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In the interest of fairness.

In a 2009 report by the Department of Health and Human Services, 27.3% of fatalities were perpetrated by the mother compared to 14.8% by the father. They reported that 9.8% were perpetrated by the mother and another person while only 1.4% were by the father and another person.

Woman kills man for refusing to give her beer

Woman stabs man for refusing to have sex with her, threatens to cry rape

Woman rips off man’s testicle because he rejected her, tried to swallow it

Woman kills man for refusing to marry her

Woman cuts off man’s penis because of argument

Woman shoots her husband after argument

Woman cuts off cheating boyfriend’s penis, flushes it

Woman suspects husband of cheating, stabs him to death

Woman shoots, kills boyfriend for cheating

Woman stabs boyfriend for cheating in Monopoly board game

Woman shoots, kills man for ending relationship

Woman sets husband’s genitals on fire for hugging another woman, dies

Woman kills, dismembers husband’s body over argument

Mother kills 18-month old twins to get back at husband she thought was cheating

Woman kills husband after he confronts her about affair

Woman kills cheating husband with lethal dose of heroin

Woman runs over, kills cheating husband

Obese woman sits on boyfriend, kills him and avoids jail time

Woman kills boyfriend with stiletto shoe

Woman murders cheating husband with coffee mug

Woman kills boyfriend for not buying her a gift

Woman kills boyfriend who accused her of cheating

Woman stabs and kills boyfriend , Judge: “I hope you die in prison”

Woman shoots, kills ex-boyfriend, buries him in pile of debris

Woman shoots boyfriend in the back of the neck, killing him

Woman shoots boyfriend six times, kills him after argument

Woman stabs, kills boyfriend over mother’s day gift

Woman stabs boyfriend to death, also stabbed her husband to death 7 years prior

Woman pushes way into home, stabs boyfriend to death over argument

Woman angry at boyfriend takes her anger out on his 4 year-old

Woman stabs boyfriend to death, thought he was cheating on her

Woman bludgeons husband to death with hammer to pay back loan

Woman stabs, kills boyfriend during argument

Woman murders boyfriend for tweeting out his female crush

Woman shoots and kills boyfriend, kills self while out on bail

Woman stabs to death boyfriend over argument about an ex

Woman stabs and kills boyfriend for social media posts

Woman shoots boyfriend in the face, fails to make it look like suicide

Woman kills boyfriend’s puppies during phone argument

Woman shoots boyfriend in the face with rifle during argument

Woman pushes boyfriend off fence after argument, killing him

Woman attacks boyfriend with large knife, intent to kill

Woman abused, threatens to kill boyfriend in sleep

Woman beats, murders boyfriend and puts him in freezer because he wanted to break up with her

Woman held gun to boyfriend’s head, murders on Christmas

Woman with previous assault charge on another boyfriend stabs and kills different boyfriend

Woman attempts to murder boyfriend with giant breasts

Woman stabs boyfriend in neck, killing him after argument

Woman chokes and stabs ex-boyfriends cat to death

Woman starts argument with boyfriend, stabs and kills with umbrella

Woman kills boyfriend with her car after argument

Woman shoots, kills boyfriend in his bathroom

Woman shoots, kills boyfriend with illegal handgun

Woman sets her boyfriend on fire, killing him

Woman shoots and kills ex-boyfriend multiple times, kills herself

Woman shoots boyfriend in the head, found out he was dating other women

Woman stabs and kills boyfriend over finances

Woman stabs and kills boyfriend’s lizard because she thought he was flirting with other women

Woman shoots, kills boyfriend who wanted to end their relationship and urged her to get an abortion

