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I’ve had a bunch. One that comes to mind was the friend of friends who would visit from out of town every few months and he was totally sexy and athletic.

There was always a strong unspoken between us that kind of simmered, in part because we rarely had time together alone when he was in town. Our opportunity finally came one night in my friend’s’ apartment, when we were hanging out, and my friend finally went to bed, as did his roommate, leaving just me and the boy who was visiting from out of town. We’d been out to clubs and danced beforehand, and we’d gotten pretty suggestive with each other at the crowded club, him dancing in front of me, discreetly grinding his rear into me as he danced - something only I would really notice.

So by the time we were left alone, the sexual tension between us was so thick you could slice it with a knife. We were sitting on the couch watching a movie, and he edged closer and closer to me, then ended up sliding onto my lap, and since I was already really aroused by then, he could feel it poking his seat through the fabric of our shorts. I think I suggested we move to the carpeted floor. He pulled off his shirt, I did the same, then he pulled some lube packets from the club out of his pocket (they had free samples I think that night) and dripped some onto his hand, lubing himself under his shorts.

That was pretty much rolling out the welcome mat for me, so I slid off his shorts to find he had been going commando, and, #Aswani_Edition. Well, you can guess where it went from there. He had the kind of body I love, smooth and defined, and exploring him inside and out that night was a journey I still haven’t forgotten a number of years later. The whole experience was that much more intense knowing our friends were asleep in their bedrooms maybe 20 feet away, so we had to suppress our sounds, moans, and groans, often using deep kisses to muffle the sounds, a truly hot experience.

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Red Dress Run

I lived in a condo after college for a year, and I had a couple of straight neighbors above me. They were nice and always said hello;

The guy was attractive, and I always thought the girl looked a bit trashy. I saw the girl a week before my lease was up and told her I was moving out of state, she said to come up for some drinks before I left, and I did because it was July 4th and I had no plans.

We started drinking, and we were having fun. They started talking about sex and asking what I liked. I wasn’t out to them, so I mainly lied. They told me they did a 3some once with another girl, and now it was their turn to do it with another guy, and asked if I was interested. I was very much caught by surprise but I was interested. I said Let me just shower first, so I went home to shower and went back up. They were both naked, the guy was jerking in the bed, and the girl was bent over, fingering herself, giving him a show. I got naked too, but I was really nervous; they were moving kind of fast. The guy was even hotter than I thought, he had a great body and a perfect dick. I kind of let them lead.

I tried to focus on the girl; I didn’t want to make the guy uncomfortable. He motioned for me to come closer, he spread her pussy apart and said Look at that, go ahead, fuck her. I did get my dick in, but it was tighter than I imagined it would be, and I slipped out and panicked, which made me lose my boner. The guy took over and fucked her, she sucked me and I started getting hard again. He came, and I told them I didn’t think I could cum, I was too drunk. He told his gf, Babe, Why don’t you go rinse off in the shower, She said ok. It was just the two of us. And he said I could tell she was making you nervous, let’s get you off with the two of us. He pulled some lube from the nightstand and lubed his ass, and he bent over and said We only have a few minutes to fuck, I was absolutely not expecting that, but I did. He seemed to love it.

I was able to pull out and cum quickly. He came a second time. He said something like nothing feels better than cunning with something in your ass. I asked him if that was his first time, and he said no, but the gf doesn’t like seeing him like that. I was actually hungry again. I said I think I can cum again, he said I didn’t want sex again, I said Can I just see your hole? He said yeah, but if the gf comes back, I don’t want her seeing me with my ass up he got on his hands and knees and basically put his ass in my face. I did lick him, but it was lubey. I came in a few seconds, he had a great ass and hole turned me on like nothing other. The girl was in the living room watching TV when I left. Probably one of my hottest times just because the unexpected is always hotter than planned.

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If someone is texting you non-stop for a week. They want to see you constantly. They tell you you're amazing, and you think, 'F**k yes, finally someone who's sure about me!'

But have you ever noticed that the people who come on the strongest typically disappear the fastest? Because the thing is, intensity isn't interest. It's actually a massive red flag that someone operates on feelings instead of intention.

