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I’d be running up that road Be running up that hill With no problems

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Art by Clare Elsaesser

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Ximena Moral

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Ximena Moral

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not to be a nerd but it’s so crazy how he (Bernini) really did that from cold hard stone……. truly a spectacle, truly breathtaking, an honor to behold

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🪽Juno & Your Soulmate -Houses🪽

❤️‍🔥Juno in 1st house- u want someone who is bold, fiery. It also suggests that your freedom and independence is important for you in a relationship. You want someone who is similiar to you and has similar qualities to you. It is important to you that the person is active and likes to do several things. This placements indicates important life lessons related to connecting with others. You may seek out partners who elevate your status and help you achieve your goals. Your soulmate is someone who is as independent as you or has the same energy as you. The energy here is very important!

🥐Juno in 2nd house- u want someone who is stable and gives you material security. You appreciate luxuries and comfort. You are drawn to someone who is generous and financially self-sufficient, as this enhances your sense of stability within the relationship. Someone who is dominant and who knows what they are doing. Your soulmate is someone who will make you feel that it is okay if you feel safe through material things and someone who will appreciate you for you.

🪴Juno in 3rd house- maybe you want someone who is younger or looks younger. Communication and learning are important in this regard. You like a person with whom you can have mental stimulation. Your partner needs to stay interesting to you, or else you get bored and might look for excitement outside of the relationship. Maybe it can be someone who is your classmate, neighbor or you know them through a friend. Your soulmate is someone with whom you will mentally catch up.

🧚🏼‍♀️Juno in 4th house- u want someone which gives you a sense of home, familiarity, a sense of comfort. Someone with whom you can be at home. A person who will be sympathetic, caring, emotional and who will understand your moods and accept all your emotional responses. You seek protection and nurturing. It is important for you to find a partner who prioritizes family life to worldly success. Also ur relationships with family members become more important after you get married. You also like someone who will have the same view of home and life at home. Your soulmate will be the person who will literally represent home for you (feeling like you've come home).

🪼Juno in 5th house- u want someone who is main character , in the spotlight , famous or someone who's always in center of attention. A person with whom you can always have fun and maintain a romantic atmosphere. You like someone who is charismatic, proud, puts you on first place always. Someone who is always here for u. Partnership helps you be more creative and gives you space to express yourself. Your soulmate is a person who will remind you of your childhood, give you the feeling of childhood, or even a person who will actually be from your childhood.

🛁Juno in 6th house- u want someone with whom you can share your routine and lifestyle. A person who is productive and active, organized.It can happen that you work together or that you meet in the workplace. You need spouse to be a partner in your day-to-day activities. It can also happen that you are so in love with your work that you prioritize it over your family. Maybe you need someone to help you balance your life. Your soulmate will be a person who will help you, do many things for you, help you organize your schedule, someone who will take care of your health.

🧸Juno in 7th house- u want someone who is loving, honest, balanced, beautiful, romantic, maybe hopeless romantic, someone who dreams as much as you. This placement indicates a deep need for marriage and commitment. You crave to find the right partner and get married. Marriage holds important life lessons for you. In a partnership, you discover fulfillment by engaging with someone who equally values their relationships with others. Your soulmate is someone who will bring beauty into your life. Someone who will show you the beautiful side of life. Someone who will value the relationship as much as you do.

🦋Juno in 8th house- u want someone who is deep, intense, dark, private. You want someone who will have a depth within them that will only be shared with you. Someone who will obsess over you and put you first. Someone who will make you feel that you don't need to be ashamed of your bad side. U want intensity in a relationship. Joint resources can also be an important focus of your marriage. Sharing absolutely everything with a person is very important to you and juno here. Your soulmate is a person who will give you the feeling that you can completely trust them and who will be only yours. Someone who will give you their soul (soul connection).

🎸Juno in 9th house- u want someone who likes to travel, likes to explore, learn, do new things. Someone who is optimistic, funny, who always finds something positive. Your partner has to intellectually stimulate you and question your beliefs. You sometimes meet your partner on a trip or through some religious gathering. They are often from a different cultural background. Relationships help you see the bigger picture and gain a deeper understanding of the world and yourself. You soulmate is someone who will give you meaning to your life. Someone who will make you alive.

🩶Juno in 10th house- u want someone who is career focused, hard working, smart. This placement can indicate living in the public eye after marriage. It can be a person who is in a higher position or a person who has an important role. Maybe someone who is older and more mature. You want someone with whom you can build something (it is important to you that the relationship is always being built). You want someone who is practical and shows love. Your soulmate si someone who will give you a realistic view of the world, support you, do things for you and be patient with you.

✨Juno in 11th house- u want someone who is unique, different from the rest, someone who stands out from the crowd ,is rebellious. This also indicates that you can meet your partner through social activities or volunteering. This means it’s highly likely that you’ll find yourself in a serious relationship with someone who is a good friend or otherwise familiar to you. Someone to share your dreams with. Your soulmate is someone who will be your friend and your lover.

🐚Juno in 12th house- u want someone who is dreamy, artistic, mysterious, compassionate. You have a tendency to fall in love with people who are not available. With juno here you can fall in love with people who need help and you can get married to someone who easily gets lost in life. These people may be prone to emotional escapism, withdrawal, detachment, running into a world of illusions and dreams, and, above all, self-deception when their partners do not match their ideals. Your soulmate is a person who will give you the atmosphere of a movie / fairy tale. Someone you will feel subconsciously.

-Rebekah🩵🧚🏼‍♀️🐚

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Dreaming of fairytale forest-like bedrooms~

[ayyries]

SUSTAINING RELATIONSHIPS WITH ASTROLOGY: THE 5TH HOUSE (PART 2)

Read Part 1 here.

With natal astrology, you can find your attitude towards different kinds of relationships and what kind of needs you can provide and need from others. The following houses represent these kinds of relationships:

5th House: Fun, casual, romantic relationships

7th House: All one-on-one interactions

8th House: Intimate relationships

11th House: Friendships, group relationships

This post will focus on how to sustain relationships found in the 5th House. If you have interceptions, your interpretation will be different.