Woman attempts to murder husband with poison in her vagina

Woman stabs boyfriend to death after he slaps daughter

Woman conspires to have secret lover murder her husband

Woman stabs, kills boyfriend over argument on Labor Day

Woman stabs boyfriend in the chest over argument

Woman stabs boyfriend to death after finding photos of other women on cell phone

Woman tortured ex-boyfriend’s dog until it died after argument

Woman stabs boyfriend in his chest and through his lung, nearly killing him

Woman fatally stabs boyfriend during heated argument

Woman kills her boyfriend with blunt force trauma to the head using frying pan

Woman stabs boyfriend to death for drinking her beer

Woman strangles boyfriend to death during argument

Woman stabs boyfriend with serrated knife over argument

Woman shoots, murders boyfriend while she was on house arrest for another murder 11 years prior

Woman stabs, kills boyfriend then texts friend about eating the body

Woman stabs, kills boyfriend over dispute

Woman shoots boyfriend in the head, suspecting he was cheating

Woman shoots man in the groin after argument

Woman fires handgun into the home of man who denied her a kiss

Woman stabs husband to death over cheating fears

Woman shoots, kills ex-boyfriend and his new girlfriend

Women kills husband, commits suicide

Woman shoots and kills man over argument

Woman kills husband with baseball bat for talking back to her

Woman kills husband, confesses to family then shoots herself

Woman stabs boyfriend 31 times after he said ex’s name in his sleep

Woman shoots husband in the head, shoots herself

Woman kills boyfriend over argument at house party

Woman shoots boyfriend with shotgun for texting another woman

Woman kills boyfriend because she “smelled sex on him”

Woman runs over boyfriend, kills him

Woman stabs boyfriend in the eye for turning down threesome

Woman stabs ex-boyfriend for refusing to stop playing the Eagles

Woman stabs boyfriend, throws out his prosthetic legs so he can’t chase her

Woman ties up, stabs husband 193 times, jury finds her guilty for suspicion of trying to claim life insurance

Woman stabs fiance for refusing to take her to the liquor store

Woman assaults and threatens boyfriend with knife for not cuddling

Woman stabs man with ceramic squirrel for not bring home beer

Woman stabs taxi driver after he refuses to have sex with her

Woman stabs ex-boyfriend in his penis after discovering he had a new girlfriend

Woman stabs boyfriend twice over time he spent in bathroom

Woman stabs boyfriend over Facebook post

Woman stabs her boyfriend several times because his dog ate her marijuana stash

Woman stabs boyfriend for not calling her every two hours

Woman shoots man five times for rejecting her, kills herself

Woman murders ex-boyfriend with liquor laced with poison, was jealous he was engaged to new woman

Feminist mob attacks praying men.

Girl rapes boy at knife point.

Women primary abusing of children in custody.

Woman gets slap on the wrist for rape of minor.

Woman assaults men, then blames men for attacking by sending herself fake threats.

Man raped and stabbed by women,

15 year old girl stabs and kills 14 year old boy after argument

13 year old girl stabs self, 13 year old friend, and 11 year old sister

14 year old girl stabs and kills 11 year old sister 40 times because she thought she was ungrateful

16 year old girl stabs and kills 16 year old best friend 60 times (what the best friend did wasn’t okay but it did not call for murder)

11 year old girl stabs mother while she is sleeping 9 times because she wasn’t allowed to go outside

Woman stabs boyfriend over $200.

15 year old female stabs 19 year old man who tried to protect his 22 year old female friend (who was also stabbed) after argument

Mother stabs and kills four year old son to death

18 year old female stabs and kills mother in face and neck 79 times

Woman drives car into church and stabs husband on altar for “worshipping Nascar”

Woman stabs husband for not buying beer

24 year old woman stabs sister after argument

34 year old woman stabs fiance over argument on what their wedding color scheme should be

