Snow

25 - transmasc (He/They/It) - homoflexible/polyam - 18+ - Asks/Anons are always open - DMs open for trans n queer folk uwu

[bodilymalfunction]

Okay it's Abt time I make a pinned post so if I block people it'll be justified lmao

Firstly I want to start off by saying please don't jump head first into sexting me it makes me uncomfortable to do that w people I haven't talked to a bit first, yk? Let's chat some B4 I show u my hole <3 (unless ur trans, t4t is hot always)

DNI- if you perceive me as a woman fuck off, detrans based blogs (mainly if you make it Abt other people), dd/lg(etc) based blogs, incest blogs, beastiality blogs, cishet men, lesbians can interact but don't flirt w me please I'm not a woman, underage people, no age in bio/pinned people, pedos, the list will be added on to as I discover more shit i dont like

KINKS- Pup/Puppy, light bondage, choking, collars, spanking, ice play, praise, degradation (except being called dumb/stupid), being spat on, being covered in cum, being bloody (in theory/fake blood), somno, biting, scratching, hair pulling, free use, dom/sub (I'm a sub lol), intoxication (pot and alch), crying, sexting, breeding (non-preg), voices/audios, the list will be added to as I remember/get introduced to new things

HARD STOPS- Scat, Vomit, straight up r4pe/r4peplay, pregnancy (not rlly a hard stop just,,not into the idea #scary lmao)

Things to consider- I'm less likely to chat w you if ur significantly older than me (10+ yrs) or younger than 21.

Read what I'm craving for the day under #snow's fantasties

Pics n more activity on my IG !

@bodilymalfunction

Dm ur tumblr handle so i can approve of ur follow :)

[bodilymalfunction]

I just want to rip my head open, and pull the art from it like a receipt.

[orochislayer]

Positive affirmations:

I shall cut down all who stand in my way

I shall cut down all who stand in my way

I shall cut down all who stand in my way

I shall cut down all who stand in my way

I shall cut down all who stand in my way

[bodilymalfunction]

Jesus fuck i keep coming back to this account and getting upset at people having things i want lmfao i should just delete it at this point b4 i hang the rope

[houndmother]

“i’m just so subby i can’t say no even when i really don’t want it” you are an unsafe play partner.

[this-world-of-beautiful-monsters]

recipe for disaster (from the revolution starts at home)

[houndmother]

reblogging this a second time bc i think it’s really valuable to look at what abuse in kink CAN look like instead of just discussing what it DOESNT look like. I wanna talk about this more but frankly, this isn’t where my experience lies. if anyone has posts on the topic i’d love to read them.

[bodilymalfunction]

Hey google what the fuck do i do about feeling like all my friends like literally any and everything more than me and that i'm as temporary to their lives as a piece of gum

Hey google what do i do to stop feeling like my closest friends are strangers

Hey google how so i stop feeling like shit all the time

Hey google-

[bodilymalfunction]

I miss him

[autistisktingest]

Sexy asks!

1: First kiss?

2: First time masturbating?

3: First sex toy?

4: First kink tried?

5: First time doing oral?

6: First time having sex?

Turn Ons

7: Biggest turn on?

8: Biggest turn off?

9: Quickest way to get horny?

10: Weirdest thing that ever turned you on?

11: Top 3 places to be touched?

12: Ultimate fantasy?

13: Do you like the idea of a three or moresome?

14: Do you send nudes? Do you like receiving them?

Preferences

15: Sex or masturbation?

16: Spit or swallow?

17: Cut or uncut dicks?

18: Rough or sensual sex?

19: Oldest person you’d sleep with?

20: Loud or quiet partners?

21: How much foreplay do you like?

22: How much teasing do you like?

23: What is too big for you to take?

24: Do you do hookups or only sleep with a partner?

25: How much kissing do you like during sex?

26: What’s the most attractive part of the body?

Location

27: Favourite place to have sex?

28: Would you have sex in public?

29: Last place you had sex?

30: Where would you most like to have sex?