Aries ruling the 5th House/Taurus ruling the 6th House: With Aries ruling your 5th House, you find your romantic and casual relationships to be a place where you can assert yourself. Due to this, you often like to take charge in your romantic relationships - making you relationships aggressive, but also passionate. To keep the fire going in your romantic relationships though, the fiery romance you ignite needs to be kept at a stable place. With Taurus ruling your 6th House, you can sustain the passionate nature of your romantic relationships by implementing a consistent and comfortable everyday routine. With a set everyday foundation, the passionate fire you assert into your romantic relationships will be kept alive. To keep passion thriving, consistency must be present.

Taurus ruling the 5th House/Gemini ruling the 6th House: With Taurus ruling the 5th House, you find your romantic and casual relationships to be a place of pleasure and stability. Due to this, you often like to indulge yourself and your partner in various pleasures - your romantic relationships will be a place for you to relax. To keep this stability and consistency though, your romantic relationships will have to be flexible and open to communication if it wants to sustain unforeseeable circumstances. With Gemini ruling your 6th House, you can keep your romantic relationships consistent by making your everyday life more open and flexible by communicating your needs. By creating more flexibility in your routine, you are creating more ways and opportunities for your relationships to be stronger, more stable, and more consistent.

Gemini ruling the 5th House/Cancer ruling the 6th House: With Gemini ruling the 5th House, you find your romantic and casual relationships to be a place to be curious and to question. Due to this, you often like to mentally stimulate yourself and your partner through learning new things and having numerous conversations. To keep your romantic relationships a place of curiosity though, your romantic relationships will have to feel comfortable and safe, for you can’t learn something new when you’re constantly looking out for danger. With Cancer ruling your 6th House, you can keep your romantic relationships fun by establishing a sense of home and safety through your everyday routine. By establishing a safe space, you are creating a space where you will be able to be curious with a minimal sense of danger.

Cancer ruling the 5th House/Leo ruling the 6th House: With Cancer ruling the 5th House, you find your romantic and casual relationships to be your sense of home. Due to this, you often like to make yourself and your partner comfortable by establishing the relationship as a safe space. To keep your romantic relationships a safe place though, your relationships has to highlight you and your partner’s individual and unique needs. With Leo ruling your 6th House, you can keep your relationships distinctly safe (like home) by paying attention to yourself and what you personally want through your daily routine. By highlighting on your unique needs, you will be able to create a relationship that feels like coming home after a long trip. Home is home because it puts a spotlight on the needs of the people living in it.

Leo ruling the 5th House/Virgo ruling the 6th House: With Leo ruling the 5th House, you find your romantic and casual relationships to be a place to showcase yourself and your partner. Due to this, you often like to do grand, dramatic, and generous gestures in your relationships, showing the best of what you can bring into a relationship to get and give validation. However, to keep your romantic relationships a grand place, your relationship has to be organized. All grand acts of love come with good planning. With Virgo ruling the 6th House, staying on top of your daily routines and habits will help you relax and have fun in your romantic relationships. If you can organize and manage the little things, you won’t have to worry about them while having fun with your relationships.

Virgo ruling the 5th House/Libra ruling the 6th House: With Virgo ruling the 5th House, you find your romantic and casual relationships to be a place of managing and helping your partner. Due to this, you often like to make sure your romantic relationships don’t fall out due to small mishaps. However, to make sure that your romantic relationships will keep on running, you have to consider contributions to the relationship from both you and your partner. With Libra ruling the 6th House, seeking to work together and to have a balanced everyday life will encourage you to constantly pay attention to the needs of your partner, eventually leading to paying attention to your romantic relationship. If you can consider your partner’s needs and thoughts, then you can always work and try to help them in your romantic relationships.

Libra ruling the 5th House/Scorpio ruling the 6th House: With Libra ruling the 5th House, you find your romantic relationships to be a place of socializing and peace. Due to this, you often like to be considerate of your partner and you will always try to balance the idea of give and take. However, to make sure that your relationship stays in your idea of balanced, you have to understand the secret intensity that lies between you and your partner. With Scorpio ruling the 6th House, keeping your everyday life and habits a secret from the world and being dedicated to establishing a deeper connection in the daily life between each other will keep the peace you want in your romantic relationships. If you can handle chaos effectively in your everyday life, you can keep peace in your romantic relationships.

Scorpio ruling the 5th House/Sagittarius ruling the 6th House: With Scorpio ruling the 5th House, you find your romantic relationships to be a place where you can be deep and establish an intimate connection to your partner. Due to this, you often like to be secretive and passionate in your romantic relationships. You want your relationships to be meaningful. However, to keep your romantic relationships intense, you have to able to have fun with one another. With Sagittarius ruling your 6th House, implementing fun, freedom, and novelty into your daily routine will give you a break from having your relationship be too intense. If you can have fun and and learn a thing or two from your partner, you can definitely stick closer together. You can’t be close to a person you don’t have fun with.

Sagittarius ruling the 5th House/Capricorn ruling the 6th House: With Sagittarius ruling the 5th House, you find your relationships to be a place of freedom and fun. You often seek for discovery in your romantic relationships. Due to this, you often like to initiate spontaneity, surprises, and fun in your relationships. However, to keep the fun going and to find something new, you need to establish the opposite: seriousness and what you know. With Capricorn ruling the 6th House, establishing a set and realistic routine will ground your adventurous romantic relationships. If you want to have an adventure, you have to have a point of departure. If you can be serious and responsible with your partner, then you can definitely have fun without bounds with minimal consequences.

Capricorn ruling the 5th House/Aquarius ruling the 6th House: With Capricorn ruling the 5th House, you find your romantic relationships to be a place that is long-lasting, serious, realistic, and meaningful. Due to this, you often like to have a sense of realism and structure in your romantic relationships. However, to keep your relationship structured to guide you on the right path, your relationship must be able to go through unpredictability. With Aquarius ruling the 6th House, not conforming to the typical daily routine and trying interesting things will help test and improve the serious romantic relationships you want. If your romantic relationships can go through the weirdest surprises and get past the most unconventional routines, your relationship can stand against time.

