Surviving life

[blueeyedvirgo89]

[blueeyedvirgo89]

— You're wearing yourself out.

— Nope... i'm just fine.

— Don't lie to me. I see it in your eyes,in your actions,in the way you walk.

I feel it in your short breath, in your dim look, in your trembling voice.

You're wearing yourself out.

— I don't have a choice.

I have to carry it all, manage it all, cash it all.

I need to be strong .

- Cool?

You confuse strength with sacrifice.

What you wear bends your chin,

gnaw your bones,

turning you off softly, silently.

— I can't let it go.

They are counting on me.

If i stop, everything falls apart.

— And you?

If your falling apart,

who will lift you up?

— I... I don't know.

I don't want to be a burden.

— You don't have to carry it all alone.

You are not a rock,

you are a woman.

— But if I don't, who will?

If I'm not strong, who will be in my place?

— Who taught you that asking for help was a weakness?

Who made you believe that being exhausted was a sign of courage?

— I learned to be strong.

To hold on tight.

Not to complain.

— And at what cost?

How much does your light go out?

At what cost are your dreams?

— I don't want to disappoint.

I don't want to fail.

— You don't fail by resting.

You don't fail by letting go of what's not yours.

You do not fail by choosing to save yourself, you.

— But if I stop...

If I let go...

If i drop this weight...

Who am I then ?

— You are you.

Finally you.

Without masks, without imposed roles.

You become that free woman again,

she who knows how to dance in the rain,

the one who doesn't seek to please,

the one who doesn't need to control everything to be at peace.

— What if I fall?

— Then you will rise again.

But this time,

you will be lighter.

Because you'll only keep what's truly yours.

— I'm afraid to disappoint.

I fear losing those who don't understand.

— Then lose them.

Because those who can't accept your truth

never really liked who you are.

— What if I lose myself?

— It's only by losing you

that you will be able to find yourself.

Really.

Whole.

Savage.

Libre.

— What if... What if i don't make it?

— Then I'll be there.

I'm the flame inside you that refuses to be extinguished.

I am the breath that makes you rise.

I'm that voice that whispers:

You are much stronger than you think.

— So... I'm letting go.

I'm dropping it off.

I'm breathing.

— Finally.

Love and gratitude🫶

[blueeyedvirgo89]

Love isn’t the issue. It never was.

People walk away from relationships not because they stop loving, but because they get tired of trying alone.

Love can only do so much when one person is carrying all the weight, doing all the work, and holding things together while the other just assumes they’ll always be there.

You can love someone deeply and still feel lonely next to them.

You can love them and still feel unheard, unseen, unappreciated.

Love doesn’t replace effort. It doesn’t make up for broken promises, empty apologies, or the times they made you feel like you were asking for too much; when all you wanted was to feel valued.

Relationships don’t fail because love disappears. They fail because effort does.

Because someone stops choosing the other. Because comfort turns into neglect.

So if you want to keep love alive, don’t just say it; show it.

Be consistent, be present, and make them feel like they matter.

Because at the end of the day, love without effort is just a beautiful excuse.

[blueeyedvirgo89]

It's worth the wait.

Wait for someone who lets you know from the very beginning, if they have genuine intentions with you.

Wait for someone who genuinely wants to be part of your life , and proves it to you with every single day that passes.

Wait for someone who is giving, and does not keep tabs of the things they do for you, because they expect something from you in the near future.

Wait for someone who texts you throughout the day to check in on you because they care about your well-being.

Wait for someone who wants to authentically learn who you are as a person.

Wait for someone who respects you and your children as well.

Wait for someone who shows you the true definition of effort.

Wait for someone who makeprotecting your heart a number one priority.

Wait for someone who motivates you to do better in life because relationships are more than just falling in love. It's about inspiring each other to become better versions of yourselves day in and day out.

Wait for someone who is patient with you and are guided by morals and reasoning.

Wait for someone who knows the smallest little details about you .... like the way you like your coffee in the mornings, your favorite smell or what movies make you cry.

Wait for someone who doesn't make permanent decisions based on their temporary emotions.

Wait for someone who understands it's not about giving you the world, it's about making you feel like you're the only one in it.

Take my advice and wait for someone who touches your heart in ways you never thought were imaginable.

[blueeyedvirgo89]

Every man hopes to have a good woman by his side, but many don’t realize that women with genuine hearts come with real, powerful emotions.

They feel everything deeply, love with intensity, and give their whole heart to the people they care about.

A good woman is loyal to the core, but her tender heart means she can also become frustrated, hurt,

or emotional when something doesn’t feel right.

This isn’t a sign of weakness

it’s simply because she cares so deeply.

Sure, she might have her moody days, but one thing is certain: when a good woman loves you, it’s a rare, precious kind of love.

