hiii ummm you can call me phantom :3 it's not my actual name but I don't want to share that here lol. I'm 24, male/genderqueer (he/him), and bi! I've been on T since late 2023 :D
I'm goth and I like writing, gaming (mostly casual games), anime/animation, vocaloid (kaito is my fave), and i have a lifelong fixation on vampires
minors and ageless blogs, do NOT interact. I will block you. please put your age in your bio or pinned post before following.
other than that, interaction is welcome and encouraged! spam me pls! I love attention so feel free to dm or leave asks! just be respectful 👍 if we're mutuals, chances are I want to talk but am too shy to message first (๑•﹏•)
I do prefer not to sext in the first conversation. let's get to know each other a little bit first! treat me like a human and chances are I'll be cool with it! consent, safety, awareness, comfort, and communication come before everything else.
I also tend to be a bit inconsistent with tagging. although I try my best to tag properly for harder or more intense things, some things may slip my mind - particularly on reblogs. feel free to point any out to me!
nsfw info below the cut ↓
I'm a switch+vers! I have more experience being submissive, but I do still love to be dominant - I just have a hard time coming up with things in the moment.
things I'm into, in no particular order - degradation, humiliation, praise, cnc (including weed/alc intox, free use, and somno), orgasm control/denial/edging, overstim, hypnosis (/guided erotic meditation??), objectification, exhibitionism/voyeurism/public, choking, oral, possessiveness, breeding, excessive cum, spit and drool, mild pain play, knife play (no/minimal blood), marking, stretching/gaping/fisting, bondage, fantasy dildos, body worship, massages, light pet play, and vampires
anything that I like to receive, I also like to give – the one exception being hypnosis.
for things I only like to give - harder pain/impact play (no blood), sounding, biting
hard nos are scat, urine, vom/emeto, the word 'rape', gore/wound play, age play, race play, misgendering/detrans, incest, animals, feederism
I'm AFAB and I'm comfortable with my body being referred to using pretty much any terms. if I don't like something, I will tell you. for pet names and insults, I'm open to trying out most things except explicitly feminine ones and the word 'bitch'.
on the off chance someone wants to browse my blog, here are some tags you'll see often (and what I use them for, though they're mostly self explanatory). they will also be tagged below for ease of use :]
#breathless txt - my own text posts; #somno - somnophilia; #intox - intoxication, primarily weed; #cnc - consensual non consent; #marking - leaving marks on skin, like bruises or bites or scratches
these lists are non-exhaustive, and i will update this post as needed over time.
Your future mostly involves edging, falling asleep as you grind into the bed, restless sleep full of depraved dreams and then waking up to find that you're touching yourself again, on repeat
What's wrong honey? You were so talkative before, but now that my cock is filling you up, you're just making those cute little squeaks and moans instead.
funny that my main kinks boil down to being forced to do things I want to do. like yes I want to suck you off, but can you demand me to so I know you want it? can you force my legs open and fuck me to tears while commanding me to admit I like it?
okay but are you going to be understanding if your dom is a little nervous and not as suave as you'd expect their first few times when domming you? are you going to make them feel comfortable enough to slip into the role without making them feel stupid about it? are you going to accept that real sex is not always as rigid as it would seem in text posts or your fantasies and that it is okay if there are some unserious moments in between the intensity? do you understand that we are all just people having fun and we need to be gentle with each other when showing this vulnerability?
what if I sat in your lap and whined into your neck and used my biggest wettest eyes while wiggling my hips into you and parted my lips and wrapped your shirt in my fingers and whispered please please please and then stood up and skipped away giggling
Would love to sit on a mean Dom's lap right now and have them force me to get so high and spacey for them. Force open my mouth wide and pop gummies down throat. Pre-roll joints for me, light them up and place them between my lips. Pinch my nose closed til I have no choice but to inhale til I'm coughing and drooling. Praise me for being a good little weed slut and take advantage of how pliable I am. Abuse my little holes while my eyes glaze 'til I pass out. Then the real fun begins...
but like, do you REALLY wanna orgasm? you feel soooo good right now, on the edge, desperate, pliant, willing to do anything. wouldn't it be sooo sad to lose that good feeling all for a fleeting moment of pleasure? that's right, it'd be sad! and we don't want you to be sad, do we? so we just have to keep edging you <3
