if you’re looking to embody your divine feminine/heighten your energy…
learn to prioritize your personal space and boundaries. do not engage in what you feel is wrong or bad for you, just because you feel pressured to, or believe you should. do not settle for the bare minimum in relationships whether in love or in friendship. learn your worth and learn to honor your body, mind, and soul.
learn to detach. do not get overly attached to someone or something but learn to love something or someone, while having the strength to detach from them when necessary. do not become engulfed in the thought of someone or something and do not let them/it control your existence. do not become emotionally attached to those who do not return the same to you. do not let external circumstances control you. instead, learn to cultivate constant peace within you
learn to control your emotional space and practice emotional resilience through meditation, shadow work, personal reflection, and journaling. do not neglect your anger or sadness, but do not let these emotions consume you either. do not become irrational in a fit of rage or upset. becoming easily triggered is a trauma response we have from the past and it must be healthily controlled and managed. acknowledge your emotions and let them pass. learn to acknowledge and face situations bluntly, not irrationally. eliminate overthinking and jumping to conclusions but do not blunt yourself to apathy; worrying is natural, you just need to learn a balance.
learn to let go of action and practice passivity. stop chasing and let it come to you. our divine femininity relies on self-concept and the law of assumption; we believe what we want, we already have in physicality, because we already have it within our minds. do not engage in the masculine energy of chasing and searching - learn to live in life's flow and let your desires come to you naturally, in divine timing. let your nervous system rest and embrace softness.
learn to embrace your sensitivity, compassion, sensuality, and feminine seductivity. learn to honor your body and to pamper yourself in baths, perfumes, and spa treatments to become high maintenance. treat yourself like royalty, and so will everyone else. acknowledge your softness and let it be your strength; your forgiving nature, your empathy, your honesty, and your just nature, will attract those in search of these qualities while providing you with your needs and wants. learn that the feminine body is a portal between birth and death and that you hold the power of sex within you.
learn to honor your body. similar to the point above, learn to honor your body by limiting access to it. do not let mindless sex, one-night stands, and negative people consume your body, literally or metaphorically. your body is your own; limit your soul connections to people who are genuinely important to you.
learn to leave your past behind and the past of other people. forget attachment towards your past and the past of other people, primarily when in a relationship. people change, people become anew, the past can no longer define them. learn to leave the past behind and let it become a lesson to you in whatever form relevant to you.
learn to value alone time and rest. learn that overworking yourself, grinding, and chasing material satisfaction will only get you so far. learn that rest, meditation, and sleep are equally as important to your soul, mind, and body. learn to be alone with yourself and your own thoughts; learn to foster a comfort zone within you.
learn to maintain your individuality in relationships. do not dampen your love style in fear of rejection; do not limit or shelter your compassion, love, adoration, and self-expression in fear of rejection. do not change your love style to revolve around someone who does not want the real you. if your love language is touch, honor it. if your love language is words of affirmation, then practice it, but never disrespect yourself by denying what you require for someone not mature enough to give you what you need. loving fearlessly and with your heart on your sleeve will eventually attract the right one for you; those not on your vibrational level will go.