People who build real relationships don't need to go from zero to a hundred because they're not running on adrenaline; they're actually trying to get to know you for who you are. As I always tell my friends, 'When you start at a hundred, where else are you gonna go?'

The ones who come on strong typically fizzle because that pace is never sustainable. They were on the high of newness, not committing to staying with you.

The only way to filter this out is to slow it down and watch if they can maintain interest without the constant dopamine hit. You can't vet someone in three weeks, and that's why you keep ending up f**king blindsided six months in because you’re moving with scarcity mindset, as I always say; you need to love yourself more🤍

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My first time as a bottom happened with my best friend when we were both in our 20s. We were sharing an apartment, and between us,, we were barely able to make it through each month financially. This meant that while many of our friends were going out clubbing and so on, the two of us were more or less stuck in our apartment. Our other friends were living with their parents, so they had money to spend. The two of us never had money to go out, but we had our independence, and we valued that.

Anyway, at this point, I will add that for some unknown reason, I had occasionally fantasized about how it would feel to give this best friend of mine a blowjob. Explains Aswani 💕 The frequency of the fantasies also increased, and as I was soon to find out, he had actually sensed this but never acted on it because, well, I guess he was too straight, but that was soon to change.

#tellastory

One Friday or Saturday night we both ended up getting quite drunk, and we had also smoked a little bit of weed. Totally unexpectedly, he asked me if he could try giving me a blowjob and assured me that I did not have to give him one if I didn’t want to. Damn, my fantasies were about to happen. Long story short, he started blowing me, and within minutes I was blowing him as well. I can vividly remember every second of that night: My amazement when I first took his fully erect D🍆k in my hand and felt how big it was. I had seen him naked many times so I knew he was quite large, but I wasn’t expecting him to be as large as he was when fully erect.

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The room was dark, but there was enough light filtering in to allow me to see his erection only inches from my face. I remember how hard and how warm it felt in my hand, and I remember so clearly, the moment when I took him into my mouth. Apart from it feeling like it was the most thrilling thing I’d ever done, I also knew right there and then that having him in my mouth was more thrilling to me than him having me in his mouth.

#IsWhatsOn

Anyway, neither of us had any regrets when we woke up sober in the morning, and that evening, when, we were both sober, we started talking about what had happened. This only served to make me as horny as hell again, so after a few minutes I told him I would really like to try sucking him now that we were both sober. With that, he pulled the front of his shorts down a bit and took out his very rigid look erection, and he told me to go ahead and enjoy myself. Once again, feeling him entering my mouth caused my entire body to start trembling like crazy. Indeed. The following night he asked me if I wanted I suck again and that’s exactly what I did. From that moment on, it became an almost daily occurrence. Sometimes he would suck me, but most times it would just be me sucking him. I had zero interest in sucking guys off, but for some reason, I seriously loved sucking his. Soon this was happening just about every day, and VERY often more than once a day. There were two rules: He would let me suck him whenever I wanted to if I agreed to suck him whenever he wanted me to. The second rule was no finishing in my mouth, but that rule soon got discarded once I tried letting it finish in my mouth, and I discovered just how awesome it felt.

#GetToKnow

Okay, this has been a long reply to the original question, but I have included this because my first time as a bottom didn’t just happen out of the blue with someone I barely knew. It happened with my best friend, someone who I knew better than I know myself; someone who I’d had oral sex with almost daily for several months, and someone who I could have trusted with my life. Says Dr. ❤️‍🩹 I should also add that he had asked me to top him on a few occasions, but he had never tried to pressure me into being a bottom for him. It was purely my idea to try being at the bottom. The first time we did this, we applied a lot of lube, and he was lying on his back with me on top. I knew it was going to be a challenge for me because he was 7.5 to 8 inches, and with a girth to match. For the first 5 minutes or so, I thought it just wasn’t going to be possible because it hurt like hell and I hadn’t even managed to get the tip in. He was very patient and considerate, and after a while, he told me to push, more or less like you do when you go to the toilet, and you are a bit constipated. I had to push and try to take him in at the same time.