28 year old woman stabs boyfriend in eye for refusing to have a threesome

21 year old stabs 21 year old sister over argument over apple fritters

54 year old woman stabs boyfriend for refusing to stop listening to The Eagles

24 year old woman stabs self and then claims a man did it

52 year old woman stabs 45 year old boyfriend with knife and fork after argument

Woman stabs 61 year old mother

48 year old woman stabs 24 year old boyfriend

Woman stabs fiance for not wanting to drive drunk to the liquor store

Woman in 20s stabs 56 year old stranger after altercation

48 year old woman stabs 27 year old daughter in back

30 year old woman stabs 42 year old man after verbal argument

26 year old woman stabs bf after his dog eats her marijuana

Woman stabs her child’s father after argument

19 year old female stabs 18 year old male after argument

48 year old woman stabs 53 year old husband and kills him

28 year old woman stabs 41 year old after her baby shower

30 year old stabs 26 year old pregnant sister and law and kills both her and baby

Woman stabs cop during a traffic stop

24 year old stabs 28 year old brother over argument about household chores

28 year old woman stabs 16 year old female in the face that she suspected was her boyfriend’s mistress

Woman stabs boyfriend 31 times after he says his ex’s name in his sleep

28 year old woman stabs boyfriend after dispute about a camping trip

33 year old woman stabs 42 year old husband in neck three times after petty argument

49 year old stabs herself and blames ex-husband

Woman stabs husband over television show characters

Woman stabs 23 year old boyfriend after argument

Woman stabs husband because he snored

19 year old female stabs and kills her 19 year old female cousin after argument

23 year old woman stabs family member after argument

Mentally in Inmate makes lewd gesture, female guard has him tortured for a week and left for dead.

Female teacher assaults and threatens make 6 year old. Gets 10 days suspension.

Mother crushes daughter to death.

Florida woman shoots, kills her 2 teenage sons

Mother throws 1 year-old daughter under truck, kills her

California mom stabs her 3 daughters to death. all under 2 years old

Mother attempts to kill her 3 teenage children

Mother kills her infant son by stabbing him to death

Woman kills 2 year-old girl, attempts to kill 10 year-old boy

Utah mom murders 6 newborns, keeps them in garage

Mother charged with trying to suffocate daughter

Woman charged for killing 8-month old baby

Mother drowns both of her sons aged 3 and 6

Mother attempts to drown her 3 children in ocean

Utah mother shoots and kills two teen daughters, then herself

Mother suffocates 14 month old son, fails at attempted suicide

Woman babysitter murders 19 month old boy

Mom kills 7 month old daughter, blames Jesus

Woman operating illegal daycare responsible for 3 month old girl’s death, police find 14 children in her basement

Mom strangles 3 day old baby boy, discarded body in trashcan

Woman suffocates 2 year old girl of fiance, fakes sexual assault by unknown assailant to cover tracks

Mother charged with killing 2 year-old daughter

Mother of several children with history of violence murdered and buried 2 year-old daughter in shallow grave

Mother stabs and kills her 2 children in exorcism

Mother kills her teen son and daughter, self

Mother confesses to killing 10 year-old son

Mother tortures and kills 3 year-old son, burned genitals with lighter

Men’s conference receives death threats.

NFL player Steve McNair was murdered by his girlfriend on July 4th, 2009

Comedian Phil Hartman was murdered by his wife on May 27th 1998

John Wayne Bobbitt had his penis cut completely off on June 23rd, 1993

Travis Alexander was murdered by Jodi Arias on June 4th, 2008

Andrew Bagby was murdered by Shirley Jane Turner on November 6th, 2001 (She later murdered their 1 year-old son on August 18th, 2003)

Brenda Spencer killed two and injured nine at Cleveland Elementary School on January 29th, 1979

Laurie Dann killed one boy and injured five others at Hubbard Woods Elementary School on May 20th, 1988

Jennifer San Marco killed eight people at Goleta postal facility on January 30th, 2006

Sylvia Seegrist killed three and injured seven during a shooting spree at a Springfield mall on October 30th, 1985

Mary Ann Holder killed five children including her own son in Pleasent Gardens, NC on November 20th, 2011

Jullian Robbins killed one and injured two at Penn State on September 17th, 1997

Heather Smith killed two then committed suicide at Spanaway Junior High School on November 26th, 1985

Latina Williams killed two others then self at Louisiana Technical College on February 8th, 2008

Amy Bishop Anderson killed three and wounded three others at the University of Alabama on February 12th, 2010

Source: http://equalaccountability.tumblr.com/post/90021020029/dontneedfeminism-zerotide

I’m sorry I have to do this, but I’m sick of one-sided feminist propaganda on my newsfeed.

