BlkRmOne

SGL "gay" African-American multi-cultural, single, creative, male (40s).Checking this out for self-expression, self-improvement and maybe making a friend or two.

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[blkrmone]

Black SGL History

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Why do charities beg from people who don’t have the money?

[blkrmone]

Relationship Imperfection

In all human relationships from friendships to marriage, there comes a point when one party to the relationship will make a mistake and/or offend an other party to the relationship.  This moment is not caught in picture perfect photos of the best or seemingly flawless moments in the life of the relationship. 

The two parties involved have to ask themselves individually if the mistake or offense happened, and if it did in fact happen, is it something that is worth working through?  Was there a simple misunderstanding?  Was there a break in trust?  They’ll have to find some way to name what happened and communicate what it is.  There has to be effort to communicate. 

There has to be both honest speaking and deep hearing, giving in care and receiving in care.  If this type of communication is present, then and ONLY then will a healthy resolution be reached.  I say resolution, because not everything is repairable.  Everything will not always be “fixed.” 

But sometimes, there will be repair.  Sometimes you have a chance to actually fix the break.  If it’s worth it, give yourself that chance.

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[yveswife]

En español para quien lo necesite:

Redadas de ICE van a empezar en domingo en los próximos lugares:

-Miami, Atlanta, Chicago Baltimore, Denver, Houston, Los Angeles, New Orleans, New York City, San Francisco.

Si tu casa o tu trabajo es interceptado por ICE recuerda:

- Tienes el derecho de decir que quieres un abogado

- Tienes el derecho de mantenerte en silencio

- Tienes el derecho contra las examinaciones ilegales por agentes de ICE

- No tienes que firmar ningún documento

- Tienes el derecho a no abrir tu puerta

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[thechronicleofshe]

How To Get A Job Fast As Hell

 @owenabbott​ 

Apply to a  job, wait (1) day, then call.  Give them your first and last name. Tell them you submitted an application and that you’re very motivated to find [Enter field name] work. Let the conversation lead you wherever it takes. Be very polite. Say” thank you for your time, I’ll be looking forward to hearing back from you.” Rinse, repeat. This is to force them to be looking out for your application. 

 When you get to the interview, shake their hand firmly,  tell them your first and last name.  

Describe your experiences  as “ two years transcription and data entry” if you have a desk job interview and “ [however many years]  costumer service, retail and stock” for your retail jobs.  

Don’t use job “ buzz words” I stg they hear them all day. Say  things like, “ I’m detail oriented and am very good at taking instruction.”  “ I would like to work for a company with integrity and I feel that [ company name] would be a good fit”

When they ask you if you have “reliable transportation” say  YES. don’t tell them what kind of transportation, just say yes. (if you don’t do this, you wont get the job , I’m telling you right now). 

Research the company. Know what they do, why they do it, how OLD the company is. WHERE it was founded, and what kind of position you’re intending to apply for.

When they ask you “ give us a situation where you had to blah blah blah” Make one the fuck up. Make yourself sound good as hell, and like you put your company’s needs slightly above the customer’s needs, but make the customer happy. 

If they ask you about being outgoing, Say you “like to focus on your work so you can concentrate on doing things right” (which buys you out of having to act friendly all the time)

Questions for after the interview:

1.  Does this position offer upward mobility?

2. Do you enjoy working for the company? (if you’re not interviewing for a temp agency who will send you anywhere)

 Then, shake their hand,  Ask them to repeat their name (REMEMBER THIS) say thank you for your time, wish them a nice day and leave. write their name down outside if you have to, just remember the fuck out of it. 

AFTER your interview, send a card directed to the name of the person who interviewed you (I’ll give you them) that says “Thank you for the interview, I appreciate the opportunity. have a great day” This shows  that you have an understanding of professionalism, and will have them thinking of you kindly (or at least remembering you) when they’re shuffling through the choices. 

DO NOT tell them you just moved to the city over the phone.  In person, tell them you just moved to the city. Make it sound like the only reason you need a job is because you moved. Not because you’re desperate. 

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 The titles of each section are key words you can use to search for jobs on Snagajob.com  and Simplyhired.

