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A Message I Never Wanted to Write

Hi everyone.

This is one of the most difficult posts I have ever had to write, but I feel it is only right that everyone who has followed Bradley Davidson's journey knows where he now stands.

Many of you have asked for updates over the past few weeks. I've struggled to find the words because every visit leaves me heartbroken.

The specialists caring for Bradley have now explained to me the full extent of his catastrophic brain injury. They believe the damage occurred during the events that are now central to the ongoing criminal investigation involving Master P. The allegation is that the so-called "Realignment" procedure was deliberately increased to its maximum setting, causing devastating and irreversible injury to Bradley's brain.

The consequences have been life-changing.

Bradley is now living with profound neurological disability. His brain injury has left him with severe generalised spasticity, meaning the damage is affecting muscles throughout his entire body. His muscles can suddenly become rigid without warning, he experiences painful involuntary spasms, and he can no longer control his posture or movements in the way he once could.

He now relies on a specialist wheelchair, daily physiotherapy, medication, and around-the-clock nursing care simply to keep him safe and comfortable. Every day is carefully planned around his medical needs.

The doctors have been honest with me. Their focus is no longer on reversing the injury, because they do not believe that is possible. Instead, they are doing everything they can to preserve Bradley's comfort, prevent complications, and give him the best quality of life that his condition allows.

I know many of you remember Bradley as the happy, independent man he once was. Seeing him now is incredibly painful, and I still find it difficult to accept just how much has changed in such a short space of time.

I share these updates not to seek sympathy, but because Bradley has so many people who care about him. You deserve to know the truth about what he is facing, and I believe he deserves to be remembered for the person he was, not defined solely by the injuries he now lives with.

Thank you for continuing to keep Bradley in your thoughts. Your kindness, compassion and support have meant more than you will ever know.

With love,

Adebimpe

Update on Master P and the on going investigation.

To everyone who has been following Bradley's journey...

Firstly, I want to apologise for how quiet I've been recently, the investigation has taken its toll on me and im finding everything very difficult right now.

I've received a few messages asking for updates, and I truly appreciate every single one of them. The support you've shown Bradley over the time ive been in his care has meant more than you could ever imagine.

The reason I've been unable to post is because the police investigation into Master P and the Network has become incredibly demanding. Detectives are still carrying out enquiries, gathering evidence and speaking to everyone connected with the case.

Unfortunately, because it remains an active criminal investigation, there is very little I am legally allowed to say at this stage. I know many of you want answers, but I have to respect the wishes of the police and allow them to do their job properly.

What I can say is this...

If Master P is ultimately found guilty of every charge brought against him, and the evidence presented to the court reflects what investigators believe happened, then it is difficult to imagine him ever being released back into society.

Justice takes time, but everyone involved wants the truth to come out. The trial is expected to take place, most likely next year now due to the complexity of this case hear and in Europe.

Onto Bradley

Unfortunately, I'm not in a position to write a full update on Bradley today.

The reality of his worsening condition is incredibly difficult to put into words, and right now I'm simply not emotionally ready to write about everything that's happened.

I know many of you are waiting for news, and I truly appreciate your patience and understanding. Once I've had a little time to gather my thoughts and compose myself, I'll share a full and honest update about Bradley and where things currently stand.

Thank you for continuing to keep him in your thoughts.

Adebimpe 💙

An Upsetting Update On Bradley Davidson

Looking after Bradley Davidson has become so much of a challenge right now and with all the police investigations going on around here im finding everything way to much to cope with. Bradleys condition has changed so much now he's becoming very difficult to look after.

I've reached the point where I have to put Bradley's needs before my own feelings. The level of care he now requires is far beyond anything I ever imagined. His consultants have explained that he may now benefit from a secure neurobehavioural rehabilitation unit, where he would have access to specialist neurological nurses, rehabilitation doctors, therapists, and continuous support. It's one of the hardest decisions I've ever had to consider, but if it means Bradley is safer, more comfortable, and receives the care he truly needs, then I have to think about what's best for him rather than how difficult it is for me to let go.

Update on Bradley Davidson Tue 16th June 2026

I thought I would give everyone a small update on Bradley following on from the eventful weekend at the care centre.

Unfortunately, Bradley had a few difficult moments over the weekend, particularly during some of his personal care routines. The carers explained that he became unsettled during a couple of his adult nappy changes and needed extra reassurance from staff before they could continue.

