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[inkymoonarts]

First post- kinda nervous LMAO

[kebriones]

albert!

[monderette]

⟡ — “Seven minutes. Seven minutes is all I can spare to play with you.„ ⟡ Damn it, I'm praying to him.🛐🛐🛐

[poreyneel]

reborn

[doinkydude]

My sweetiepoo 80’s timecapsule

[cranity]

Fight me!!!

[ilepigg]

I heart you (not)

[boneybutt]

Kopi & Cookies 🍪

We love Kopi in this HOUSE, also hehe hi i finished some Date Everything art yippee

Pose Ref: Here

Just a cute lil drawing of mine and my friends Vtuber avis hanging out with the sweetest coffee bean 💙

[asillybee]

Back with another drawing, this time of Bodhi CAUSE ALMOST NOBODY TALKS ABOUT HIM (btw yes I used a reference I'm so sorry)

[jaykay001]

wheres all the Bodhi content :(

[chrymind]

Live laugh love Hector

[shoomlah]

"What if Goromi was more in line with Majima's personal style post-Zero and also from the 1980's" was a thought I followed to it's inevitable conclusion last night

[marciaillust]

[meangirlnurse]

i’ve started replacing “i want to die” with “i feel overwhelmed” in my internal monologue, which is usually more accurate and more productive

[philonotis]

ive been working on replacing ‘im so stupid’ with ‘im so silly’ and it has the same effect!

[shrunkencannelini]

“I can’t do this” -> This will be a challenge for me, it’s normal to feel intimidated

“I hate this” -> This is a tough situation to handle and I’m doing my best

“I hate myself” -> I’m struggling with low self esteem right now, I need to support myself as I would a friend

“I can’t believe I forgot again” -> It’s tough to balance so many things, maybe I need to let go of some of them

“They’re not going to like me” -> I don’t have to perform for anyone, my personality is valid and loveable just as is

The list could go on and on…

Redirecting the “blame” from yourself and recognizing that you are a human suffering through normal, difficult human experiences is important. Support yourself like you’d support any of your close friends if they said these things.

[beyondthetemples-ooc]

I can’t tell you how delighted I am to see Actual Scripted Examples!

I’ve known I need to modify my self-talk like this for three+ years, and I’ve been trying for that long, but I never know what to replace it with. So the examples are super incredibly helpful, thank you so much. ~<333

[prof-grace-aspen]

I really needed ““I can’t do this” -> This will be a challenge for me, it’s normal to feel intimidated” right now, thank you.

[paticmak]

him

[sandersstudies]

You CANNOT serve from an empty vessel but go off I guess

[i-have-n0-idea-what-im-d0ing-de]

OP what does this mean?

[sandersstudies]

When your friends are hungry, you cannot serve them from an empty breadbasket, no matter how good your intentions. When they're thirsty, you cannot serve them from an empty pitcher, no matter the effort you put in.

We have to stock ourselves with good things before we are able to give them away, and if we are too exhausted to make bread, we must rest before we can make it to serve our friends. If we are too hungry to serve, we must eat some bread ourselves first.

It's a metaphor for emotional exhaustion. When we wear ourselves down it makes it difficult or impossible to help the people around us, and all the effort and good intentions in the world can't make up for the fact that our vessels are empty. It's hard to not want to serve when our friends are in trouble, but trying to serve from an empty vessel often leaves both of you floundering.

On the contrary, when we care for ourselves and are kind to our body and mind, we are full vessels, and serving the people around us becomes easier. That's why it's important to take time for ourselves once in a while, to refill ourselves with good things.

[cluegrrl]

In the event of a sudden pressure change, put on your own oxygen mask before helping a companion with theirs if needed.

[ailithnight]

I have never seen this concept so perfectly and eloquently articulated.

You cannot serve from an empty vessel.

[artcllctn]