Aquarius ruling the 5th House/Pisces ruling the 6th House: With Aquarius ruling the 5th House, you find your romantic relationships to be a place where you can be unique, weird, and unconventional with your partner. Due to this, you often like to try interesting new things and to keep the relationship unpredictable. However, to keep your relationship full of surprises, your relationship must be able to embrace ambiguity and a lack of structure. With Pisces ruling the 6th House, being flexible and creative in your relationships will often bring the surprises you are looking for in your romantic relationships. If your romantic relationships can stand through confusion and a lack of structure, then your relationships can definitely take the exciting yet unexpected turn you’ve been looking for.

Pisces ruling the 5th House/Aries ruling the 6th House: With Pisces ruling the 5th House, you find your romantic relationships to be a place where you can overly extend yourself by being creative and compassionate to your partner. Due to this, you often like to give a lot to the relationship and to delve deep into what your partner needs. However, if you want to make your relationship a place of constant giving and love, you have to make sure you know yourself well to know your limits. With Aries ruling your 6th House, fighting to assert what you want and being independent in your daily life will help you sustain a working identity in giving romantic relationships. If you can fight for yourself, then you can most definitely fight against circumstances to be deeply compassionate and loving.

Part 3 will be about specifically interpreting how to sustain and stabilize your one-on-one interactions in the 7th House by looking at the house cusp.

[universalstrology]

ascendants in the composite chart

ascendant in aries: a very active couple! others see you as confident and courageous and perhaps adventurous. you have a live in the moment sort of attitude and like doing things by yourselves. you might be competitive with each other and find compromising difficult.

ascendant in taurus: others see you as a more traditional and realistic couple. others know they can count on you. you don’t like to flash your relationship around and find stability and reliability very important. changes don’t sit well with you two.

ascendant in gemini: you thrive off mental stimulation. you communicate and think together, and may be a bit of a restless couple. you’re very flexible with each other and in the general public, people see you as friendly and sociable and very changeable. 

ascendant in cancer: security is important and when that seems to be threatened, insecurities can arise. you have more emotional reactions to each other rather than mental. you value longevity and comfort. commitment is easy but directly dealing with problems may not be.

ascendant in leo: others see you as a flashier and more confident couple. you like to be creative together and are very warm, loving, and possessive. there is a level of pride both of you reach that can hinder addressing important issues. you need attention to keep the relationship alive.

ascendant in virgo: you two have a very reliable image. you like to do tasks and analyze things together. you could have a tendency to be too picky or cautious with one another, and because you focus on smaller details- you’re pronse to nervousness and tension. you’re a very helpful couple. 

ascendant in libra: people generally like your relationship. you come across classy and romantic. decision making can be difficult and taking issues directly can also be. you have too much emphasis on balance but easily commit and love each other. you have diplomatic responses to each other.

ascendant in scorpio: others might find your relationship more closed off or mysterious. you project intensity and depth. this placement would make for the least superficial relationship and you are both very susceptible to each other’s emotions and passionate with one another. issues with jealousy and possessiveness can arise.

ascendant in sagittarius: open-mindedness and adventures are right up your alley. you two are more optimistic together and can become quite restless. you are both more free in this relationship than you might be with others, and like to discuss philosophy and perhaps travel together. 

ascendant in capricorn: you’re a steady and wise couple. good for business relations. commitment and responsibility is important, as well as stability. you are not flashy at all in public and are very classy. you might push each other to work harder and be more grounded too often.

ascendant in aquarius: others see you as a fun and erratic relationship. you two can be a bit unpredictable and even rebellious together. you embrace and resist change t the same time. friendship is important and you give each other plenty of personal freedom. 

ascendant in pisces: you two pick up each other’s emotions very easily. the general public sees you as dreamy and imaginative, and sympathetic towards each other. you don’t like to put each other down but you might give each other too many chances due to over idealizing each other and the relationship.

[blacksunscorpio]

Could you tell me what are your favorite aspects and house overlays in synastry? ❤️

Hello!

Great question.

Favorite aspects in synastry would have to be:

 Mercury conjunct/trine/ or sextile Mercury.Believe it or not, this is number one for me. People think the sexual planets [i.e. Mars, Venus, Pluto] are the most important, or their minds veer straight there in regard to compatibility but I feel that communication is key in regard to inter-personal relationships. If I can’t talk to you or understand you on a basic intellectual level, it will be hard to connect anywhere else. Boredom will manifest and the last thing I’ll be thinking about is being intimate with you on any level.

Sun conjunct/trine/ or sextile Venus. With this aspect it’s not just about love it’s about ‘like’.  So much warmth here. Two people will simply enjoy being in each other’s company without the drama. The Sun person, in particular, will be admired by the Venus person but because it’s synastry, this aspect can/will go both ways.

Venus conjunct/ trine/ or sextile Jupiter. Happiness and abundance are the themes here. Jupiter is all about optimism and luck. Venus is one of the hottest planets in our solar system so she will radiate warmth on Jupiter and he will expand it back. There will be lots of understanding here between two people. Forgiveness and grace as well. Love without possessiveness or jealousy. Two people who will want the best for each other. Sometimes it can be so sweet it can get icky, lol but who doesn’t want to be purely loved just because?

Moon conjunct/ trine/ or sextile MoonLots of understanding. Similar tastes and appreciations for life. Intuition is off the charts here. You’ll psychically know and understand what the other is feeling. The both of you will have intuitive insight and understanding of the emotional needs of your partner.  Highly compatible emotionally and this compatibility will flow through all aspects of your relationship. Be it tastes in food, tastes in film, art, movies, etc. 

Venus conjunct/ trine/ or sextile Pluto Okay, I’m Plutonic so this one was bound to come up. With Venus/Pluto aspects are notorious but what’s love without passion? Venus will be obsessed with Pluto and Pluto will simply be obsessed with Venus. Typically since Pluto is stronger/an outer Planet– he will have the upper hand but because it is synastry the effect can flip flop or go either way. When Venus touches Pluto what you will get is an intensely strong and passionate attraction that will not waver over time but grow. The attraction builds instead of wavers. Possessiveness can come into play here of course since Pluto is about control, but the attraction is so magnetic at times it can be overlooked. The sex will be BIBLICAL. The sex can be downright pornographic. You’ll just want more of each other, constantly. Very good aspect in regard to compatibility especially with flowing energies. The harder aspects can cause that Plutonic blow-up that often gives this aspect a bad name. Very passionate and raw but can be sort of fatal attraction-y. Be very careful if you see the Square/Opposition between you and another.