If you want a society free of violence then you have to recognize all the sources and causes of violence and do it fairly without forcing a false gender or racial bias into the analysis — otherwise all you’re doing is simply erasing one group of victims by favouring another.

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A Final Word On Pakistan: Imagine that every time you have a lapse in judgment, it gets printed in newspapers around the world: every time you lose patience with your children, every time you scream at someone in traffic, every time you drink too much and do something you regret. Each time you slip up, everyone hears about it. The world is never notified about the 99.99% of the time that you are a completely normal, productive, law-abiding citizen. The world only learns about you when things go wrong. Now imagine what the world would think of you. It’s not that terrorism, patriarchy, and violence aren’t real problems in Pakistan. They exist and the country is battling these issues every single day. Pakistanis are very much aware of the extremism in their midst. The problem is that so many people seem to only be aware of that extremism. Because just as in the hypothetical example above—the other 99.99% of life just doesn’t make the news. When there’s only room in the newspaper for a single column about Pakistan, it’s going to be filled with the most compelling story. And unfortunately, that tends to be the most violent story. And those are important stories. Those are the types of stories that expose corruption, stop genocide, and alert the world to emerging threats. It’s right for those stories to be told. But when those stories are all that we hear, it’s so easy to imagine a world that’s far scarier than it really is. You lose sight of the 99.99% of the world that’s not scary at all. And living in fear can be a dangerous thing. Because if we’re afraid of each other, we’ll never be able to work together to solve our common problems.

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Barack Obama has no fucks left to give.

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Hi there! I’m really not that worried about people seeing this, I’m a legal adult where I am and I’m on cam sites so my body isn’t that confidential. This guy decided he was going to blackmail me with my pics. I reported him, but all those littles who go on Omegle, he’s on there. He’s 24 and he’s from Tennessee and I would consider him dangerous. Please spread the word! Little’s safety is more important than my rep!

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This is a huge problem. I was just talking to someone on kik today with this happening. She was scared he would tell her parents and or friends (was local and knew the family). Of course the best thing to do is not send nudes!!! but if you find yourself in this situation know that what they are doing is a FEDERAL CRIME. They are using the phone/internet to black mail you and if convicted will go to Federal Prison…. in addition if you are under the age 18 not only will they face federal extortion charges but also federal charges for child pornography.

I suggested she send this link https://www.fbi.gov/news/pressrel/press-releases/fbi-seeking-information-to-identify-victims-in-international-sextortion-case to the guy and tell him if he said one more thing she was going to the local police and the FBI. She sent him the link and he apologized and promised not to contact here again.

just keep in mind sextortion is a crime and it is on everyone’s radar from the local police to the FBI

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By Scott Metzger Cartoons

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(photos via Hukulou Coffee)

Aww!… Owls are flying cats!

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[Image: ‘Using Sex as self harm?]

While some survivors shy away from sex completely after the fact, other still are able to have healthy sex lives, there is another subset of the survivor+sex possibilities- those who use sex as a form of self harm.

How can you tell if you’re using sex as a self harm mechanism?

Does sex usually make you feel bad?

Do you seek out sex when you feel bad about yourself?*

*and not as in ‘my partner makes me feel loved when we have sex, so I go to them. kind of seek out.

Do you think that it’s all you’re worth?

Do you often find yourself dissociating during sex?

Do you often find yourself going into situations you feel are risky and then being upset with yourself afterwards?

If you answered yes to any of the above, you might be using sex as self harm.

