractive as well. Very nice clothing style. Their outfits are so put together in such beautiful way.

Apollo asteroid (1862) in aspect to Venus, Ascendant, Sun. (Especially conjuction, opposition) It’s an asteroid, yes. But its a BIG indicator on someone’s physical beauty in my opinion. Also indicator of how they’re respected and how people are attracted to them. 🥰

Apollo asteroid (1862) in Leo, Cancer, Pisces, Scorpio, Libra for women. Apollo asteroid in Aries, Virgo, Libra, Capricorn for men.  (Or if you classify as more feminine or masculine, gender doesn’t matter much) 

Mars in a water sign for Women.

Mars in an Earth sign for men.

Lillith in 8th or 1st house or 2nd house. 

Capricorn risings. Beautiful bone structure. Extremely wanted features.

Mars- Ascendant aspects. High sexual appeal.

Uranus- ascendant. More of a schocking beauty. Doesn’t look average at all, there is something intrueging about their apparance. Pulls people in. They like that as well.

Venus in Leo. They know people want them as well. They go out their way to look good, they know they look good.

Kallisto asteroid (204) touching the venus, ascendant, sun, moon, jupiter.  (For example Adrianna Lima has it conjuct venus, Beyonce has it conjuct her ascendant, Angelina Jolie has it conjuct jupiter and moon. 

Venus- Pluto aspects. Suffocating like apperance. Intense appeal.

Moon- Ascendant. Cute appearance, most likely shorter. Benefits women more.

Venus in Cancer. They most likely dress casually but they have a very trusting aura that’s attractive, so people would most likely find them physically attractive as well. May benefit from modeling. Found this a lot in actors who are admired for their beauty. Also models

Lillith in water sign for women. Lillith in fire for men.

Venus -Neptune aspects. Dreamy look kind of like a pisces rising. They have a dreamy clothing style as well. Does benefit women a little more. A lot of Victoria Secret models have this.

Gemini risings. They give off more of a “bad bitch” type of appearance. May flaunt their body a lot. In my opinion this one isn’t talked about a lot but I definietly think Gemini risings are extremely attractive. Charming teeth/smile.

Moon in Sagittarius for women. More of a curvy figure. 

Jupiter~ asc. Can give a big bootey, big breasts. More of a curvacious figure. Both men and women usually have dimples. 

Mars in Libra. They put effort a lot to their style.

Asteroid Eros (433) in a water or fire sign. Eros in 1st or 2nd.

Aphrodite Asteroid (1388) in Scorpio/ Taurus/ Libra.

Hera asteroid (103) More of a feminine maturity. Era touching Venus, Ascendant, Sun, Moon. 

Juno (3)  in 1st, 8th, or 2nd.  Juno touching ascendant or Venus or sun.

Bella Asteroid (695). Ageless beauty. Touching Venus, Sun, Ascendant, Moon. **If it’s touching your Venus you will most likely age like fineee winee.** 🤓. Honorable mention to Gemini in this asteroid. You will stay looking so youthful when you’re old asf.

Moon in Scorpio for men especially. Very attractive intensely. Most likely get compliments about their eyes a lot or their nose.

Leo sun. 🔥 Sexy bitches.

Leo Ascendant.. Again sexy bitches! With nice wavy hair. (If not wavy, your hair is definietly a noticeable attribute about you)

Zeus (5731) in Fire or Water. Touching Ascendant or Venus as well.

Earth in big three for very desirable calming features. May look older as well.

Saturn- Ascendant. Benefits men a bit more. More of a skinny lean figure.

Sagittarius Ascendant for Men and Women. Definietly beautiful smiles and big lips. 

Venus in the 2nd house. Venus in 10th house and is known for their beauty.

Asteroid Eva (164). In Libra, Sagittarius, Leo, Scorpio, Pisces.

Moon in 2nd or 1st. More of an innocent type beauty. Women may have more of a motherly look to them. Just very trusting look.

Virgo rising. More of an intellectual look, that is attractive to big auidences. Probably looks good with glasses. 

Lillith- Pluto aspects.

Pluto~ Sun aspects.

There is much more out there, but these are very remarkable. Leave some feedback in the comments. Thank you! 