Mars conjunct/ trine/ or sextile Pluto. Speaking from personal experience, and also being Martian and Plutonic myself, I feel at home with this energy. It can be hard to handle for some, but the energy with this interaspect is powerful, competitive and HIGHKEY passionate. If you like a partner that challenges you, this aspect will be the cookie to your monster. Highly sexual because these two planets are super-charged in regard to power. An explosive aspect that can make you remember the other person forever. Even romantic partners that did not go the distance with me I find hard to forget just because of this aspect. Some of the best sex of your life will be with someone you have this inter-aspect with. Sex that you feel even days after the fact. Sex that made/makes your body do things you never thought it could do. Multiple orgasms, untapped stamina… you name it. Pluto’s about the depths and Mars is raw sexual energy. The Harder aspects can be downright dangerous or borderline abusive so please tread carefully if you see them. Definitely hurt feelings or worse if it gets out of control, so harmonious aspects are favored with these two planets. Not for the faint of heart.

Mars Conjunct/ trine/ or sextile MarsThis aspect is especially favorable in regard to sexual compatibility. Your body rhythms are perfectly matched and flow harmoniously. Sex will not be awkward and things will flow quite naturally. You are in tune with each other’s drives and will instinctually know what turns the other person on. Moods as well outside of sex will flow this way because Mars is drive in general, not just sexual. Both of you will be assertive in going after what you want and with each other. With the energy between your Mars’ flowing symbiotically, you will not get in each others’ way often. Very harmonious.

Moon Conjunct/ trine/ or sextile MarsHot. Hot. Hot.The moon is such a sensitive point and Mars is again, raw energy, raw drive, raw sex. You two will burn with desire for the other. In a synastry chart, this aspect represents yearning and drive for one another. The strong interaction of these two planets is more sexual… In return, the Moon person will demonstrate a nurturing emotional support and might also spoil the Mars person sexually. But the Moon person can also calm the Mars person down in a way no one else can. They have the ‘key’ to the person’s mood. The beauty to another’s beast. This aspect also indicates highkey fertility. The Mars person will just want to fuck the Moon person constantly. I always tell people with this aspect that they should definitely wrap it up as Mars will want to get the Moon person pregnant or the moon person will just want to be filled by the Mars person. 

Moon Conjunct/trine/ or sextile PlutoGet ready for emotional intensity as that theme characterizes this bond between two people. It extends beyond the mental sphere though. A relationship shouldn’t just be superficial and moon [feelings and emotions] touching Pluto [what’s hidden beneath and our raw desires] is anything but. The physical bond this aspect demonstrates takes on a highly compelling quality due to the emotional connection you share. This is both subtle and deep, and could be something that exists between you without either of you being fully conscious of it. There will be dreams of each other. Psychic links. Two people simply feel connected to each other in a way they haven’t been before; a way that feels very significant. The main thing to watch out for here is making sure that that intensity of feeling doesn’t go too far. Yes, jealousy can become a thing but with flowing aspects, it’s easier to handle than the harder aspects where possessiveness and co-dependency can become an issue. I love this aspect though because it made me feel close to the other person on an otherworldly level. This aspect almost always is felt mutually. 

Sun in the other Person’s 1st or 5th house  You can’t help but notice each other with the sun in the house of the ego and in the 5th house of fun/activity. Generally, these overlays generate approval between the two–more specifically,  approval and affection for your partner are welcomed. Pleasant feelings of being able to be open and free in their presence, too. Each gives the other an ego boost, and this overlay tends to offer relationships a feeling of camaraderie and general agreement. The brightest luminary overlaying in a partner’s 5th house is generally considered to be an excellent position for romance and fun. You bring out your partner’s creativity and sense of fun. Often this pair has a strong interest in making children together. I’ve had the most fun with partners and laughs with people I’ve had this overlay with.

Any Planet in your partner’s 8th House:Let’s face it– I’m in love with anything Plutonic, the good the bad and the ugly. Pluto is here to teach… to transform, but he gives us delicious gifts as well. With Planets overlaying in the 8th house, there’s a deep fascination with your partner, and either you simply feel unsettled in his/her presence and part ways, or you feel inexplicably drawn to him/her. There is nothing superficial about this union, when it does occur, and you should be prepared for a deep and sometimes disturbing interaction. The attraction on your partner’s side is most obvious. You affect your partner in very deep, even primal, ways. As a result, your partner is especially sensitive to your actions. He or she views the partnership as a profound and intimate connection. The sex will be almost spiritual. You will feel bonded to them for life or they will transform you/evolve you into the next stage of being that will benefit you for the long term.

Honorable mentions:

Lilith inter-aspects

If you’re wanting raw and passionate Pornhub-esque like passion with someone, then Lilith is the aspect for you. She is raw, wild, untamed sexual energy. The bad boy that talks dirty to you. The one that doesn’t ‘make-love’ the one that ‘fucks’. The Christian Grey to your Anastasia Steele. The guy that doesn’t whisper sweet nothings, but rather commands you to obey him. He will choke you while he fucks you. Make you squirt. Eat you out until it hurts. Finger you at your annual company dinner/black-tie event while you clutch the table cloth and he keeps a straight face and it’s all you can do to keep your wits about you as they pass the dinner rolls. The woman will do the same, make you fantasize about what she did to you while you’re going over spreadsheets drinking your Morning Folgers. The one that makes you go erect while having dinner with the family at Christmas. Hell, the woman that jacks you off in the airplane, causing you to join the mile-high club. She is the hypothetical point that, when aspecting an inner planet, makes you lose your goddamn mind. She is Pluto on steroids. If there’s ever a chart with too much Saturn or too many squares, a healthy dose of Lilith will liven’ that right up.

