FOR EVERYONE ASKING FOR PROOF, START HEREā¦
2022. One documented piece of the pattern. Same event. Same silence. Coming up again in two weeks.
Letās do this one more time for the people who showed up loud but didnāt bother to learn anything:
I did not start drama. I did not want any of this.
2022 wasnāt isolated. Different incidents. Same pattern. Same people.
Back in 2022, I had a boundary violation at the event by one of the people on staff. I reported it. I have the emails. I got the standard polished response. Nothing meaningful changed.
What happened later was separate, but followed the same pattern: pushed boundaries, pressure, harm, excuses, silence, protection.
I still kept quiet. Not because nothing happened. Not because I had no proof. But because I did not want my personal life dragged into a public circus. What forced my hand was not me deciding to ācome forward.ā It was me trying to help someone else dealing with the same behavior from the same person.
They came to me. They asked for help.
Then, out of fear, they turned around, changed what actually happened, and passed along an altered version that ended up being shared publicly.
At that point, I no longer had the option of staying quiet, even though I still wanted to.
Then I defended myself. And I was publicly accused of sexual assault. A false accusation. Left up. Repeatedly. Refused to be taken down.
That is what pushed this into court.
So letās be clear: I didnāt go looking for a public fight. I was forced into one, and then punished for defending myself.
Meanwhile, the loudest people coming at me?
Never asked me a single question. Never heard my side. Never wanted facts. They just piled on. Thatās not accountability. Thatās a mob.
And yes, the event from 2022 is happening again in two weeks.
I am not allowed to attend. Other people connected to this situation are. Think about what that says.
This community loves to preach consent, safety, accountabilityā¦until itās someone popular. Someone protected. Someone they donāt want to hold accountable.
Then the rules bend. The behavior gets minimized. And the person speaking up becomes the problem.
I have evidence. A lot of it. More than whatās been shown publicly. There are legal reasons Iām not posting everything, but donāt confuse restraint with a lack of proof.
This is not one misunderstanding. This is not one isolated situation. This is a pattern. Selective enforcement.Protected behavior. Silenced people.
If you werenāt there, didnāt ask, and donāt know the facts, you donāt get to rewrite what happened.
You chose noise over facts. I chose evidence over silence. We are not the same.
Have fun pretending everythingās fine at that event in two weeks. Some of us know better.