It’s a love you won’t find anywhere else.

Value it.

[blueeyedvirgo89]

❤️

[blueeyedvirgo89]

I came across a quote that said:

You'll always be brave in someone's mind and coward in another's, strong to one and fragile to another, good to one and terrible to another.

You will be seen as annoying to one and comforting to another.

Some will feel anxious around you and some will find peace in your company. Some will see you as "too much" while others will see you as a gift.

The world will look at you from their subjective point of view.

The world is never going to agree on a definition of who you are.

So you might as well live the way that feels true to your heart ❤️

[blueeyedvirgo89]

I'm going to say this once.

Never get into a serious relationship until you're finished being single.

Never invite someone into your life if you don't have the space for them in your life to begin with.

Never open up a person's heart with no intention on catching them when they fall in love with you.

There are good genuine people in the dating world right now willing to give everything they are to have a stable and healthy relationship with someone they have longed for ever since they can remember.

Take my advice and if you're not ready to step up to the plate, take your hands off another person's future.

[blueeyedvirgo89]

For those who are missing a loved one❤️

A SILENT TEAR

Just close your eyes and you will see All the memories that you have of me Just sit and relax and you will find I'm really still there inside your mind

Don't cry for me now I'm gone For I am in the land of song There is no pain, there is no fear So dry away that silent tear

Don't think of me in the dark and cold For here I am, no longer old I'm in that place that's filled with love Known to you all, as "up above"

Miss and L♡ve y♡u!

[blueeyedvirgo89]

A man's gentleness is a powerful display of masculinity, showcasing his strength in restraint and ability to protect and comfort. Providing a strong spiritual foundation for the feminine to release the powerful healing light to the universal flow.

By choosing to lead with empathy and compassion, he creates a safe and supportive environment, fostering a deeper connection with his partner. This remarkable expression of masculinity elevates those around him, demonstrating that true strength lies not in ego or dominance, but in gentle vulnerable kindness. Bringing true divine love.

Love and Light

[blueeyedvirgo89]

The right person will never get tired of you. They won’t give up when days are hard, and neither will you. No matter how many challenges life throws our way, we will always be us.

Sometimes, the road will be smooth, with laughter flowing effortlessly and days filled with light. Other times, there will be shadows, uncomfortable silences, and obstacles that test us. But even in those moments, I know we’ll find a way to hold on.

Because what we have isn’t built on perfection, but on the choice to keep choosing each other—even when things aren’t ideal. We are understanding, we are strength, and most of all, we are love: a love that doesn’t break in the storm but learns to dance in the rain.

So no matter what—no matter how the world tries to change us or pull us apart—I’ll always be here, believing in us. Because it will always be you and me, today, tomorrow, and forever.

[blueeyedvirgo89]

L♡VE Y♡URSELF! 🫂❤️🥰✨️☮️

[blueeyedvirgo89]

She was beautiful,

But not like those girls in the magazines.

She was beautiful, for the way she thought.

She was beautiful, for the sparkle in her eyes when she talked about something she loved.

She was beautiful, for her ability to make other smile, even if she was sad.

No, she wasn't beautiful for something as temporary as she looks.

She was beautiful, deep down to her soul.

[blueeyedvirgo89]

Words and thoughts are energies, vibrations that form spiritual bridges, loaded with emotions and intentions, positive or negative.

🌀Be mindful of the words you say internally and externally to yourself.

🌀Be mindful how you communicate with others. Any negative words that you say to someone can bounce back to you magnified.

🌀When negative thoughts creep into your mind… Bring yourself back to heart space and connect with your pure loving vibrations.

Make these aimple changes and

Let your Light Shine🔆

Love and Light

[blueeyedvirgo89]

LOVE♥️Actions Speak Louder Than Words

Love is about the everyday moments, the small gestures, and the unwavering support. It's about someone showing up for you, even when life gets tough. While words can be comforting, actions speak louder. Don't be fooled by empty promises or someone who only shows up when it's convenient. You deserve someone who chooses you every day, in every way. Pay attention to how they treat you, and don't hesitate to speak your truth…if you're not treated with respect, kindness, and compassion. You deserve a love that's authentic, not just spoken.

Because love isn’t just a feeling—it’s a choice.

[blueeyedvirgo89]

There’s a man who might say she’s crazy, emotionally unstable, and aggressive. Yet, another man will tell you he’s never felt more appreciated and respected, that she’s created the safest space for him, and that being with her makes him feel nurtured, cared for, and at peace.

Believe them both! 💯

The woman you see is a reflection of how she’s treated. If you approach her with confusion, gaslighting, or inconsistency, it’s no wonder she might seem erratic. But if you come with clarity, and leadership, and create a safe space, you’ll see a completely different side of her.

[blueeyedvirgo89]