North Node Inter-aspects

The Moon’s Nodes…As points in astrology rather than planets, houses or signs, the moon’s nodes represent the core of our lives. Issues, spiritual links… basically our soul’s purpose.  When your Sun/Moon/Mercury/Venus/Mars/Jupiter or Pluto is touching your partner’s North Node a strong bond exists between the two of you. This aspect indicates a relationship that is constantly moving forward. … The inner planet person encapsulates the qualities the North Node person requires in order to fulfill their life’s purpose. There will be an energy between the two of you which will make it difficult to forget each other. This relationship is meaningful on a deep level for both people. Life-size themes of nurturing and safety relationships with this aspect. I have this link with someone I was addicted to forever and I swear, I’ve had premonitions about him. Things I have dreams about that always end up happening.

Without fail.

You will know what the other is thinking. Astral projection can even happen here. The nodes are no joke.

Venus/Mars Inter- Aspects

I bet you’re surprised this one wasn’t at the top of the list, eh? LOL. Venus and Mars are important, yes, but at times I feel that it can be over-rated. Nonetheless, it is a very powerful link between the two people. When someone’s Venus is touching another’s Mars this basic, primal attraction and compatibility. Venus [Aphrodite] and Mars [Ares] were each other’s lovers/soulmates in ancient times/mythology. So in Synastry, the Venus person appreciates how the Mars person pursues him/her. While the Mars person is very happy doing things for the Venus person both are passionate about each other. Sex is hardcore and intense and the physical chemistry will feel very natural.  From my own personal experience and from observation, this is one of the strongest aspects in sexual and romantic attraction. The two of you will be hooked to each other and it will be very hard to forget the passion you share even if you do part ways/ break-up. Add any Pluto/Lilith squares/conjunctions this just doubles/heighten the passion. 

Pro-Tip:

Pay attention to Double-Whammies or DW’s in synastry. This is when an aspect goes both ways in synastry Ex. Person A’s Venus conjunct person B’s Mars and Person B’s Mars Conjunct Person A’s Venus. Any time an aspect goes both ways this will heighten the energetic pull times two so the theme of the inter-aspect will be amplified and be prevalent energy-wise. For better or worse.

[hillarysss]

🗽Informative post on north node in the houses & brief informative guide to north node & south nodes in astrology ⊹ ⋆.

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Intro to North Nodes & South Nodes in Astrology

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⊹ ⋆ﾟ꒰ఎ ♥︎ ໒꒱ ⋆ﾟNorth node represents the mission we were brought upon in this universe. It represents the gift, talents, graceful lessons & etc, that will be brought upon for our highest good. In the other hand we have the south node which if you believe in past lives can tell you a bit about your past live and the natural abilities that were brought upon but also things we have to let go to ascend. So in a simple way the south node represents the gifts you have an easy time managing and putting to it’s best use but also represents your toxic ways that need to let go but you may have the tendencies to go back to.

⊹ ⋆ﾟ꒰ఎ ♥︎ ໒꒱ ⋆ﾟSouth node synastry can represent karmic relationships usually you learn lessons from these connections. So look at the sign of your south node and the house sign ruler for what signs these natives may be. You may have a love- hate relationship with them because they trigger things you need to move on from but they feel like home to you. (Most powerful is conjuct)

⊹ ⋆ﾟ꒰ఎ ♥︎ ໒꒱ ⋆ﾟNorth node in synastry represents similar things but usually more so in a positive note it can represent that the native will have a powerful impact on you towards your goal and they are someone you won’t forget ever, they help you towards your best self and it feels like you were destined to meet each other. (Most powerful is conjuct)

(In regards to synastry for example if you have Libra north node libra placements will impact you as the ways listed above) & same for the south node sign.

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North Node in the houses

ʚ ɞ Calculate your North Node here.

North Node in 1st: Here the native is on a road to creating and finding themselves. It is quite common that throughout the person’s life that they will be judged for who they are & may received not asked opinions from others. They may feel headless at some point because they may not know who they are at a point in their lives, they’ll try everything to find themselves & experimenting but may have trouble sticking to something. Though this gives them the gift of being quite experimental and open to whatever comes across their path. They are not the type to judge others for being themselves as they deeply value originality. Opposing the 7th house they may attract jealousy often especially because of something about themselves it could be their talent or something in their physical body that stands out and makes open enemies jealous, usually there is something about the native that sticks out since the beginning of their life if not they find something they love and cherish may attract jealousy and criticism because of it. People with this placement are commonly successful since a young age they may have had to grow up and become more independent and to choose themselves over others because they can easily get addicted to relationships & validations that would be their downfall. They need to let go of validation from external sources but themselves & to not be so critical on themselves. These natives have the natural ability to be charming & can navigate well with people and can have luck on their side on getting out of things.

North Node in 2nd: These people have a very good talents of being resourceful. These are the type of people who pride themselves on being unbothered as they would work on achieving things & working on themselves and their habits. Opposing the 8th house old traits & things to let go of do not come so easy for the native. They may have to let go of troubles with intimacy & the native tends to have hard time trusting others because they may also have a hard time trusting themselves. They need to learn that they have themselves because they can easily go into periods of times where they are in despair and do not ask for help or guidance. They have big chances this lifetime of being quite wealthy because of their abilities of being so resourceful and hardworking when manifested well. If they want something they can get it they just have to believe in themselves. Some of these natives hop around jobs & income sources for a while until they find the source that fits them to dedicate themselves too. They can be quite guarded and maybe even closed off individuals because they may be afraid of getting hurt or being taken advantage of with what they have obtained. Transformation follows them throughout this lifetime events that may shake them up a bit but they will rise again. They may be able to make work out of their trauma. In a negative note, they may work for the case needed to survive and etc. Natives have a natural alluring aura that others can’t help but notice and be drawn to it. It’s ideal that they protect their energy.