31: Do you like spontaneous sex, or do you need to be in the mood?

32: Could you go through with a hookup at a strangers house?

Kinks

33: What’s your biggest kink?

34: What’s your limit?

35: Are you okay with name calling in bed?

36: Would you do any BDSM?

37: Do you prefer to tie somebody up or be tied up?

38: Favourite type of bondage?

39: Do you like orgasm denial/forced orgasm?

40: Do you like overstimulation?

41: Do you like having pain involved?

42: Do you like biting/being bitten?

43: Have you ever been made to/made somebody beg for it?

44: Do you have any strange or extreme kinks?

45: Have any roleplaying preferences?

46: Send a kink with this number. Do you have that kink?

Masturbation

47: Do you own sex toys? How many?

48: Favourite Sex Toy?

49: What do you masturbate to?

50: How often do you masturbate?

51: How often do you use sex toys to masturbate?

52: Do you masturbate with penetration?

53: Do you go for multiple rounds or settle at one or no orgasms?

Oral

54: Do you enjoy giving oral?

55: Do you prefer giving or receiving oral?

56: What makes you orgasm the fastest when receiving oral?

57: Do you have a preferred technique for giving oral?

58: Can you deepthroat?

For people with dicks… 🍆

59: How long and how thick is it?

60: Do you do anal? Top or bottom?

61: Are you circumcised?

62: Do you like your balls being played with?

63: Do you enjoy prostate stimulation? Ever came from it?

64: Where do you like to finish?

For people with vaginas…🌮

65: Do you like playing with your clit?

66: How do you prefer to do it?

67: What’s your breast size?

68: How often do you go braless?

69: Do you finger yourself?

70: How familiar are you with your g-spot?

71: Do you squirt?

Sex

72: Favourite position?

73: How often do you do unprotected sex?

74: How loud are you in bed?

75: Do you enjoy having nipples played with?

76: Do you like/dislike/love/hate cum?

77: How good are you at dirty talk?

78: Do you get sleepy after an orgasm?

Other

79: Do you like wearing/seeing people in lingerie?

80: Do you masturbate or have sex with clothes on?

81: What’s your favourite style of underwear?

82: Are stockings/thigh highs a turn on?

83: Ever had somebody say no to a kink you suggested trying?

84: Do you trim, shave or leave pubic hair untouched? How do you prefer partners?

85: How many orgasms can you have in a day?

86: How many other people know your dick/bra size?

87: What do you wear to bed?

88: Do you have any taboo fetish, kink or fantasy?

89: Try to describe how orgasm feels for you.

90: Have you ever been to a strip club? How was it? If not, would you?

Ass play🍑

91: Do you like to have your ass played with?

92: Do you play with your own ass?

93: What's the biggest you've taken?

94: Would you ever do something to someone elses ass?

95: What does your asshole look like? Shape, shade, size?

96: Do you use lube or only natural juices and spit?

97: Do you gape or like gapes?

98: Creampies?

99: Would you ever eat ass and/or have your ass eaten?

100: How was your first time doing analsex with a partner?

Fun questions!

A: Do you name your genitalia?

B: What would be your stripper name?

C: Any funny sex stories?

D: What food if any would you use during sex?

E: Would you give somebody a sex toy as a gift?

F: What’s the weirdest porn you’ve ever seen?

G: Do you often get horny in public?

H: Ever used something that isn’t made for sex in the bedroom?

I: Have you ever walked in on somebody or been walked in on?

J: Do you have any friends you’d sleep with?

[r0ckpsycho]

If you're curious, send asks.