The team continue to remind me that Bradley's condition means he can sometimes become confused, anxious or overwhelmed during parts of his daily routine. When this happens, the carers simply slow everything down, talk to him calmly and give him the time he needs to settle.

One thing that has become a very familiar part of Bradley's life now is his specialist changing table in the wet room.

When Bradley first arrived, seeing him on that table was difficult for me. It was another reminder of how much his life had changed. Today, it has simply become part of the care he needs every single day.

Several times throughout the day, Bradley is taken to the wet room where carers assist with washing, repositioning, skin care checks and his regular adult nappy changes. The changing table allows staff to do this safely while ensuring Bradley remains comfortable and supported.

The carers often tell me that what looks like a simple routine to most people can take a lot of patience and teamwork. Bradley is completely dependent on others for these aspects of his care, and the staff continue to treat him with kindness, dignity and respect.

Despite a few difficult moments over the weekend, Bradley also had some good periods where he appeared calm and settled. He spent time relaxing in the lounge and later enjoyed sitting quietly in the garden.

For now, we continue taking each day as it comes.

Some days are easier than others, but Bradley remains safe, comfortable and surrounded by people who genuinely care about him.

Adebimpe Olawunmi Adeyemi ❤️

This is the specialist wet room that forms an important part of Bradley's care. Because Bradley is no longer able to manage his own personal care, he relies entirely on trained carers to assist him throughout the day.

Bradley is brought to the wet room several times each day for washing, cleaning, skin care checks, repositioning and the regular adult nappy changes that are now necessary because of his bowel condition.

The room is equipped with specialist hoisting equipment, a shower trolley, hygiene facilities and other equipment designed to allow carers to provide care safely, comfortably and with dignity.

Although these routines are now an essential part of Bradley's everyday life, they can sometimes be challenging for him. The care team work patiently and professionally to ensure he remains as comfortable and reassured as possible throughout the process.

While it is difficult to see how much Bradley's life has changed, I am grateful that he is receiving the level of specialist care and support he now requires.

A Difficult Weekend for Bradley Davidson

I made the 200-mile journey to York on Sunday morning after receiving a call from Bradley's care team late on Saturday evening.

The staff explained that Bradley had been having one of his most difficult days since arriving at the specialist care centre.

As many of you know, Bradley now relies on carers for every aspect of his daily care. This includes feeding, washing, repositioning, transfers and the regular adult nappy changes that are now a necessary part of managing his condition.

Speaking to Senior Carers Sarah Bennett, Michael Hughes and Emma Collins on Sunday morning was heartbreaking.

They told me that Bradley appears to struggle most during his personal care routines, particularly when he requires cleaning and an adult nappy change. Although the staff approach these moments with patience and reassurance, Bradley can become visibly distressed and unsettled.

Several members of staff have told me that hearing Bradley during these moments is one of the hardest parts of caring for him. They describe seeing a man who was once independent become frightened, confused and overwhelmed by situations he cannot fully control or understand.

What makes it even harder is that those who knew Bradley's story know this was never part of his life before the final phase that left him with the severe disabilities he now lives with every day.

The difficulties continued into the evening when staff attempted to settle Bradley for bed using the specialist hoisting and positioning equipment that is now required for all of his transfers.

The team remained calm, patient and professional throughout, but it was clear that Bradley was having an exceptionally difficult night.

Thankfully, by the time I arrived on Sunday morning, he had eventually settled and was resting comfortably.

The reality is that this level of care is now part of Bradley's everyday life. Adult nappy changes, assisted washing, specialist equipment, feeding support and 24-hour supervision are no longer occasional events. They are now his daily routine.

The care team continue to hope that as Bradley becomes more familiar with his surroundings and the people caring for him, these episodes of distress may become less frequent. For now, all anyone can do is continue treating him with patience, dignity, kindness and understanding.

My sincere thanks go to Sarah, Michael, Emma, Rachel and every member of staff who supported Bradley throughout what was clearly a very difficult evening.

They cared for him exactly as I would hope someone would care for a member of their own family.

Adebimpe Olawunmi Adeyemi ❤️

FOLLOWING FROM LAST WEEK'S UPDATE

A very difficult update about Bradley Davidson.

Over the last few days, the specialist neurological team have completed their assessments and we now have a much clearer understanding of Bradley's condition and the challenges that lie ahead.

The findings confirmed that the changes we have all witnessed were not temporary.