[blackvelvetallure]

anyone with personal planets in 10th will be able to relate to not feeling enough because of your own and/or your parents standards and how that shit fked up your self esteem

[eighteightyeight]

I have Sun & Mercury in my 10th house with my Saturn, and I can not tell you how true this is for me.

[ashstfu]

why must life have a grand purpose? is it not enough to have some coffee while admiring the stack of unread books beside you?

[nevver]

[luvstrology]

sun square moon

-for people with this aspect, what they want in life may be very conflicting to what they need in life which may cause difficulties for them

-this is said to be one of the most difficult aspects in astrology, as the sun [the need to shine] is always in conflict with the moon [the need for emotional security]

-they usually feel like their head and their heart are not able to work together and are always sending mixed messages which are hard to translate into positive actions/reactions

-they may experience inner struggles which cause them to become/act as their own worst enemy at times; they may be self destructive, attract challenging situations, practice negative habits, get stuck in damaging cycles and/or have negative mindsets/attitudes

-it is common for those with this aspect to struggle with feeling unwanted or unaccepted by others; this either being a big theme of their past or a prevalent belief in their present

-it is possible that for some reason, people with this aspect did not feel accepted, loved, cherished, wanted or appreciated by their parents or prominent figures in their life [maybe particularly their childhood]

-however, it may sometimes be the case that their parents did not necessarily not love them, not accept them or not want them; in some cases their parents may just be opposites to them and express their love in different ways [the quote 'just because you love me does not mean I feel loved by you' may be apt for them]

-regardless of whether they were loved or not, they may have felt unloved or unaccepted in some way at some point, and if so this often causes them to feel determined to prove themselves to the world somehow [sometimes this can be a motivation to prove themselves to whoever made them feel unwanted, but often this can be a drive to prove to themselves that they are deserving of love and deserving of being accepted by others]

-people with this aspect usually experience a struggle between wanting to be nurtured, wanting to be cared for, wanting to be loved and needed by others but in contrast wanting to be independent, wanting to be self sufficient, not wanting to rely or depend on others which can be very conflicting and difficult for them

-because of this, they may experience an internal conflict and feel like they never truly know what they want or understand what they need; for example, if people treat them how they believe they want to be treated, they might react in a way that conflicts what they were initially seeking [if someone gives them the space they believe they needed to be independent, they end up feeling unsupported, whereas if people try to care for them and show love to them, they end up feeling smothered]

-at times, they may just feel like nothing seems right or nothing goes right; they may experience several clashes, conflicts or difficulties in various areas of life which likely will leave them feeling lost and lonely

-despite commonly experiencing a fair share of negativity in life, people with this aspect are commonly a lot more resilient than most [often due to any negativity they have already experienced] and tend to be good at overcoming hard times because of this

-usually, they learn best through experience and generally have had a lot of experiences/hurdles to overcome and work through to learn from. they usually benefit from finally understanding that they need to live life for themselves rather than constantly seeking to prove themselves to others or gain validation from others

-people with this aspect may notice that they experience a lot of ups and downs in life, or have to go through various scandals or dramas

-because of this and their internal struggles, they can become quite reactive people which can result for people around them to be defensive around them or tread carefully around them

-people with this aspect would generally benefit from not reacting too emotionally to things, instead trying to take time to process and understand things rather than reacting straight away or taking things to heart/taking things too personally

-it can be easy for them to blame others/external things on their problems but it would be better for them to acknowledge that a lot of their issues are caused by subconscious internal conflicts that stem from the contrast between their wants and needs

-they may experience repetitive behaviours or hold on to bad habits that impair them from succeeding or healing; sometimes these can stem from the pressure they put on themselves to prove themselves to others or can be a release from the stresses of the conflict between their wants and needs

-perhaps they would need to acknowledge their emotions more than most in order to help themselves and heal from any internal struggles

-it is important that people with this aspect work towards finding a balance in life; especially a balance between their wants and needs. it is vital that they do not give up/sacrifice one for the other; for example, they should not push themselves to never depend on anyone else ever, instead should try to allow themselves to be independent yet open to the love and care of others without feeling needy or incapable for it

