good dog's guide to gaming your ruins
you may not know this about me, but i'm on a never-ending quest to make my ruins as horrible as possible. it's like an addiction. they're the only relief i get these days, so might as well make them an Event, right?
what i've stumbled across is a technique that's really quite multi-purpose, whether you're newly denial-curious or have been living on the edge for awhile, so to speak. this guide may be helpful to you if you are:
someone who struggles to identify the "point of no return"/edge
someone who struggles to actually ruin rather than fully cumming
someone who's looking to learn how to "ride the edge"/hold an edge
just a goddamn masochist who wants to torture yourself.
this guide is designed for pussies. i don't have a penis, so penis-havers, YMMV. (if you have a dick, pls feel free to chime in if you find anything comparable/are able to use some of this guide.)
if you're not already addicted to the edge, you're about to be.
good? okay, good :) let's get to it.
a device with a stopwatch
whatever reliably gets you to the edge. if you're newer to denial, i really recommend your fingers--IME, it's easier to stay aware/learn your point of no return this way, but i also know it's not feasible for all bodies, so do your best :)
if you're newer, i recommend just getting to the edge before starting. if you're more experienced/trying this technique out for, oh, the third time, consider doing a few edges before starting, just for fun, hey? in any case, you need to be close. as close as you can trust yourself to get without going over.
if you know your point of no return, get real close to it.
if you're newer/struggle to identify the edge, just get nice and worked up. you don't *have* to be right there for the next part, it just helps :)
step 2: start your stopwatch.
there's something special about watching that number tick up, huh? this serves two purposes: 1. a visual indicator of how long you've tortured yourself by the end, and 2. a way of timing varied stimulation. we're about to get crazy. are you ready?
step 3: watch that clock.
here's where the gaming comes in.
5 seconds of firm, toe-curling stimulation, exactly the kind that gets you to the edge.
5 seconds of the lightest touch you can still feel. and i mean light.
here's the kicker: you can only ruin during the light stimulation. if you can't ruin from the lightest possible touch, you weren't anywhere near close enough to the edge. that's okay--you have the next 5 seconds to try and get there :)
if you suddenly hit the point of no return during the 5 seconds of hard stimulation, immediately go hands-off. you might not fully ruin, just get those weird little flutters. once that's done, start over.
those 5 seconds of hard pressure are two-fold: they teach you to identify the edge, and then they teach you to hold it.
the 5 seconds of light stimulation are to teach you that if you're not as close as you can possibly be, you don't deserve to ruin :)
adjust the ratio if you're having trouble. i've actually situated myself pretty comfortably at 7 seconds of hard stimulation, 3 seconds of light. there's something really cruel about the ratios. you get more time to touch/get close, but also more time you have to hold it, if you get too close.
if you're newer to all this, and you're just really having trouble, i would recommend: 1. stop the timer + just focus on getting to the edge again, then start over with the on/off; 2. scrap the timer entirely and just count in your head (takes some of the pressure off).
sometimes i just hold my finger still, barely touching, during those 3 seconds. i can and have ruined just from that. it's horrible.
i've found that the less stimulation i have going over the edge, the worse the ruin is. which is, obviously, the entire point of this game.
even if it takes you forever to get to that ruin, that is, again, the point. you will be very frustrated and desperate during the entire duration of this game.
i average around 5 minutes of this before i finally do hit that ruin point. yeah. yeahhh.
this could be especially fun [not] if you set yourself a minimum time limit before you can even consider ruining.
or set up a series of random beeps, such that you're not allowed to ruin unless there's a beep AND it's during the 5 seconds of light stimulation.
i don't know why i do this to myself.
have fun, and do let me know if you test this out :)