Data Entry:

http://citystaffing.com/job/data-entry-specialistsmailroom-clerk/?utm_source=Indeed&utm_medium=organic&utm_campaign=Indeed

https://www.roberthalf.com/officeteam/job-search/chicago-il/data-entry-clerks-needed/43517752?codes=IND

http://www.simplyhired.com/job/data-entry-specialists-job/chicago-transit-authority/jepfivkhjk?cid=udsowkxtausyzitcfeecaeuzoxkltmbl

https://jobs-theprivatebank.icims.com/jobs/3435/temporary—data-entry/job?mode=job&iis=SimplyHired&iisn=SimplyHired&utm_source=simplyhired&utm_medium=jobclick&mobile=false&width=792&height=500&bga=true&needsRedirect=false&jan1offset=-360&jun1offset=-300

 Front Desk:

http://localjobs.joblur.com/jobapplication2/?jobid=99957&subaffid=300006&JobType=Food%20/%20Bev%20/%20Hosp&ix=1&c1=99957

https://jobs.ajg.com/job/-/-/109/1256110?apstr=%26src%3DJB-10280

https://pepper.hiretouch.com/job-search/job-details?jobID=32066&job=receptionist

http://accesscommunityhealth.hodesiq.com/jobs/default.aspx?JobID=5203566 (this one is close to the place you rented.)

http://ihg.taleo.net/careersection/all/jobdetail.ftl?job=R113601&lang=en&media_id=24863&src=Indeed&src=JB-10920

https://covalentcareers.com/employer/listing/86450f8517588197c9b04f5068ed4300/detail/?apply=1&ref=indeed&v=30&utm_source=indeed&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=indeed_optical

http://www.careerbuilder.com/jobseeker/jobs/jobdetails.aspx?APath=2.21.0.0.0&job_did=JHN0KY6823WBWZX21VM&showNewJDP=yes&IPath=JRKV0F

http://www.simplyhired.com/job/front-desk-receptionist-customer-service-sales-job/rosin-optical-co-inc/qaeoquzgdi?cid=ivdnhijkmxchdanahwfoupazcwisfnxt

http://www.simplyhired.com/job/receptionist-front-desk-job/all-us-jobs/fonj7wmldf?cid=trhyvmfcsgjltxkjxkemyinsjveewfjp

Other jobs you don’t need a degree for that aren’t retail:

Dental hygenist ( yeah, seriously, who knew!) They also make about 40,000 a year)

Stenographer-Court Reporter

Surveyer ( you need a certificate for this, but its something you can get while working a temporary job and doing this on the side. Also, they make like $55,000 a year sooooooo) https://sjobs.brassring.com/TGWEbHost/jobdetails.aspx?jobId=1406428&PartnerId=16023&SiteId=5118&codes=IND

Real Estate Broker

Purchasing agents, except wholesale, retail, and farm products ( basically you arrange to buy large things) they make like 60K

Claims adjuster 

Loan Officer

Subway driver (trains) they make like 60K,

Duct Cleaner: http://jobview.monster.com/Duct-Cleaners-950-00-Weekly-Entry-Level-Flexible-Hours-Call-to-Apply-Job-Chicago-IL-US-161970321.aspx?intcid=re

[theherunoirnetwork]

I knew this but I’m reblogging cause someone might not know

[rootbeergoddess-deactivated2017]

I’m saving this.

[same-2-same]

This helped me get a job

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Throwing up the hacks for y'all

[khayyat-deactivated20200810]

for anyone who might need this

[drowningxlessons-deactivated202]

All of this is really good advice -

My addition would be to find out the name of the interviewer you’re meeting with before hand and pepper their name while you talk throughout the whole interview, but not too much and I emphasis the part about shaking their hand, thanking them for their time and saying their name when you do it

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[blkrmone]

Life with Kam

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Jontavian and Brandon

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Debt Collectors, Credit Repair & Credit Score: It’s Way More Than Just Your Credit Score

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Why Trying to “END” Suffering Sucks || Stop Running - Keyth Garcia, Welcome Home

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Why do charities beg from people who don’t have the money?

[blkrmone]

Loc’d Life - Post Harvey

Saw the posts about the beauticians in Houston visiting the shelter and offering free hair care for the victims of the hurricane.  Box braids and weave works were ‘out’, nada, too much, the most...  but cornrolls were a go.  Got me wondering how the dreadlocked brothers and sisters were fairing.  Are freeform brothers and sisters undisturbed at least in the hair department?

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Link: https://www.buzzfeed.com/amphtml/amberjamieson/this-group-of-women-is-helping-to-fix-the-hair-and-spirits

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Boost!

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Men’s Face Peel | Skincare routine

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2 Strand Twist Black Man Bun & Styles with Shaved Sides - Brax Chat