[bodilymalfunction]

cw // vent / self violence

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Im gonna scream my brain is actively rotting its pouring out from my ears and blood is running from my eyes while i drool and drag my feet into the next day

I walk through the doors at work with a bright smile and stiff upright stature and say hello in the cheeriest tone ive once won an award at school for being the most positive person and helping others feel better and i cant even help myself

Every day i fight the urge to rip my skin open and bleed out every day i fight the urge to lay in front of a train every day is another fucking problem that i cause that i cant fix that i am just unlucky enough to be near and be forced to listen to someone bitch about as if there's something i can do about it

Im gonna bleed and leak and drool and fall apart piece by piece my skin will slide from my muscles my muscles will drop from my bones and my bones will scatter along the floor until i am nothing because i have always been nothing and i will always be nothing

Im not enough for my friends and i never will be i just wish they'd give up on me already so no one gets hurt when i finally drop i hate hurting people i hate hate hate hate hate hate . theyre all already partially there anyway so close but so far please leave me behind

I just want it to end drive a nail through my frontal lobe and scramble it please i want to stop crying i want the pain in my chest to go away i want my joints to stop aching and my head to stop pounding i want it to end

I need help but I can't afford it. I barely want it anyway

Im a broken fucking record its always the same im always depressed im always tired im always lazy im always alone nothings new nothings different its boring and im sure you're tired of it.

Please be as tired of me as i am of myself.

[b-0-ngripper]

No one is safe until trans women are safe

[b-0-ngripper]

Let me take this one step further:

I refuse to participate in queer spaces where trans women are not welcomed and celebrated.

I'd rather go hangout in my transfem friend's living room and cook her dinner.

[florallychaotic]

Im gonna be so real can yall actually talk about ways we can support trans women in the UK instead of giving all the attention to fucking JKR. I already know that Harry Poter sucks, I wanna know how to actually HELP people. Something something you have to love the oppressed more than you hate the oppressor

[snowonthebeachmp3]

trans actual uk - trans led and run advocacy, education and empowerment organisation

fiveforfive - collective fund for trans women and girls and transfem causes

gendered intelligence - trans led advocacy org

mermaids - supports trans youth

akt - lgbtq youth homelessness charity

loving me - domestic abuse service for trans people in england

not a phase - for trans adults

[theforesteldritch]

‘We need more loud, unashamed queers’ yes but some of you can’t even seem to handle a bisexual woman liking men.

[theforesteldritch]

some of you can’t even handle not treating bi people as punching bags because you think our bisexuality makes us less queer than you.

[theforesteldritch]

’bi people center men’ well no, you’re perpetuating the idea that bi men are really just gay and bi women are really just straight. And also maybe hot take it’s not a bad thing for a person to be attracted to and love men and it doesn’t make said person’s love for and attraction to women any lesser. You just see bisexuals as tainted and dirty.

[theforesteldritch]

consider that a bisexual person getting into a relationship with a man after dating you doesn’t mean you were thrown aside for your former partner to ‘run back’ to men, your relationship is over, you have no say over who they date now and that bisexuals are still bisexual even after dating you.

[theforesteldritch]

‘bisexuals center men’ no, we just aren’t centering YOU

[goodbigonebad]

Not to hijack your post but I would like to add on just so that people are aware...

If someone (of any gender/sexuality), especially a significant other/partner, uses your bisexual identity against you by:

Claiming that you're a fake/fraud/traitor to your community if you don't stay with them

Threatening to out you for any reason or ruin your reputation/life/connections by spreading rumors based in bisexual stereotypes

Coercing you to participate in a sexual activity such as a threesome that you are not comfortable with to prove your sexuality

Asking you to prove that you're really attracted to (their gender) by engaging in any sexual activity you may be uncomfortable with

Insulting you for being bisexual either alone or in front of others; using your bisexuality as a scapegoat for relationship insecurities or immaturity; venting about bisexuals or the stereotypical behavior of bisexuals; or making you use a different (usually monosexual) label so that they aren't viewed in a negative light for dating a bisexual person

Becoming possessive/controlling and attempting to justify it by claiming that you'll cheat on them because you're bisexual

These are some of many biphobia-driven acts of abuse that have bisexuals as the sexual orientation demographic that experiences the highest amount of IPV. There are specific, unique risk-factors that we as bisexuals have when it comes to IPV. It isn't limited to just women/feminine persons or men/masculine persons, it can happen whether you're cis or trans/non-binary, or any race/ethnicity - though some factors worsen the rates - but by all research and statistics, the risk of IPV is heightened when you are a bisexual person. It is driven by monosexism and biphobia, specifically. It is aimed squarely at us.