What can you do if you’re using sex as self harm?

First, it’s important to remember that shaming yourself will not actually make you stop. Sometimes we beat up on ourselves over these things and call ourselves horrible names- and we justify it by saying ‘it’ll make me stop’ or ‘it’s what I deserve for doing this’.

It won’t make you stop, it may even drive you to doing it again. And you don’t deserve to be hurt anymore.

No longer using sex as a self harm mechanism comes in three to four parts.

What will you do when you do use sex as self harm?

Even once you’ve recognized that this is a behavior that you want to stop- most survivors will slip up a few times.

Create a self care plan. Figure out what you need to do to reduce the damage. Both in terms of during and after. Birth control and ‘afterwards I will call my friend instead of beating myself up for this.’

What will you do when you want to use sex as a self harm mechanism?

When you find yourself wanting to self harm- what will you do? How will you distract yourself?

A lot of people do the….’if I still want to do this in an hour I can re-examine the urge again.’ game. ‘I’m going to watch an episode of HTGWM and then maybe’ ’I’m going to go take a shower and brush my hair and do my makeup and then we’ll think about it again’ ‘If I still want to do this tomorrow- then maybe.’

Have a plan of things you can do in the mean time. Have things that are both straight up distractions and ways to vent, express yourself, deal with the feelings that are driving here.

Maybe ways that you can be validated. Maybe ‘instead of going to the bar or calling that boy I’m going to call my friend _____ and see if she’ll come over and we’ll lay on the couch and watch netflix’

Whatever it is that you need to do to keep yourself from self harming.

Figuring out why you want to use sex as a self harm mechanism- and attacking that at the root.

Maybe it’s because you think that this is all you’re worth. If so- find other ways to validate your worth, if you can’t find worth in who you already are- ask someone else you trust to help you see it. maybe help you write a list. or figure out ways you can help build your sense of worth- volunteering, or by being a good friend, or whatever it is you think makes a person worth while.

Maybe it’s because you think this is what you deserve. If so- when you’re feeling okay I want you to write down that you don’t. that you don’t deserve to be touched when you don’t want to be. That you deserve better things. That trauma has not marked you for life as undeserving of intimacy. You deserve to come to it on your own terms though. You did not deserve what happened to you. and you do not ‘deserve’ self harm, you deserve so much better.

Maybe it’s because you’re trying to process what happened. and if so- it’s a sign processing needs to happen about the trauma. Try to find healthier ways to process. Talk to a friend or a group or therapist. Read articles or watch poetry or whatever it is that you think is a healthy way to process what happened. make art, whatever it is you need to do.

Find ways to directly deal with the root of why you self harm.

and lastly- this is only if you /want/ to. Nobody is required to have sex ever again.

Find out ways to have a healthy sex life again.

Maybe you’ll still need to do the waiting period at first- to make sure it isn’t a self harming urge. ‘If I still want to have sex with you in a few days, maybe. but right now- I need to wait.’

Maybe you’ll need to have sex a certain way. Soft and slow. In a certain environment. With certain conditions.

Whatever it is that makes you feel safe and comfortable. The important thing is finding something that works for you.

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Remember, you have nothing to be ashamed of. You are trying to heal the best way that you know possible, but I want you to know, that you don’t deserve to hurt and that there are other ways to go about things. that you have options.

and that you deserve better.

Take care of yourself today, okay?

humansofnewyork

“We met on a dating site twelve years ago. I sent her a message saying: ‘I want to let you know up front that I’m in a wheelchair, because I can’t hide it.’ And she wrote back: 'Why? Is it bright yellow?’”

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If someone cheats on you they do not love you, remember that. If someone cheats on you they do not care about you as much as they say they do. If someone cheats on you it means that for a split second you were off their mind long enough for them to put another person in arms that should only be for you. If someone cheats on you, dear god, I hope you don’t go back to them because you are worth so much more than that.