Bradley is now living with a complex neurological condition that has significantly affected his muscle control, mobility, posture and independence. Many of the everyday tasks that were once carried out without a second thought now require assistance from trained carers, specialist equipment and ongoing support from neurological professionals.

Following these assessments, the medical team recommended that Bradley be transferred to a specialist neurological residential care home in York, where he now has access to 24-hour support, rehabilitation services, specialist nurses, physiotherapists and the equipment required to meet his needs.

After careful consideration, that move has now taken place.

There is another important update that I feel I need to share.

With the collapse of the Network organisation following the arrest of Master P, I have made the decision to revert to using Bradley's original name, Bradley Davidson.

For a long time, many people knew him by the name "Pixie", but with that chapter now over, I believe it is right that Bradley is once again known by the name he had before everything that followed.

The specialist team cannot change what has already happened, but they have made it clear that Bradley's condition is now severe and will require long-term support.

I cannot help but think about the events that led us here.

As many of you know, Master P was arrested shortly after learning that the authorities were closing in on him. In the final Hour before that arrest, decisions were made that would have devastating consequences for Bradley.

It is my belief that once Master P became aware of his imminent arrest, he deliberately intensified the Realignment process far beyond what had previously been done. Those actions ultimately left Bradley with the life-changing condition we now see today.

Whatever opinions people may have held in the past, what remains now is a vulnerable human being who requires care, dignity, compassion and support.

The focus today is not on Master P.

The focus is on Bradley.

The staff at his new home have been incredibly welcoming and compassionate. They have already begun putting together a personalised care and therapy programme designed to maximise comfort, maintain mobility where possible and help Bradley settle into his new surroundings.

I have also made the decision to spend as much time as possible close to Bradley and to help him adjust to this new chapter in his life. Familiar faces, familiar voices and reassurance are more important now than ever before.

The future remains uncertain, but one thing I do know is that Bradley Davidson will not face it alone.

Adebimpe

A very difficult update about Pixie

I have been struggling to write this update for several days now.

Following the collapse of the Network organisation and the arrest of Master P, I have made the decision to stop referring to Pixie by that name and instead return to using Bradley Davidson, the name he was born with.

Some of you have been asking questions about Bradley's condition and what has happened over the past year. The truth is that I cannot answer many of those questions right now. There are still too many things I cannot verify for myself, and I refuse to speculate on matters that may eventually be addressed through the proper legal process.

What I can say is that my priority today, and for the foreseeable future, is Bradley's care and wellbeing.

This is going to be a very long journey for him.

Having worked in care for over twenty-five years, I have supported many people facing life-changing challenges. It is never easy to say this about someone you care about, but I genuinely believe Bradley's life has been altered forever. The person I see today is not the same person many of you remember.

That reality is difficult to accept, and even harder to put into words.

There is much more that I could say, and perhaps one day I will. But right now I am simply not strong enough. My focus must remain on caring for Bradley, ensuring he is safe, comfortable, treated with dignity, and surrounded by people who genuinely care about him.

When the time is right, and when I feel able to speak more openly, I will.

Until then, thank you to everyone who continues to show Bradley kindness, compassion and support.

Adebimpe

REFLECTIONS ON TODAY

Tonight, I find myself sitting alone with my thoughts and, if I am being completely honest, worrying about what the future may hold for Pixie.

We are still waiting for answers.

The specialists are still carrying out their assessments.

Nobody has yet told us what the final outcome will be.

But like anyone who cares about Pixie, I cannot help but think about the possibilities, even the ones I desperately do not want to consider.

I keep asking myself the same questions.

What if the news isn't what any of us want to hear?

What if Pixie's recovery takes far longer than expected?

What if her future ends up looking very different from the one we all imagined only a few weeks ago?

My mind keeps drifting towards conversations I never thought we would have to have.

Specialist care.

Long-term support.

Future living arrangements.

How any of it could be funded if it were ever needed.

I even found myself wondering today whether, in the worst circumstances imaginable, Pixie's home might one day become part of those discussions if ongoing care costs ever had to be considered.

I do not want that.

I genuinely hope it never comes to that.

In truth, I am hoping that all of these fears prove to be completely unnecessary.

That the specialists tell us there is a positive path forward.

That Pixie improves.

That this horrible uncertainty eventually fades away.

Because right now, everything feels unreal.

It feels like a dreadful nightmare that I keep expecting to wake up from.

A nightmare where every new conversation brings more questions than answers.

A nightmare where the future suddenly feels uncertain when only days ago it seemed so clear.