No one has ownership of your body but you. No one can tell you to not be attracted to a certain gender, or not to love/date or have sex with a person of that gender. Whether it's a partner, family member, friend, doctor, therapist, or anyone else in your life, erasing the ability we have as bisexuals to be attracted to any gender can be anything from a microaggression to conversion therapy. It's controlling behavior that limits basic aspects of bisexuals as human beings. It is especially egregious when you are no longer in a relationship to wish to control who your ex-partner is with next, or their body, or anything about them in any way.

Bisexuality is an inherently non-binary, non-monosexual identity that does not center any gender by definition. The only requirement to being bisexual is to have an attraction to both same/similar and opposite/different genders, or any/all genders, as bisexuality is a fluid and dynamic sexual orientation. It doesn't have to be even attraction between genders, but it doesn't have to be preferential attraction either, and it varies wildly between all of us.

It will never be centering men for bisexuals to experience what is defined as an aspect of our sexual orientation. Bisexuality is not an androcentric, monosexual attraction to men or masculine-aligned/multi-aligned/unaligned masc individuals, but bisexuality incorporates it. Bisexuality is not a gynocentric, monosexual attraction to women or feminine-aligned/multi-aligned/unaligned fem individuals, but bisexuality incorporates it. It incorporates androgyny, gender neutrality, fluid and multiple presentations and identities, in-so-far as any bisexual person may be attracted to any gender presentation as an individual. Bisexuality is broad and complex and transcends dichotomy. We're not unanimous, we all experience our bisexuality uniquely. We're not better than monosexuals, but we are absolutely not in any way inferior and our attraction/love is just as real as any monosexual attraction.

Bisexual attraction is not half-way straight/lesbian/gay, or incidentally so, or temporarily so. It's not wanting to experiment or having a fetish for a particular gender. It's the way we are and it is absolutely not appropriate for any other person to attempt to change that, no matter what their sexual orientation is. It is, however, abusive behavior, and that needs to be stated a lot more often. Your partner, no matter how good they may be in other aspects, should never be using your bisexuality against you in any way. It is biphobic intimate partner violence. It is wrong.

[ghostboyravenight-deactivated20]

I’m not gonna lie, the whole “what if a big, hairy trans man started using the women’s bathroom? what are TERFs gonna do then?” thing kinda pisses me off being used as some checkmate, because it insinuates that passing trans men would have any kind of power in that situation. If a passing trans man is forced to use the women’s bathroom, you know what will happen? Security will be called on him, he’ll be thrown out, and he’ll be forced to out himself as trans in order to avoid punishment, which will put an even bigger target on his back. He’s still going to be harassed. He’s still going to be forced into an uncomfortable and potentially dangerous situation, and he probably won’t avoid punishment anyway because the current laws in place are never going to favour any trans person’s defence over a cis person’s.

It also completely ignores trans men who aren’t “big and hairy” and don’t pass enough to be mistaken for a cis man. Non-passing trans men (or even men who look or sound effeminate enough to be suspected) who are forced to use the women’s bathrooms are still at a huge risk of harassment or even violence, especially young trans boys who are forced into their assigned bathrooms at school. Nex Benedict was literally murdered in a girl’s bathroom. Girls and women aren’t these inherently non-violent, peaceful and submissive beings (for one thing, that’s misogynistic). Trans men and boys get beaten up by them too, because most of us pre-T aren’t considered a threat, and we fucking die.

That’s not even to mention the trouble we already have in men’s bathrooms, because if we don’t pass, cis men will interrogate us on whether or not we’re “real men” and then sexually assault us if they discover we’re trans. Corrective rapes that trans men face is not something to be ignored, and I have trans male friends that it’s happened to who are lucky to be alive right now.