North Node in 3rd: The natives with this placement are incredibly objectively intelligent and knowledgable. It’s not surprising if a lot of astrology enthusiasts / astrologers have this placement as they seek for knowledge and things that stimulates their mind almost daily. The native may have to work on focusing on tasks more efficiently as they may easily get distracted with other things along their path. The native has the immense potential to develop being a great communicator / immense communication skills this lifetime. Others may be drawn to their words & sayings and may even get inspired by their words. Their words are their power and may be interested in stuff like reading and etc. May have a karmic lesson with siblings & may be important this lifetime. You may be always seeking for the truth but sometimes they may not bring you peace but anxiety let go of things and answers you don’t have control over.. because you always want to figure out things which is a blessing but can backfire your mental health. The native will hop around with interests and activities until they find one that suits them completely. You need to let go of being secretly a bit stubborn with your belief system you may think you’re always right because of your knowledge. Native is very persuasive.

North Node in 4th: The natives with this placement are very private individuals especially when it’s regarding about their own path. They are the type to keep their goals hidden until it’s achieved because they know how others may try to send them bad energy because of it. They may be exposed to the public light at some point in their lives but they are not always the most comfortable with it. The native may have a tendency to deal with their emotions in a unhealthy way usually specifically they may surpress them and ignore them because of the opposition to the 10th house. The native is blessed with natural feelings of being able to feel things correctly with their intuition they just have to grow the confidence with it and with this they may even help others with these gifts. The mother could have impacted them usually more in a positive note & the mother or a feminine figure could’ve helped them on their path with their wisdom. They may have some family members that are quite known. The natives this lifetime focus on the root of themselves. The foundation of their emotions & their way of love which is why they strongly benefit from self-care. Because of this they are very selective with their emotional friend groups. The native this lifetime becomes more aware of their subconscious patterns and may become more connected to their heritage & have a special bond with their grandparents and they could have guided them. Overall this is a very good placement objectively.

North Node in 5th: The natives with this placement are filled with bundles of joy & love inside of them. They know how it feels to feel left out or not treated the way they should be treated so they go out of their way to make others feel loved and supported as they subconsciously seek love and support as well. Opposing the 11th house the native may find themselves having karmic lessons with friendships & friends that could not be so trustworthy to the native it could be a bad pattern to go back to where they used to feel as if they fitted in even if it’s not good for them in the long run. This lifetime is to let themselves destress & have some fun for the sake of their health as they can be someone who puts a lot of effort in the higher good but may forget to let themselves have a little bit of fun and be a bit reckless as well. The native will find themselves being drawn to creative pursuits this lifetime as well as entertainment pursuits. Being creative is something that will come usually easily to the native or at least something prominent in their life. You see this placement in artists or entertainers or something creative and talented. The natives are blessed with obvious imaginative creative skills. The native is also extremely attractive and beautiful to others. Casual sex may also be a theme of their life. The native will also get the taste of romance this lifetime they may find themselves in love situations often this could come in the forms of friendships. They may experiment with love situations. They should let go off patterns of just only believing in faith instead of actively working towards their goal they may also hide what they called “weirdness” because they may wanna feel validated often.

North Node in 6th: Here the native has a talent of being logical and detail oriented. Since the native may have the gift of seeing beneath the bigger picture effortlessly, they may get carried away with small details and may have a hard time loosing control over things they don’t have control over as they may need a sense of control in their life in order to feel good. The native is easily respected and may love to help others with their best efforts but this can make them easily drained as it opposes the 12th house. The native is extremely vulnerable to energy unless well protected as they love to give and give. They are truly a selfless soul. The native may have the tendency to be a bit hard on themselves so they learn this life-time about self improvement instead of just seeing themselves as a “failure” or “worthless” as they can easily fall into a prisioned mindest. The native may be the type to be into diets & work out routines or at least idealize it but may have a hard time completely committing themselves to something. The native may have spiritual and intuitive gifts that can be carried from a past life and they will have it with them to aid them but they may have the tendency to not use their intuitive & spiritual gifts to it’s best maximized potential. The native may have tendencies to retreat from the world when they completely loose control over things. You’re quite the healer and you can heal others and yourself. Make sure to remember to nurture and care of your body and it’s nutrition and health. Since you’re so mystically selfless you may not know when to stop or give yourself a break. People tend to love your energy.

North Node in 7th: In this life-time the native’s focus is regarding their relationships with individuals and others. They may encounter connections that may test them but ultimately helps them ascend. The native is gifted individualism and independence from a past life but this can also come in the hands of being a little too detached because of this they learn this life-time to try to let others in even if it’s slowly. They may have not had a lot of people or friends in their past- life time so it’s a theme in this life-time. They value people who support them and don’t have time to play games. They may find themselves meeting all types of people & committed romantic relationship(s) are often found with this placement and the native is gifted with a higher chance of having a great marriage and relationship ultimately because of their shifting to commitment with others. However since they will try to achieve putting themselves out there this lifetime they may experienced open enemies and jealousy from others and this may effect them effectively. The native will work on being more open this life-time but they will never forget that they only got themselves in the end of the day. In some cases the native may strongly desire marriage and union with someone or/and being a lawyer. The individual may easily get extremely liked by others with their natural charm to handle conflict. They are quite peaceful but if they start something they’ll finish it.

North Node in 8th: In this lifetime the native may be guided onto a spiritual occult path. The native may find themselves naturally drawn to darker subjects maybe even tabboo subjects. From my research, a lot of witches / tarot readers / certified psychics have this placement & even great astrologers because of their way of being able to see things so intensely and beneath the surface. The native however may go through aching transformative experiences throughout life which can constantly regenerate who they are as a person and their beliefs which can make them a completely different person of who they were years ago. The native is blessed with the power of healing, they can heal others through pain and love but may struggle a bit with completely healing themselves and they could avoid the shadow work to do so. The native will be presented with important life- decisions constantly in life. The themes of death could be present in their life (it could mean literal death as it has a different approach in other cultures but also means new fresh starts as mentioned). The native will be gifted naturally of the power of being self-reliant and at some cases wealthy as it opposes the 2nd house. The native will find themselves in deep connections with others and themselves. The native life may have some themes of bonding-sex later on in life. The native has a way of captivating people with their attraction however this can cause some unwanted attention. The native may spends time being insecure of themselves and hiding themselves but then they unleash their talents onto the open and may even make money of their path and talents, I could go on about this placements for so long as it has so much to express.

