Sugaring 101: Upping your bedroom game with some sensuality and simple escort tricks.
*** Warning: Only try this with the sugardaddies you actually like and feel some attachment too. And definitely trust ***
Please heed the warning or you will crash and burn if you attempt the following.
PREPARE YOUR MEETING PLACE: If youâre regularly meeting at a hotel room, get daddy to get you a prepaid card so that you can go ahead and rent the room ahead of your visit. This will save him the trouble of doing it and allow you a chance to control your interaction. A lot of escorts do this for that very same reason: control. Â For him, the businessman or exec whoâs dealing with all kinds of shit this takes some pressure off him. What you have to understand about a successful man is that heâs always under pressure. Heâs getting beat to shit daily from work, life, and home and heâs probably middle-aged meaning half of daddyâs life is already gone. Daunting. You need to be the calming voice in his life. When he gets there, of course be in your best lingerie, smelling good, etc, with the sheets pulled back on the bed. Or, answer the door naked, in a pair of red bottoms, etc. Or, ask to keep one of his ties for a souvenir on a previous date and when your next visit at the room arrived, have it on and nothing else.
If you host your visits at your residence, then ask daddy what kind of snack he likes. Fruit? Have some strawberries or grapes waiting for him when he comes over. He likes wine, etc.,? Have a glass poured. You can enjoy glass too. Its ok. If you have a problem drinking with daddy, refer to my warning above. :)
RELAX HIM: Give daddy a massage. Not an hour, just 10 minutes to break him down. This is a good time to ask for shit. If he has dry skin, bring some oil in your purse. First rub his back, making sure youâre getting in between those shoulder blades, etc. Skip the legs, lower torso etc. Unnecessary. Heâs tense from meetings and conference calls all day. Turn him over and rub him briefly on his chest before you work your way down to his love zone. Rub his dick and donât forget the boys. When heâs nice hard, start fellatio (if you do fellatio). Â If he doesnât want a massage or doesnât have time thatâs cool. You need to put it out there anyway.Â
Time taken: 7 - 10 minutes
LAY YOUR HEAD ON HIS CHEST: After sex, cuddle up next to him and lay your head on his chest. If he has little or no hair this will be easy. If heâs a hairy bastard you might find another place to lay your head but the goal is to cuddle him. Use the hair to your advantage and play with it as you lie there. Twist it in your fingers or some shit. Make him feel like he just pleased you in every way possible. He probably didnât, but itâs all about the fantasy. This is easy to do if you like him. Refer to my warning above! Say something meaningful like, âThat was good daddy.â Â If you have psychological hang-ups about calling him daddy then say âThat was good baby..â Â or âMmmm I needed that.â All too often chicks are just lying there side by side with him in her own world. You can remain in your own world just do it cuddling him. This is also a good habit to have when you get married. :)Â
Time taken: Not applicable
CLEAN HIM UP: Grab a warm damp warm towel, and remove the condom. Wipe up his penis and go put the condom in the toilet. If no condom was used, you can still clean him up if his penis is about stick to his leg. If  heâs caught off your guard, or ask what youâre doing, tell him âIâm just taking care of you daddyâŠâ I got this one from several Escorts Iâve seen over the years. Trust me. You want some brownie points? Try it a few times. You can even be cute about it and say, âGosh, you had a lot in there.â Or my FAVORITE ââŠ.I see youâve been saving up for me. You had a lot!â The latter is perfect for you babies seeing daddy once a week. When youâre done cleaning him up, lay back on him. This is also another good time to ask for shit.Â
Time taken: 30 - 45 seconds
TASTE IT: Now I might lose a few of you here but itâs my duty to put it out there anyway. Â While you cleaning him up, put a forefinger in your mouth and say, âMmm you taste good.â He might pass the hell out. If youâre good at this he wonât know you donât actually have some cum on your finger. Hopefully, some of you catch what I mean on the latter. :) Or, if you swallow anyway then nothing is wrong with a little protein on your finger and tasting it.
PUT HIS SHIRT ON: If youâre going to be in the hotel room awhile, try this one out. This will kill him. If he wears good smelling cologne capitalize on it. With the shirt on, pull the collar up to your nose and say, âMmm I love your smell daddyâŠâ You wonât be lying if he wears good cologne. Chances are you already noticed his cologne but you were too much of a bitch to say you smell good. This is the sexiest shit EVER though. Nothing cuter than your 110, 120, 150 lbs ass in his big ass shirt. One of my previous sugarbabies used to do this. Drove me crazy.
Oh and congratulations!!!! Now heâs going to be thinking about you the rest of the day. Youâve inadvertently left your perfume on his shirt. Now heâs gonna be smelling your pretty little ass the rest of the day. Just donât leave any lipstick!
Take a selfie with the shirt on. Send it to him days later in between your visits.
