cool beans.

I'm just trying my best ya know? he/they

[liarsblade]

[leftistly] [secularly] having sex causes a hard to quantify but unmistakable change in your personality and being that can be detected by others. Having sex for the first time imbues you with qualities and deep understandings that you did not have in your pre-sex state.

[liarsblade]

Tumblr user standing at the front of the classroom picking petals off of roses and crumpling and uncrumpling paper and showing you that the tape is never the same amount of sticky again after being used: -except I think this is a good thing

[angel-in-your-basement]

Life is too short to have sex you don’t like. Be gross, be weird, don’t do it at all if it’s not for you. Expand your definition of sex. Remove yourself from things that don’t feel good. Find positions and kinks and toys that work for you. Don’t let anyone tell you that sex needs to happen a certain way or happen at all. Orgasms are optional. Involving your genitals is optional. Everything is optional. Do what you like to do and respect what other people do and don’t like to do. Good sex doesn’t make you feel bad about yourself. You deserve to have pleasure in ways that work for you.

[overwelmd]

ren-o-graphics

[penicillium-pusher]

One month post-op update 😁💕

[penicillium-pusher]

My extremely niche celebrity crush is Alex the “Fixer Dude” from HGTV’s Flea Market Flip

[penicillium-pusher]

fuckkkkkkkk nobody understands me or the lust I experience for this man

[penicillium-pusher]

My extremely niche celebrity crush is Alex the “Fixer Dude” from HGTV’s Flea Market Flip

[penicillium-pusher]

The Crucifixion of T-Boy Jesus (2026)

[penicillium-pusher]

Crop top + earrings on the exposed surgery drain pouches is a vibe, right? 💕

[queer-as-in-fuck-12]

drug addicts deserve housing, food, water, and healthcare btw

[master7mindd]

85 Ways to Make Sex Workers' Lives a Little Easier

Sex work is a cornerstone of society, and there are more ways to support people who do it than just tipping generously (though that's a grea

Long list of things to do to support workers, along with links to resources where you can learn more

[maidslime]

It's very telling how many terfs think "porn addiction" is a real thing when researchers found it to be a Christian invention that has to deal with shame and not actually a real addiction.

*Gasp!* You're telling me terfs are just conservative Christians?!

[maidslime]

Anytime anyone insists porn addiction is real I just call them Mormon. They get really pissy but it's true.

[penicillium-pusher]

Curiosity: do you have any particular online sex toy retailers that you like/trust? I feel like this is probably something covered in a post somewhere at some point, but tumblr's search function is... the way that it is. If you've got A Tag to peruse instead, that also works

Yes! I think you’re right and I’ve probably covered this before but I also don’t remember how to find it so I’ll just do it again because I love talking about sex toys 😂

My two favorite sites are probably Peepshow Toys and Spectrum Boutique. They have really great selections and also often have good sales.

Some specific brands I like and trust include Uberrime, Tantus, and Blush. For lubes, my favorite brands and Sliquid and Wicked 💕

[penicillium-pusher]

Nipple reveal day! 😁💕

tw below the cut: nothing graphic, but pic has incisions and some mild bruising, post-surgery funky nipples, etc.

[penicillium-pusher]

Post-top surgery is so gross I feel like a filthy animal.

[penicillium-pusher]

congrats on the top surgery!!

Thank youuuuu 💕

[penicillium-pusher]

Congratz on the Boobie the Removie. The Tits Evicts. The Breast-xit. The Teat Yeet. I hope your recovery goes well!

Love this 😂😂😂

And thank you! 💕

[penicillium-pusher]

Tits officially evicted 🍒