Bathroom laws will affect us just as much. The violence that trans women face is something that trans men can also relate to, and both need to be talked about without people categorising all trans men as “big, hairy, strong men able to beat up anyone who tries to threaten them” when that’s not the case like 90% of the time. Acting like passing trans men are just there to make TERFs look stupid, when TERFs are the ones who are violent towards us no matter how much we pass, is just diminishing our experiences.

[auti-starshine]

Like you mentioned, VERY RECENTLY a young trans kid was beaten to death in the women’s restroom. Bathroom laws/not having gender neutral restrooms is dangerous for ALL trans people.

[aetherial-boy]

if you’re a wheelchair user who takes the bus i wish you an easy time getting on and off and no one arguing about you needing the space

[status-quo-hater]

I feel like a broken record because of how much I mention that intersex infants are ritually killed in multiple countries. NOBODY talks about it. Holy shit. One day I dedicated researching intersex specific oppression because of claims from people that intersexism is just misattributed transphobia. According to my research, there is documentation of intersex infants being abandoned or murdered in China, Pakistan, Nepal, and multiple countries in Africa. I'm sure it happens way more in secret too!

Sorry if this ask is inappropriate I just feel like you're an intersex blog with a fairly large following and I just need people to know this. Nobody talks about it.

Not a weird ask at all, it's actually infuriating that nobody talks about this. And then perisex people also turn around and say we don't matter because we're "rare", huh, I wonder why it seems like there's not many of us! Couldn't have anything to do with the systematic birth-culling or entire modern medical establishment trying to make those of us allowed to live look as perisex as possible. Definitely, we're just like unicorns. Naturally rare.

[untitledsystemblog]

people do talk about it, it's just that intersex erasure is extremely prevalent in the global south. intersex organisations in the global south face a massive disparity in funding and recognition and intersex activists have to work themselves to exhaustion because of the lack of resources. a large number of intersex people in the global south are kicked out of their homes for being "curses" and prevented from accessing education or employment, and those who aren't are almost always forced to hide the fact that they are intersex and never tell a soul out of a risk of being attacked or shunned by the community they live in.

even if intersex people in the global south were given the resources to speak, you'd still never hear about these things because most of the countries themselves have no policy in place to archive anything about intersex people, to the point that a lot of doctors in the global south don't know anything about intersex people and knowingly perform botched experimental surgeries because they think it's "better" that way. these all come from first-hand accounts from intersex people in the global south, both in my own life and the very limited written accounts. the west's disinterest in the global south's struggles, or the erasure and censorship that hides these struggles, are not the same as something not being talked about.

[allthebrazilianpolitics]

So, in Brazilian, USAmerican, and LGBT+ politics news, transgender Brazilian congresswoman Erika Hilton has received from the USA a visa marking her gender as male.

Hilton canceled a trip she was going to make to the US this month, where she was going to participate on Saturday (12) in a panel at the Brazil Conference, and says she will take action against US President Donald Trump at the UN (United Nations) because she considers the case to be transphobic and disrespectful of her Brazilian civil records.

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[allthebrazilianpolitics]

UPDATE: fellow transgender Brazilian congresswoman Duda Salabert has been informed her visa will also register her as male.

"More than transphobia, there is a question of national sovereignty involved: it is not up to the US government to disagree with and refute Brazil's documents," she said.

(x)

[transcyberism]

hey it's probably a really good idea to download a copy of your Master Promissory Note since most of them stipulate that your loans are *specifically owed to the Department of Education* and if you intend to dispute the debt in the wake of the DoE dissolving that will be really good to have

[transcyberism]

log in and then go to My Documents and download a copy of it. i'm serious. if trump dissolves the DoE entirely it may make the debt uncollectable depending on exactly how they do it, and he's too stupid to listen to lawyers that tell him when he's breaking the law. worst case you have an extra PDF on your computer. best case your student loans go away because you signed a contract to pay DoE and no one else. go download a copy.