The behaviors you see here are some examples of small commitments made by the wife to affirm the bull’s role in their marriage. While exciting and a new adventure, they pale in comparison to what awaits when a couple commits to a bull and in so doing, promotes him to being her boyfriend. Sometimes it’s simply the frequency of their coupling which elevates the bull to boyfriend by default. Other times it’s the nature of commitments asked for and exchanged that escalate the nature of his role and the intensity of the couples’ experience.
Types of commitments can include:
Most cuckold couples desire an experience where they boyfriend is safely able to enjoy natural coupling with the hotwife, but to get to this point requires some commitments by each side. The couple may expect that the boyfriend only date the hotwife, but for that to be fair, the hotwife has to be available at the frequency that makes such a commitment worthwhile and realistic for her boyfriend. Before moving to inviting a boyfriend to enjoy her bare, consider testing.
A bull who has been invited into the marriage and then becomes her boyfriend should be welcome in your home. The most comfortable place for the hotwife to take her boyfriend inside her will always be the marital bed. Obviously this has great mental and emotional consequences for all involved as well. It also means learning to work around having children at home, if applicable.
Cuckolding is a lifestyle of contrasts well before the contrast of skin color for those couples who choose an interracial path. One of those contrasts is the pleasures and access granted a boyfriend above and beyond that granted a husband. A couple cannot invite a boyfriend into the marriage and then allow the husband’s selfish needs to interfere in the bonding between wife and boyfriend. This often requires the husband give up his primary sexual claim to his wife and accept the schedule or limitations that she and/or her boyfriend have chosen for him. Such denial can take a wide range of possibilities and variations and can include one or more of the following (not a complete list):
giving up bare sex with his wife
giving up first-rights (coupling only after the boyfriend)
coupling only x times per y timeframe
coupling only with the boyfriend’s permission
coupling only when the boyfriend is present
Another intense topic for couples is public dating between the wife and her boyfriend. Public dating is enjoyable and rewarding for all roles in the marriage, but for different reasons:
for the boyfriend, typically and preferably single, having a girlfriend to date and take to parties and social events is very important
for the wife, having a romantic and public declaration of his commitment to her is very comforting and arousing
for the cuckold, having his wife and her boyfriend seen together in public, even by strangers, is intensely humbling, which exercises the submissive role a cuckold seeks to enjoy
Whether at his place or yours, being supportive of such quality time together can be used as a reward and demonstration of trust between husband and boyfriend and between husband and wife. The husband demonstrates his trust in the boyfriend taking care of his wife’s safety and the boyfriend demonstrates that trust is well-placed. The wife demonstrates that she can share the details of her time alone with her boyfriend afterward to prove that even when apart, the husband can and will be included in the pleasure she shares with her boyfriend.
There’s no free lunch. As much as I’ve said that a husband has the right to sometimes witness and be involved in his wife’s coupling with a boyfriend, I never said such a right comes without any cost. one of the ways a couple can entice an otherwise reluctant boyfriend when it comes to the cuckold’s presence/participation is by incentivizing the boyfriend’s participation by offering one or more of the commitments listed above.
A bull may or may not ever become comfortable with a cuckold’s participation, but a boyfriend has much more reason to make an effort to include the husband.
Having a boyfriend, rather than a bull, is the only way a couple can truly explore the cuckold lifestyle to the fullest dimensions possible.