Perhaps that is why I am choosing not to think too far ahead tonight.

Until we know more, all I can do is hope.

Hope that the news is better than we fear.

Hope that Pixie continues to improve.

And hope that, when all of this is over, we look back on these days as the darkest part of a journey that ultimately led somewhere brighter.

For now, we wait.

And we hope and we pray 🙏

Adebimpe Olawunmi Adeyemi

Yesterday, Saturday 30th May, was a much better day for Pixie.

After everything that happened on Thursday, my main concern was making sure Pixie was somewhere safe, comfortable, and surrounded by people who genuinely understand how to provide the care and support she needs whilst recovering.

I can honestly say that the staff at Brainkind Stagenhoe Park have been absolutely magnificent during Pixie's short stay. From the moment she arrived, she has been treated with kindness, patience, dignity, and professionalism. Every member of staff I have met has gone out of their way to ensure that Pixie is comfortable, settled, and receiving the highest standard of care possible.

Most importantly, Pixie is now in a good place and appears to be recovering well from the incident that occurred on Thursday during the Network's Realignment Programme. She is resting, being closely monitored, and receiving the support she needs while her recovery continues.

Seeing the difference in her over the last couple of days has been incredibly reassuring. For the first time since Thursday, I feel that Pixie can simply focus on resting and getting better without unnecessary pressure being placed upon her.

I am currently exploring the possibility of extending Pixie's stay beyond next week, either at Brainkind Stagenhoe Park near Hitchin UK or at another suitable specialist care setting, depending on what is considered best for her ongoing recovery and wellbeing.

For now, my priority remains exactly the same: making sure Pixie is safe, comfortable, supported, and given every opportunity to recover fully.

A further update will be provided soon regarding the latest developments involving Pixie and The Network.

At this time, the situation remains ongoing and continues to develop. I am currently awaiting further information before making any additional public statements.

As soon as I receive confirmed news regarding what is now becoming a developing case, I will share an update with everyone.

Until then, my focus remains firmly on Pixie's wellbeing, recovery, and ensuring she receives the care and support she needs.

Adebimpe Olawunmi Adeyemi

Phase 3 Stopped, after Pixie falls ill

After a great deal of thought, I have made the decision to withdraw Pixie from Phase 3 of the Realignment Programme.

On Friday morning, Pixie became unwell and experienced a reaction that caused me significant concern. What I witnessed was not something I ever wish to see repeated, and I immediately instructed Master P that the programme must stop.

For me, Pixie's health and wellbeing will always come before any phase, plan, target or objective.

As a result, I made arrangements for Pixie to be transferred to Brainkind Stagenhoe Park near Hitchin, where she will remain while she recovers and undergoes further assessments.

I have always had enormous respect for the staff there. They are highly professional, compassionate and experienced in supporting people with complex neurological and rehabilitation needs.

At the present time, Pixie requires:

24-hour supervision and support

Assistance with mobility and safe transfers

Support with personal care and daily living activities

Ongoing monitoring of her health and wellbeing

Specialist rehabilitation and therapy input where appropriate

Nutritional support and assistance with meals when required

A structured, calm and supportive environment

Access to trained staff experienced in neurological and complex care

Most importantly, Pixie needs time.

Time to rest.

Time to recover.

Time to be treated as a person rather than a project.

The team at Stagenhoe Park will provide that stability while we work to understand exactly what happened and what Pixie's longer-term needs may be going forward.

I will continue to update everyone when I have more information.

For now, Pixie's only job is to rest and get well.

Adebimpe Olawunmi Adeyemi

Its been a tough 2 days of Phase 3 realignment that Master P calling Regression reset stage.

Over the past few days I have quietly started looking into what realistic long-term support options could potentially exist for Pixie Pampersweet if her condition continues to decline.

One of the organisations I know very well is Active Care Group, who describe themselves as one of the UK’s leading providers of complex and specialist care services.

What stood out to me most was their focus on personalised support for adults living with complex neurological conditions, acquired brain injuries, learning disabilities, behavioural difficulties, emotional dependency and long-term rehabilitation needs.

The reason this catches my attention is because a lot of the concerns now surrounding Pixie are no longer simply about “behaviour” or “discipline.”

They are about:

emotional vulnerability,

dependency,

supervision,

stability,

routine,

communication,

wellbeing,

and whether Pixie could realistically cope independently long term.

Reading through some of the information honestly made the situation feel far more real to me than I expected.