Time taken: 10 seconds to put on his shirt. Time elapsed before he wants to take it back off and fuck again: 60 seconds. Likelihood of you getting that Celine purse: High.
HELP HIM GET DRESSED: This one is especially important for the busy executive, businessman or man that works in a professional setting and heâs on his lunch break, or on his way home to his vanilla life. No, donât help him pull his trousers up. But you can help with the belt as you kiss him on the chest. Iâm saying as he buttons his shirt, go help him. Help him button the ones on his sleeves as well. And most important help put his tie back on and straighten it and his collar afterwards. Then finish it with a kiss. If you donât get a chance to do all that, then collect his shoes and socks and bring them to him. Donâtâ try and put those on - thatâs just corny. Youâll love his reaction I promise.
Time taken: 30 â 45 seconds
CUDDLE HIM: Recently, I learned something about myself. I read somewhere that one of the reasons why I cheat is because I as a man want to be cuddled and held. I thought this was bullshit but itâs quite true.  I know this is contrary to all the SD advice youâve been getting but take it from a long standing member of the sugar community its true. Iâll explain this one better by giving a real life example. Now when I would first come over, Nebraska and I would sit on her bed and talk and sheâd find some way to wrap her legs around and hug me like I was her long lost boyfriend. I was going through some things and it felt good for somebody in this world to seemingly take an interest in my plight. Then, sheâd just sit there and stare at me like I was a big piece of steak. Staring at my mouth. When Iâd talk too long sheâd start taking off my clothes. While she was getting me undressed, she was always say one of these 3 things:  â I know you didnâtâ come here to do all that talkingâŠâ or âYou just gonna talk?â or my favorite âOr we gonna fuck or not daddy?â One day, after sex I was sitting on the bed and she climbed on the bed, sat down behind me so that I was in between her legs. As I was talking so she kissed me gingerly on my back and also laid her head on my back as we talked.  This shit made me feel like a king. When Nebraska and I ended our arrangement she said, âWell I was actually genuinely interested in youâŠâ This is why I mentioned only try these techniques when you have some type of genuine attraction to daddy. Its easier to do and you wonât be faking which will speak volumes.
Time taken: none. You were going to be doing all this talking anyway, just on one side of the bed or side by side as you sat on the bed. The difference here is youâre cuddling him while you do it. Â
Now, Iâm about to drop half of you right here.
LET HIM CUM TWICE: Youâre laying there in his arms, listening to his bullshit. Reach down and play with his love while heâs talking. After a moment ask, âYou got another round in you daddy?â Regardless of his answer, go down and start blowing him again. It should be cleaned if you followed my advice earlier â clean him up. Anyway, if he said no, heâll appreciate your dedication and let you try and revive him before he stops you. If he says yes, then its self explanatory. Â Relax though. Your middle-aged daddy most likely wonât have a second round in him anyway. This METHOD is extremely effective with the sugarbabies that only see their daddy once a week. Â But, for other arrangements its works quite well too. Â
A lot of chicks are jumping up, cleaning up and rushing out the door, saying how you have so much to do today. Nothing kills a relationship like feeling like youâre being used (even though you actually are!). But remember, you want him around awhile. This is definitely a powerful tool to make that happen. Sends a clear signal that youâre all about pleasing him. (I hope the latter doesnât get me in trouble). Trust me. An extra several minutes is cheap time to spend if you knew youâd be getting another 4 - 6 months out of daddy.
Time taken: 5 â 7 minutes
FINISHING TOUCHES: Put the finishing touches on it. When youâve helped him finish getting dressed, and you know heâs on his way back to work or back to business, when he heads out the door say something encouraging like, âGo getâem baby.â Or if he told you about some crap going on at work, take the opp to regurgitate it. âFuck Bob. Heâs an asshole. You should have got the promotion.â blah blah. You get the point. The latter can be applied even as you both do a last kiss before you head out the door. Again, itâs all about the finishing touches.
I know some of you are saying, âI ainât doing all that shit.â But remember you are selling a fantasy. Youâre giving the most precious part of your body away. Only to have your average sugardaddy relationship end in 2 to 3 months? All because heâs had his fill of your kitty. I assure you incorporating these techniques into your visits with daddy will go a long way and add months onto your relationship. This will help keep him coming back for more and more. Another way to put it, why not hook daddy for several months or even a few years and milk him dry (no pun intended) with just a few extra things?
I put the time on the end of these sections to show how long these little techniques actually take. Like I always say just a little extra goes a LONG way. These simple yet EXTREMELY effective techniques WILL prolong your sugar relationship. So why not incorporate them into your experience? I GUARANTEE daddy will respond to this stuff. I know because Iâve had it all done to me before and it blew me away then and it blows me away now as I type!
Damn Iâm horny now. And my visit with sugarbaby isnât for a few days.
Time to close the office door and get in a little pornhub and redtube.
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