North Node in 9th: The native this life-time will have a theme of finding the higher purpose to things the ultimate answer and truth seeker. The native can be quite the spiritual being and could be into things like meditation as for their routine. Since they’re so filled with wisdom at some point in their lives they may use it as a way to guide others and others will look up to them as someone respectable and worthy and praiseable. The native however may need to let go of the idea of always using logic to things as it opposes the 3rd house and let themselves feel completely free as their mind may have a hard time completely shutting off. The native may carry toxic mindsets from a past- life that are rather extremely pessimistic and harsh so they in this life-time work on a more realistic but optimistic approach to things especially regarding their mind and it’s thoughts. The native may be interested in travel and travel could be a big part of their life especially useful for their path they could get opportunities regarding travel however it could involve some sacrifice of leaving things behind for the greatest good. The native’s life-path may have quite the longevity. Teachers and gurus may inspire the native or they could become one themselves. They could want to publish their work or spiritual gifts to the public, they could even write books. The native however may have the tendencies of being quite scattered with their thoughts and organization and should work on details and organizing things. The native is blessed with great luck and fortune and abundance if the native believes in themselves. The native may be connected to their spirit guides and they will bring great guidance. While you may guide others make sure you take care of yourself first.

North Node in 10th: This placement gives the native a hard-working demeanor and ambitious traits. In a past life-time the native may have worked on their emotional interior and their roots which gives them natural intuitive gifts and an emotional nature but they may not utilize it to it’s best ability which could make them struggle with these areas later on due to it’s opposition to the 4th house. They may struggle listening to their natural gut instincts and would rather approach things in a logical manner strictly. The native will be blessed this life-time with incredible drive and learning towards being successful regarding their career-life. They may reach an extremely well reputable career. The native is extremely mature even since a young age among their peers which could make them come across as cold or too unbothered. They may have a guiding father figure or a masculine figure who helps them on their path. The native may seek recognition or they may at least find themselves getting it easily which could make them prone to rumors and gossip and people jealous of their achievements and reputation however they’re strong enough to face this. The native may become a great authority figure in life and could make others work for them or follow them easily. However, the native is still quite private about themselves even if they are on pubic display or well-known they would only reveal what it is needed to reveal so getting to know them is quite different than who they presented themselves to be which doesn’t have to be a bad thing. The native has a great attachment to their family but would learn to be more independent this life-time. They love in a heavenly way but would rather protect themselves than give it out so much. Don’t invade their privacy at any cost and this could be something that could interfere with them within their career is curious people about who they truly are.

North Node in 11th: The native this life-time will focus on building a community and helping others. These people are usually very well liked among their peers and could have the chance to even be “popular”. However as it opposes the 5th house the native may have tendencies to want constant validation from others and loose themselves in the process. The native has natural charisma and creative talents that they could use to their advantage. They could have good opportunities on the internet and clubs. They could put out their talents on the internet especially to help others. The native however may have the tendency to want attention or have a bit of an ego that is hard to crash. The native has an extremely kind nature which others may try to use so it’s important that they establish strict boundaries for themselves. The native this life-time will try to and has great ability to spread awareness on important manners. It takes time for these natives to find true friends until later on in life and they could even feel isolated at some point in their lives even if as mentioned before they could be “popular” they still may feel isolated inside. The native may use romance and love in a way to feel validated. The native will constantly put out love to the world hoping that they receive it back they may even develop a “no one will love me like I love” mentality. The native wants to serve a higher basis on the world they didn’t come to this universe for nothing. They have great ideas to accomplish their goals and they most likely will they just have to work on the consistency of working up to their goals as they could have the tendencies to just wanna relax and have fun often. The native later on in life develops a great origin that they were trying to find earlier on in life instead of trying to fit in which could ultimately attract copy-cats and people who are lost themselves. They would be extremely loved especially later on in- life.

North Node in 12th: The native is quite a complex individual and this is not a bad thing but I can go on about this individual and their magical talents. The native is too self-sacrificing and it could come to the points they are niceto individuals who wronged them or are their secret enemies and their independence and boundaries are something they work on this life-time to say “No, I do not accept this and I do not have time to always help you.” This placement is common with extreme intuitives and tarot readers though they may be insecure of their gift until later on in life they start exploring it more. The native may have the tendency to be quite hard on themselves as it opposites the 6th house of Virgo. The native has a great imagination and can even get lost in themselves quite easily especially through things regarding music and they may resort to escapism when things get tough especially. The native is blessed with being a hard-worker however this comes with a price they may be the type of people to develop a low-self mindset if something doesn’t go as perfect as they imagine as they may have idealistic expectations. The native may have hard time sticking to something in their life path and finding pure joy on it as their path could be blurred at some points, so advice is when you find something that you love don’t be hard on yourself and stick to it. They can easily make their desires and dreams come to life and in the dream world they could get hints of their future path. In this life-time they are constantly working through self-improvement which would make the figures in their life proud of them. It’s possible they have gone through quite a lot and they may express this throughout their career. They will heal others with their intuition or/and their gifts however they may have an extremely hard time with this themselves. One thing I’ve noticed about this placement is that jealous people want them to be quiet and once they start succeeding in what they love people want them to stop and this is because they attract extremely jealousy with what they do but these people may not reveal themselves until later on it’s the people you least expect at times. The native has spirit guides that will constantly give them signs of re-direction of their path so watch out for angel numbers and stuff like that or simply ask signs that you are on the right path to your spirit guides! Never miss out on any sign you see and trust your gut. Make sure you never hide any part of yourself in the fear of being judged or excluded. I truly love these people for being so self-less and giving make sure to drink water and stay healthy and never neglect yourself. The native has talents of connecting to the divine perfectly. Since this is the 12th house we are talking about this life-time is very important you could achieve something that could be very essential in the next life-time if there is one. The native is a great worker and this could be great for career and money matters so they may be surprised when they can actually take a break and relax, as they could be a very nervous person.

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North node aspects

ʚ ɞ North Node aspecting black moon Lilith- The native will break out of any expectations set by any authority. The native will not let anyone tell them anything on what they do and how they do it. The native will attract love-hate reactions and jealousy especially from feminine figures on their talent. Independence and rawness follows them. They won’t allow control over them.