For the first time I started thinking less about Network 26 phases and Tumblr drama… and more about what kind of safe environment somebody like Pixie would actually need if they became fully reliant on structured support.

What I did appreciate was the emphasis on dignity, rehabilitation, therapy, routine and improving quality of life rather than simply “controlling” somebody.

That matters to me.

Because regardless of how much conflict exists between Master P and Bradley Davidson, I still believe any future support surrounding Pixie should focus on care first, not punishment.

At the moment this is simply research and discussion.

Nothing has been decided.

But I do think it is important to start understanding what realistic long-term pathways could actually look like if Pixie’s condition continues progressing in the direction many followers are now seeing.

Adebimpe Olawunmi Adeyemi

It is now officially Phase 3 for my dear Pixie Pampersweet, and this stage changes everything.

Following the events of Phase 2, Pixie’s old personality and independence are slowly fading further away each day. Over the coming weeks, Pixie will continue falling into a much more dependent and permanently regressed state under Phase 3 Alignment.

Master P has already informed me that by July, full responsibility for Pixie’s care and future wellbeing will pass entirely over to me.

At that point, I will become Pixie’s permanent full-time carer, and all future decisions regarding care, supervision, routines, safety, support, and placement will be left fully in my hands.

That includes deciding whether Pixie can safely remain within supported home care, or whether full-time specialist residential care may ultimately be the better long-term option for somebody now living with such high dependency needs.

This is no longer simply about Alignment.

It is now about protection, stability, structure, reassurance, and making sure Pixie is always safe, comfortable, and properly cared for every single day.

Whatever decisions are eventually made, they will always be based on what I truly believe is best for Pixie’s wellbeing and long-term happiness.

Adebimpe Olawunmi Adeyemi

Our Journey Home Pixie Pampersweet

Today we left the residential care centre near Margate after Pixie’s 3-day trial stay, and honestly I could not be happier with how everything went.

Everybody at the centre made Pixie feel safe, welcome, and cared for. The staff were patient and kind, and the residents quickly warmed to Pixie during the stay.

Because of the effects of Phase 2 of the Network’s realignment program, Pixie still does not fully understand where she is or why she is there most of the time. There are moments where Pixie looks confused, distant, or lost, but staff noticed that once routines became familiar and calm carers were nearby, Pixie settled very well.

During the stay, staff helped with:

• daily routines

• washing and dressing

• wheelchair support

• meals and drinks

• emotional reassurance

• continence care

• overnight monitoring

• behavioural observation

The care staff explained that Pixie responds best to soft voices, simple instructions, calm environments, and a structured daily routine.

After several meetings with staff and managers at the centre, it has now been agreed that Pixie will return again after Phase 4 is completed later this summer.

At that stage, Pixie will likely require much higher levels of support, supervision, and long-term care planning going forward.

I am also very proud to officially become Pixie Pampersweet’s full-time carer once this process is complete.

When Phase 4 ends, I will have full responsibility and final say over the care and support Pixie receives moving forward, and every decision I make will be based on what I truly believe is best for Pixie’s wellbeing, comfort, safety, and long-term happiness.

With over 18 years of experience working with both special needs children and adults, I understand how important patience, reassurance, structure, and consistency are for somebody with complex needs.

Going forward, Pixie’s care will likely include: • full-time supervision

• structured daily routines

• emotional reassurance and support

• continence management

• assisted mobility and transport

• overnight carers when needed

• specialist communication support

• calm sensory-friendly environments

The recent stay near Margate only confirmed to me that Pixie feels safest in structured care environments surrounded by people who understand complex needs properly.

No matter what happens next, Pixie will continue to be treated with kindness, patience, dignity, and support every single day.

Thank you again to everybody at the residential care centre for making Pixie feel so welcome during this first stay.

We will see you all again very soon.

Adebimpe Olawunmi Adeyemi

What a lovely Sunday today turned out to be. ☀️

The weather was beautiful all day, so we spent lots of time outside in the gardens here at the specialist care centre.

The staff and residents here really enjoy having Pixie around. Even though Pixie can no longer communicate normally, everybody still tries their best to make her feel safe, comfortable, and included.

I feel very proud now to be Pixie’s full-time carer.

Although Pixie still remains under the Network 26 organisation and Master P during the later stages of her alignment programme, I have now been told that once Phases 3 and 4 are completed later this summer, I will have much more involvement in helping decide Pixie’s future care, routines, therapies, and daily life.