-they may also be more linked/attached to their past, so working on letting go of old experiences and releasing anything from the past that does not benefit them in any way would likely help them a lot

-it can sometimes be the case that people with a sun square moon aspect had to suppress or hide their emotions a lot in their past or during their childhood which may cause feelings of low self worth, self doubt and issues expressing and understanding their emotions

-it can often be difficult for them to feel comfortable even with themselves; while it is often easier for them to understand why other people may make them feel uncomfortable at times, when it comes to their own discomfort it can be a lot more difficult for them to process and can therefore make it easier for them to hold onto negativity or feelings of low self worth, insecurity etc

-it can be easy for them to become frustrated with life and usually this is for good reason; it often seems that people with this aspect have been dealt a bad card in life and may feel like they attract misfortune or struggle to obtain any ability to find the resources to succeed or get to where they want to be in life

-while giving up may seem like the only option for them at times, it is so important for them to keep pushing and remain determined and hopeful, as giving up continuously will be more detrimental and harmful for their emotions

-although this aspect seems like total doom and gloom, those with it are capable of success and are capable to live a happy, fulfilled life; they unfortunately may just need to work harder than most to get there and need to be extremely dedicated, focused etc

-their internal struggle between what they want in life and what they need in life may cause them to wander aimlessly which can be the biggest cause of further difficulties or struggles; they would likely benefit greatly from being organised, planning more and having a better vision of their goals

-while it may be natural for people with this aspect to give up easily and stop at the first hurdle, it is essential that they plan enough and never give up when working towards their goals or anything they want in life; they need to be able to learn from their setbacks rather than giving up because of them and using these setbacks to make themselves feel worse emotionally

-inner conflicts may interfere with their external life, relationships, work etc but in order to prevent this they need to stop suppressing their emotions and not be afraid to feel things; they should listen to their deepest wants and needs rather than ignoring or hiding them

-they usually would do well to remember that any insecurity, lack of confidence or feelings of low self worth are not actually reality and instead is only their distorted perception of themselves that is able to be changed if they work on improving their confidence

[samsaranmusing-deactivated20140]

[traumasurvivors]

My trauma didn’t make me stronger. I made me stronger. My trauma just made me traumatized.

[hillarysss]

things i’ve noticed about the rising signs

(Do not repost, plagiarize, “reword” my work) @hillarysss

Aries Risings: Not to feed into the stereotype, but most truly are really impatient. However, what I admire a lot about Aries risings is that they don’t sugarcoat their sayings so you can rely on them for the truth always. They’re also very protective over their loved ones, even if they’re a bit harsh at times, they mean well. They’re also really fun to go with to places like a fair or like a water park. They take risks and are very courageous & bold. They have really nice eyebrows.

Sagittarius Risings: These people are really laid back and you can talk to them about almost anything! One of the things I love about them is that they are free spirited and don’t take anything too seriously unless they have to. They’re really non- judgmental as well. They’re really fun to go with to simple places like the mall, etc. Or escaping to another state at 2:00 am. They have amazing bodies.

Leo Risings: These people are legit so affectionate, I love them so much. They always make you feel better about yourself. You can barely know them and they treat you like your kindergarten bestie! They’re also really creative. They’re super loyal and great to gossip talk with. They have beautiful hair and expressive eyes.

Libra Risings: These people truly are really charming! But I’ve noticed it can be a bit hard to truly get to know them besides that charming surface they have. They know they’re attractive. They truly are peacemakers and laugh at a lot of things. They have really nice faces, even if nothing really stands out.

Gemini Risings: These people are so playful! These people are the type to get you out of dumb trouble you got yourself in. They’re really intelligent and don’t like coming off as too intense. They can be a bit secretive at first, however, once you get to know them.. they really never shut up. They have really random memes saved on their phone. Youthful eyes and expression.

Aquarius Risings: Really intelligent, but I’ve noticed they don’t like coming off that way at first. They like to be seen more chill and then slowly reveal their quirky side. A lot struggle with identity issues. They’re really forgiving and understanding, they understand people are human and will make mistakes. They have really nice skin / butt.