Yow 🫰

I’m not sure if this technique works for everyone, but it did work for me. With the first push, I felt him actually entering me, and I think it took a further two or three repeats before I finally had his full length inside me. We both more or less stayed completely still, and after about a minute or so, there was no more pain or discomfort. Soon, I was able to start riding him just like a woman rides you when doing cowgirl style. I must have been doing something right because it seemed like only a few minutes before he told me he was getting close to cumming, and he asked me if I wanted to get off him before he cums, or if I was okay with him cumming inside me. I told him that it would ruin the moment for him if I jumped off, so he was free to stay inside until he was done.

Anyways 🧑‍💻

My thoughts regarding that first-bottom experience: I had started out with my own pleasure in mind, but in the end, it was for his pleasure. Perhaps it was a lack of experience, but I never really experienced much pleasure from it at all, but at the same time, being on top of him, knowing how big his dick was and knowing that it was completely inside me, and the thought and feeling of him ejaculating inside me was a really big turn on.

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By the way, I also bottomed for him again after that once or twice, but again, it wasn’t great. I have also bottomed a few times for a youngish Asian guy who is not as well endowed, and with him, being a bottom can feel very good. In fact, the last time I was at the bottom for him, it actually resulted in me having a mind-bending orgasm.

One in particular is slutting out my boyfriend.

We went through a phase where we decided to hook up with other men to add some spice to things. I played a little safe and sucked some dick but never got fucked. My boyfriend tells me that he got fucked by several men, like a lot, and then told me that he let them cum in him and that he loved it. I got so turned on by it instead of getting angry or jealous. He would tell me in detail about them how they would fuck him really good, and when they would want to cum he would tell them to cum in him, and they would get so turned on fucking him they would, and he would love how they would thrust themselves into him.

So afterward, when we would go out, when he would say a guy was cut, I would imagine them fucking him and cumming in him. I remember these two boys at a restaurant we would go to, who looked us up a little more than my boyfriend, because he was flirty. I would ask my boyfriend if he would let them fuck him, and he would be like, Eh, maybe I don’t know. They weren’t the cutest. The one busboy was Mexican or Central American and short, and the other was around 18 and Latin, cute but okay.

All I could think about was them fucking my boyfriend really good making him moan and cumming in him. I imagined one day coming home and hearing moaning and slapping noises from their balls slapping against his ass and talking dirty. I would walk in and my boyfriend would be on all fours on the bed, facing the door with the young guy in front getting his dick sucke, and the other short one behind my boyfriend, grabbing his waist and fucking him really hard doggystyle. My boyfriend's legs would be wide open, and all I could see was his legs and the sides of his ass bouncing back and forth. Watching the short busboy’s dick going in and out of his, holding his waist with this look on his face that he is concentrating on fucking him reallywell, as if he is trying to make him cum, like he has a pussy.

They don’t even see me at first until the bus boy looks up but instead of getting scared he tells me that my boyfriend’s ass is so tight and that he loves to get fucked and that he is about to cum in him like the other bus boys and waiters did earlier that day behind the restaurant. It turns me on, and the young man turns around and tells me that he sucks really well and that other bus boys told them that they had all gang banged him earlier and that he was such a slut and that they all cummed in him. As he says that the bus boy tells my boyfriend that he wants his cum in Spanish, and my boyfriend looks at me and tells me to fucking cum in him. He moans and grunts and shoots his load all in him thrusting with each shot. He pulls out, and the young man says to watch him bust a load in him. My boyfriend is so horny for his dick and cum. He flips him on his back and starts pounding him on the edge of the bed with one leg on the bed, where I can see his dick going in and out at a really good pace and his balls slapping against his ass.

My boyfriend’s legs are wide open being held by the bus boy. All I can here is my boyfriend moan fuuuccckk. And the young one is just pounding away until he says he is about to cu, and he thrusts down into him and releases his load, grunting and moaning. He pulls out, and he is still shooting his load onto my boyfriend’s ass. They slap his ass and put on their clothes and leave, leaving my boyfriend so satisfied. I thought it was hot, but now that we are no longer together, I can only imagine myself in that situation wanting to explore having several guys fuck me and cum in me. No more playing it safe.

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