My main goal is simply to make sure Pixie has the best quality of life possible and receives the support, kindness, patience, and care she now needs every day.

One thing is certain, Pixie will definitely be visiting our care home again, as well as other specialist centres around the country that are properly equipped to support her complex needs.

Today was a reminder that even in difficult situations, people can still experience friendship, comfort, happiness, and love. 💜

Adebimpe Olawunmi Adeyemi

Pixie now requires full-time continence support and specialist personal care due to severe neurological complications affecting bowel awareness and control. Staff carry out regular hygiene and comfort routines throughout the day to maintain dignity, safety, and wellbeing.

I am truly overjoyed to now be Pixie Pampersweet’s full-time carer as of Saturday 23rd May. Pixie has recently completed Phase 2 of Master P’s Realignment Program and is due to begin Phase 3 on Tuesday next week.

Despite the intensity of the process, Pixie is doing well and continuing to settle into her new daily routine, although much of her previous adult memories and sense of identity now appear greatly diminished.

Under my personal care, and with the full approval of Master P and Network 26, I brought Pixie away for the Bank Holiday weekend to my former workplace, a specialist care facility where she will remain until Monday under the support of the wonderful staff here.

The unit specialises in continence and complex support needs, ensuring that all of Pixie’s hygiene, wellbeing, and day-to-day care requirements are fully looked after in a safe, calm, and supportive environment.

Going forward, specialist care homes such as this may potentially become part of Pixie’s long-term future should Phases 3 and 4 present significant challenges following completion of the program. Naturally, we hope this will not ultimately be necessary, however this Bank Holiday stay is also serving as something of a short three-day trial period,allowing staff to observe how Pixie settles amongst other residents and how comfortably she adapts to the specialist care environment.

So far, the staff here have been incredibly welcoming and supportive towards her.

To Everyone Following Pixie Pampersweet’s Journey,

I am very pleased to finally share some positive news with you all. Following recent discussions, Master P and Network 26 have decided to bring forward the official start date of my full-time high dependency care role for Pixie Pampersweet to Saturday 16th May.

Due to Pixie’s ongoing condition involving severe uncontrollable bowel movements and the level of hygiene support now required on a daily basis, it has become increasingly clear that the Network’s current environment is unfortunately not fully equipped to manage Pixie’s personal care needs safely and consistently. This includes regular continence 24/7 care, nappy changing, bathing support, monitoring routines, and emotional reassurance throughout the day.

Although I am honoured to be taking on this responsibility, I will regrettably not be able to assume complete independent care duties until one week later because of existing commitments within the special needs school where I currently work. During this short transition period, Master P has arranged temporary cover through a specialist agency to ensure Pixie continues to receive the support and supervision required at all times.

Pixie will, of course, continue participating in the ongoing Four Phase Alignment Programme under the direction of Master P. Out of professional respect and instruction, I am unable to comment publicly on the details of that programme.

What I can say personally is that over the last two weekends I have spent caring for Pixie, I genuinely feel we have formed a very special bond together. While Pixie sometimes struggles to fully express thoughts and emotions verbally, I have learned very quickly how expressive facial reactions, body language, and small gestures can communicate comfort, reassurance, and happiness.

I want followers to know that Pixie responds very positively to patience, calm structure, encouragement, and gentle care. My priority will always be to ensure Pixie feels safe, supported, clean, comfortable, and treated with dignity each and every day.

Thank you all for your continued kindness and support towards Pixie during this transition period.

Adebimpe Olawunmi Adeyemi

Pixie Pampersweet now requires full-time care, so I’m going to say it plainly.

Pixie cannot properly manage basic daily life anymore without assistance. The regression issues have become severe enough that constant supervision is now necessary.

There are uncontrollable bowel accidents multiple times a day. Diapers are required permanently because Pixie cannot reliably control or manage toileting independently anymore. Commodes are also needed regularly because mobility, awareness and personal management have all declined heavily during the later stages of realignment.

Cleaning, changing, dressing and monitoring now form part of the daily routine. Left alone too long, Pixie will often remain in soiled clothing or become overwhelmed and confused about what needs to be done.

There are also periods where Pixie becomes vacant, emotionally detached or childlike in behaviour, needing reassurance and instruction for even simple tasks.

This is why I will be stepping in as full-time care worker next month once the process is complete. At this stage Pixie does not need occasional support, Pixie needs structured, permanent care.

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