Capricorn Risings: They’re a lot more goofy than given credit for. They tend to have more organized social media / rooms sticking to one theme and things. A lot are really wise and can give off an old soul vibe. They kind of give “Big sister” or “Big brother” vibes when they’re close with somebody. Really caring and thoughtful about their approaches & relies on karma. Nice body structure.

Virgo Risings: They tend to be really shy / come off as really reserved. They give off smart shy kid vibes. I’ve noticed a lot tend to prioritize school, work, education. They tend to have really sarcastic sense of humor. A lot tend to like calmer aesthetic. A lot have model looking faces and bodies. They look 20 when they’re 45.

Taurus Risings: They tend to be really caring and they always seem “put together”, so people may struggle to reach out to them to check up on them, because they always seem fine. More open minded than given credit for, but when they do have their mind set on something there is no going back. They love spoiling their loved ones with love and comfort. They have comforting voices and have curvaceous bodies.

Cancer risings: I’ve noticed a lot of Cancer risings have a lot of acquaintance because they tend to take on the nurturing role a lot, people can’t get enough of them. They’re always there to give advice. While they can be a bit jealous at times, these people truly are kind souls. As long as they’re not pissed. Have beautiful breast/ chest area. Watery eyes.

Pisces risings: These people are a lot more confrontational than most people would say, they just have an ability to convince people easily. These people have natural charm, and usually are connected with their intuition. They look really young and have big watery eyes.

Scorpio Risings: They actually don’t come off as too strong, I’ve noticed a lot come off as very mature. A lot tend to have trust issues, it’s true. They tend to obsess over their interests, wanting to master everything they like. They’re very dependable and loyal, but love their alone time. They have beautiful eyes.

[queenofcaliforniacool]

Astro-Observations #5 @queenlianna

1). Even though the moon is at home in cancer, i have noticed that cancer moons have huge emotional problems. They just bottle it up and their bad mood can ruin the vibe of the whole room. When they are in a bad mood, the want you to feel it too.

2). Aries mars aren’t afraid to start a fight

3). your best friends with have the same moon as your rising or vice versa, same mars sign, or their moon is the sign of your 11th house

4). scorpio + aries in personal planets or main 3 are very self serving. I have noticed they call it “boundaries” or think somehow they are more enlightened, but it is very hard for them to get real with themselves. Aries is the baby of the zodiac and flies into a quick rage, and can keep scorpio from ascension and transforming. Very hard combination. Mean girl / asshole energy (yup i said it)

5). i think mars sextile venus is SEXY af in synastry !! Way hotter than the trine.

6). i loooove leo venus + virgo venus in synastry. Big lessons, BIGGER love.

7). Venus + Venus and Venus + mars conjunctions can be attractive, but also difficult if both want to lead or both want to be lead.

8). Sagittarius moons are emotional explorers

9). aquarius mars can be emotional cheaters because they love to flirt online. They love the detachment of the online affair. They love sexy pictures, and can be very sneaky. Watch out!

10). Sometimes to me, the conjunction energy in moon venus and mars can feel more like a sibling/friendship connection than sexual. From my experience.

stay tunes for #6 hunniezzzzz xoxo!

[orangeafish-deactivated20210622]

[love-notes-to-survivors]

You don't ever need to prove your worth or your value to anyone else. Ever. No matter how they feel about you, your worth, your strength, the things you've survived, your beauty, your courage, what you bring to people's lives, those things remain unchanged.

Your worth cannot even be proven by anything you might be inclined to do to prove it. It is immeasurable. They either see that or they don't. Either way, you don't have time to waste or energy to spare to prove it to them. It exists whether or not they see it.

[blackvelvetallure]

POWER OF PLUTO

Pluto is healthy, useful, and beneficial, when as a result of ***proportionally*** adverse experiences, an individual develops inner confidence and strength, due to practical demonstration of their ability to cope with said experiences and survive them.

Pluto is ***not*** beneficial when its' corresponding experiences are a form of torture, which rather than helping to empower the native, end up being permanently destructive, at least within the current lifetime. While in exercise, it is beneficial to bruise a muscle to the point of inducing it to grow, if said exercise is performed excessively, sprain or permanent damage to the muscle can occur as a result. The same is true with Pluto transits or natal aspects.

Pluto needs to be channelled and employed appropriately, just as Mars does.

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