lover of all things @blanketcat31 - Tumblr Blog

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NAME: blanketcat

PRONOUNS: they/them, she/her

MBTI: infj-t (last time i checked)

ZODIAC: aquarius

21 yrs old :) i started this blog in my freshman yr and now i am a proud B.A. owner

i just post whatever to be frank (my name is blanketcat tho not frank) and i like to repost my little guys (generally tv show or movie specific, since i also have a reading blog)

DNI: i really do not fuck w conservatives, age regression is also a rough one for me #goinpeace

WELCOME: the radical left, the Marxists, the anarchists, the agitators, the looters and people who in many instances have absolutely no clue what they are doing; also if we’re in the same fandom i welcome you

pls follow my reading account @bingusreads, i post about my reading progress and thoughts there !!

#blanketcat

wingkink

btw it's so fucking stupid you can be anxious physically in your body even after you've decided mentally you don't care. I'm supposed to be in charge here

many-gay-magpies

mergwaine dynamic. gwaine is in love with merlin and merlin is in love with arthur but thats infeasible because of the Everything of them. so merlin is trying to move on and center his word less around arthur and he doesnt consciously MEAN to but the fact of the matter is gwaine is There and Available and Safe and ready to act on his want for merlin in a way arthur is not. so merlin starts something with gwaine, and he doesnt mean to just be using him as a proxy for arthur, something to distract himself in hopes of moving on, but that is in fact what he's doing. meanwhile gwaine is fully aware that he's the second choice and hurting about it a little but doesnt really mind, because he's happy to give merlin all of himself without repayment. bonus opportunity for the gwainthur angle of this to get delicious and homoerotic and messy as well, in a scenario where gwaine looks at arthur and sees his desperate aching love for merlin and just goes. you are his first choice; i know you are, and i know im not. you two were made for each other, and im just a comet caught in the orbit of your star-crossed lovers schtick. but the fact of the matter is, i was brave enough to love him, and you werent. you lost; too slow. i think this could become a wonderful throuple somehow, you know with the strength-courage-magic of it all, but im not entirely sure how to get there. the journey is its own fun

#merwaine #bbc merlin

secondstar-acorn

toxic masculinity <3 yippee <3

arthur pendragon x boys don’t cry by the cure

#bbc merlin

pastapodcaster

If I see Gwaine reduced down to just comedic relief just know we scrapin

#YUUUUPPPPPP #bbc merlin #gwaine

thinkermerwaine

#merwaine #bbc merlin

thinkermerwaine

#bbc merlin #merwaine

paper-wounds

“If I Am Killed For Simply Living” — Althea Davis

coinandcandle

Local house witch telling you to please learn basic housekeeping skills.

It’s not your fault if no one ever taught you but YouTube is a magical place and can teach you at your own pace.

coinandcandle

Someone asked me what housekeeping skills I’d recommend learning.

Keep in ming that this is not me shaming you, I know you have your reasons, folks. This is just a guy who enjoys clean spaces asking that you start learning now.

Here’s what I suggest as an adult who has lived with other adults who didn’t have housekeeping skills:

First and foremost, learn about all the places in your house that need to be cleaned and understand how often they should be cleaned. the American Cleaning Institute (I guess that’s a thing) has a good article about basic cleaning info. Plus this video on cleaning tips is great!

Learn how to do your dishes. HOT water is the only way to clean your dishes.

Learn how to clean your shower head, especially if you live in a place with hard water. Same goes for your sinks.

Learn how to do your laundry correctly. Even without the whole “separating whites and colors” thing, there are things you need to learn about washing your clothes. Learn what the tags mean, too.

Also, you don’t have to use fabric softener and you shouldn’t use it on towels or any fabric meant to absorb. (Learn about laundromats) And please learn how to clean out your dryer vent, it’s a safety hazard!

Get a disinfecting cleaner for your high-touch areas, especially the gross ones like the bathroom. Just because it doesn’t look dirty, doesn’t mean it’s clean!

Learn how to sweep, mop, and vacuum effectively.

You’ll also want to make sure to change out your home’s air filters.

TL;DR, here are some cleaning videos.

How to Clean Everything in Your Bathroom

How to Clean Everything in Your Kitchen

Livingroom Cleaning Routine

How to Clean Everything in Your Bedroom

Now these resources are not the end-all-be-all, but I think if you don’t know much about cleaning your space this is a good way to start.

thumperdaetime

here’s some of the things that are helping me actually clean (as an adult who had messy parents, and has a hard time getting threw my nurodivergency about cleaning specifically) that may be helpful to you:

Favorite Cleaning Book: it helps you work through the emotional side of cleaning (and other care tasks)

Current Favorite Decluttering Method/Concept: it helps you know how much is too much to keep and how to get started when you’re overwhelmed. (having too much stuff makes it incredibly hard to clean/organize.)

Basic Cleaning Skills: this channel is amazing! this man has a special interest in cleaning and cleans people’s spaces who deal nurodivergence that make it hard to clean. he does this for free (or at a deficit because he pays for supplies and dumpsters and transport and such) and does it all with empathy and kindness working With the people as much as people can handle instead of just coming in to “fix” an issue. these videos are a bit different from his usual ones, (the last one’s most like his usual videos) but i find having the sped up cleaning videos with a voiceover can help fill in for body doubling when im too ashamed to bring people into my messy spaces.