ʚ ɞ North Node aspecting the Sun- Confidence and creativity will help the native succeed onto their path. Others may assume they don’t have insecurities. Will adapt to more Leo like traits. The native is a journey to self-love. The Father may guide them if it’s positive aspected. The native will achieve major accomplishments this life-time that won’t go unnoticed. They may have an ego.

ʚ ɞ North Node aspecting the Moon- The native will use their natural intuitive gifts and nurturing gifts to guide them. The native will focus on nurturing themselves and their body in this life-time. Their emotions are a big focus. If positively aspected connections with women will help the native.

ʚ ɞ North Node Aspecting Mercury- The native will use their natural intelligence and wit to guide them on their journey. They can even have the tendencies to be trickers. May have a talent for writing and will love to share their words with people. Will be seen as educated and informative to the public.

ʚ ɞ North Node Aspecting Venus- The native’s attraction and alluring nature won’t go unnoticed. The native is easily loved and idealized. The native may have talents for arts and anything regarding beauty & makeup etc. The native may be interested in modeling or anything regarding this. Native may receive compliments but may have a hard time believing them if negatively aspected. May find “the one” or a great soulmate this life-time especially if positively aspected.

ʚ ɞ North Node aspecting Mars- The native has a never-ending drive to achieve their goals and hardly lets anything stop them. However, they need to recharge their energy when they can. They may be seen as intimidating to others and powerful. Will leave a strong mark on the world. May have a dominant energy or/and choose a more dominant path.

ʚ ɞ North Node Aspecting Jupiter- Native has natural luck this life-time to achieve their desires and goals. The native could be quite spiritually in-tuned. The native will be easily liked by others. However the native may have the tendencies to rely on luck a lot rather than hard-work purely.

ʚ ɞ North Node Aspecting Uranus- Native will follow an unexpected path a bit similar to black moon Lilith. Native has a innovative nature. Common in enginneers and people interested in computers. They could be seen as rebellious. Their life path may constantly change so they should work on grounding themselves. Native is also very intuitive.

ʚ ɞ North Node Aspecting Neptune- Native may have a hard time figuring out their path. Native is prone to idealizing things easily. If negatively aspected they may not believe in themselves enough. Native will be blessed with spiritual gifts to aid them. You could be good at poetry or arts or anything that lets you use your imagination greatly.

ʚ ɞ This is extra but if Juno positively aspects the North Node the native could have a greater luck finding themselves a long-term healthy future spouse and could impact them greatly.

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Secrets of the Signs

Aries: Can’t handle fighting and losing people. They act like they’re happy to let people go, but in reality they regret fighting and want those people back, they hate loosing people that mean something to them.

Taurus: Is afraid that no one actually wants them around, and that they’re easily forgotten about to the people who mean the most to them, is constantly wondering if they mean anything to anyone.

Gemini: They try so hard to fit in and be friends with everyone they change who they are themselves, but would rather change than be alone, because being alone is extremely scary to them.

Cancer: Tries to act happy all the time. They feel like if they let others see them upset, they’re disappointing them. Needs to make sure everyone around them doesn’t worry about them, no matter what the cost.

Leo: Believes they are unlovable and that everything that goes wrong is their fault. They try to act tough and like they don’t care, but deep inside, they are probably the most sensitive person you will ever Meet.

Virgo: Has trouble handling life. They may seem like they have everything under control and in order, but in reality they have trouble making it every hour of the day. It’s hard for them to stay positive.

Libra: Can’t be without a lover because they need to invest time in others so they don’t have to focus on themselves. Hates having to deal with their own problems so they hide them and pretend everything is fine.

Scorpio: Is scared of getting close to people. They love being trusted by others but have a hard time trusting others. Are afraid one day this will push everyone away but they don’t know how to fix it.

Sagittarius: Wants only love and to be loved. When they aren’t with someone, they start to feel hopeless and like they aren’t good enough for anyone.

Capricorn: Invests themselves in trying to get to the top, so they tend to not have deep connections with anyone. They’re afraid because of this that they’ll be alone forever.

Aquarius: Doesn’t feel emotions like they think they should. They get into relationships and don’t feel anything for awhile, and because of this they believe there’s something wrong with them and hate themselves for it. Pisces: Actually has no idea what they’re doing in life and day dreams to make themselves feel better. Is lost and confused but acts like they have everything under control and hates asking for help.

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One day, he’s going to know. He’ll know your birthday, your middle name, where you were born, your star sign, and your parents names. He’ll know how old you were when you learnt to ride a bike, how your grandparents passed away, how many pets you had, and how much you hated going to school. He’ll know your eye colour, your scars, your freckles, your laugh lines and your birth marks. He’ll know your favourite book, movie, candy, food, pair of shoes, colour, and song. He’s going to know why you’re awake at 5am most nights, where you were when you realised you’d lost a good friend, why you picked up the razor and how you managed to put it down before things went too far. He’s going to know your phobias, your dreams, your fears, your wishes, and your worries. He’s going to know about your first heartbreak, your dream wedding, and your problems with your parents. He’ll know your strengths, weaknesses, laziness, energy, and your mixed emotions. He’s going to know about your love for mayonnaise, your dream of being famous when you were five, your need to quote any film you know all the way through, and your fear of growing older. He’ll know your bad habits, your mannerisms, your stroppy pout, your facial expressions, and your laugh like it’s his favourite song. The way you chew, drink, walk, sleep, fidget and kiss. He’s going to know that you’ve already picked out wedding flowers, baby names, tiles for the bathroom, bridesmaid dresses, and the colour of your bedroom walls. He’s going to know, get annoyed at and then accept that you leave clothes everywhere, take twenty minutes to order a Starbucks, have to organise your DVD’s alphabetically, and check your horoscope… just incase. He’ll know your McDonald’s order, how many sugars to put in your tea, how many scoops of ice cream you want, and that you need your sandwiches cut into triangles. He’s going to know how you feel without you telling him, that you need a wee from a look on your face, and that you’re crying without shedding tears. He’s going to know all of it. Everything. You, from top to bottom and inside out. From learning, from sharing, from listening, from watching. He’s going to know every single thing there is to know, and you know what else? He is still going to love you.

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