still thinking about the apparent primacy of sam in bran's affections (over his mother, over mercy, over charles) and how he had no qualms sacrifing mercy for his sake, much like he had no qualms breaking his own rules to save sherwood. much like, in a looser comparison, he ended up killing his mother to save sam. this factual dismissal of women in his life creates an interesting wrinkle in the argument his deepest and therefore most dangerous attachments have been to women. it comes to mind that only a very selective reading of his own history and a certain worldview would bring bran to insist that sexual and romantic concerns sealed through a mating bond are exclusively responsible for his states of madness and thus need to be uniquely controlled.
this statement does not fully reflect what happens in the books or at least different interpretations would be possible. the first advent of his berserker was marked by a risk to sam's life. after blue jay's death, he was barely holding on to the monster but he thought sherwood's death would be the thing to tip the scale if he didn't save him. in other words, i don't know that the mating bond being the natural locus of bran's battle with his wolf due to the unparalleled strength of feelings it generates is such an uncomplicated truth. in both the most notable examples of this struggle, bran's descent into madness was also associated with a male relative. yet, he doesn't try to deliberately distance himself from sam or sherwood. a possible reason for this could be that they are his oldest relationships, it's too late for him to control his feelings. but in that case, couldn't he at least recognise they also pose a risk and mark its nearness when they are in danger? yet, this is not what we are told, this undercurrent is completely absent when their lives are threatened.
when looking at bran's reasoning closely, madness doesn't seem to descend directly from grief. no, bran believes it stems from one of two things (which are in some ways the same thing): either witch magic or romantic love. for bran to believe this, a specific intepretation of events must be accepted. one, that his first madness was not caused by fear for sam's life per se, but by the fracturing created when having to choose between two enormously strong bonds. whether he considers one natural and the other magically plasmated or recognises that love for his mother stayed his hand during centuries of slavery and made the actual choice to kill her soul-rending, we don't know. but figuratively both possibilities work towards the same purpose: that he very nearly killed his son for her. which is exactly the breach of personal values he also risked when he lost himself after blue jay's death. and while he didn't kill charles, he breached another of his taboos by forcibly turning and mating leah. by his own words, he doesn't think this would have happened due to fear for sherwood's life alone, it was blue jay's death that brought him on that edge.
curiously, it's sam that brings bran back to himself the first time. if he is not to be read as a cause for his madness, he is certainly placed as his saviour from it. the second time, it's sherwood's call that saves bran by providing him with leah.
if we put events in this neat little boxes, bran's beliefs make a little more sense. in the symbolic space of his mind, a strong attachment to a woman is what has historically driven him to the verge of things beyond reason. to madness in the form of dissolution of his beliefs and, therefore, sense of self. what is the monster coming out if not this? while strong attachments for male relatives have provided a more sensible kind of love. one that can even dispel the madness*.
as already stated, this is a very selective reading. whether we take it at face value or consider this bran's subjective interpretation, the overall message remains the same. this recurrence of events bakes into the figures of the cornick witch, blue jay, leah, mercy, an anxiety over the danger of an inversion in patriarchal order and values when faced with women's agency. the (im)material power of a magic spell gets figuratively equated to the spell love can cast and then that loving connection is again made more tangible through the creation of a different (im)material bond. it's a displacement of blame similar to that between asil and mariposa, the confusion of power dynamics that paints men as victims unable to avoid obiedence to their sexual impulses and women as their puppeteers for having simply evoked them. bran is the dangerous one but it's not him being kept under tight control.
this misogynistic thrust ties together both the causes and consequences of bran buying into the selective intepretation given above. he projects blame for his actions on the influence women have on him because he is already steeped in a mentality that facilitates this, because to control them is easier than controlling himself or other men, because the antecedent of his mother's actual controlling behaviour gives him reason to consider this anxiety justified. as a consequence, while it is truly debatable that his feelings for his male relatives (even if not romantic) are actually less intense, he only feels the need to distance himself from women he perceives as sexually dangerous. which prevents them from becoming as important and allows him to keep prioritising the bonds he deems stable and salvific**. and on an on in a neat little cycle.
*as an aside, i know anna also saves bran from going berserker during cry wolf. i don't know whether pb is rigorously creating a thematic weaving of events, i am just picking up the intrinsic meanings that emerge from certain patterns whether she wants it or not. anna represents a divergence that confirms the pattern, in the sense that to pb she does represent a feminine benefic power that is exceptional in the landscape of negative female figures. but it's a power that is strongly tied to submission. it reinforces the idea that women do have control over men when they attract their affections and that they can force these feelings on them, but erases related anxieties by making the speller devoid of independent goals and any material control over her circumstances, so that this power is neutralised of any dangerous connotation. i find this very boring compared to the rest of the puzzle of bran's life so i am electing to the dedicate little tought to this.
** i know i just said i am not sure pb is being too rigorous in weaving a theme here, but i do wonder if the "substitution" that occurs when bran changes leah instead of sherwood and is thus taken out of his madness is meant as a deliberate turning point. one where leah, by virtue of this confusion, is granted both a salvific and threatening role in the handling of bran's wolf and can reconcile the roles as two sides of the same coin. i mean clearly this element is present, i am just wondering how much of a deliberate connection it has with the larger picture. (and obviously the reconciliation is not necessarily less objectifying, per se)