This honestly needs to be said, the mogaiblr community is so insanely toxic and unhealthy.
However, we'll be focusing on 4 people in it for now. They are as follows : Adorbsies, Surrenity, Thehauntedcemetery (ghost), and Autibf
Adorbsies : adorbsies has done many immoral/wrong things. 1 : saying 'its okay to id with disorders/illnesses/etc that you don't have if it helps comfort you' not only is that wrong but also harms people who have disorders & such (pds, dissociative disorders, nd's, etc) much like the transid community does. 2 : Has been insanely rude to multiple people & tried to use npd as an excuse. I have npd and that doesn't give you an excuse to be an asshole just to be an asshole. 3 : Has repeatedly brought up uncomfortable topics with people, not once apologized. 4 : took inspo off multiple people that are uncomfortable with inspo and continues to do so, as well as taking tq's (engagekiss & angel) 5 : does not credit artists very often, will use art off twt & not credit at all. 6 : has ignored multiple asks about the doxxing, rape and suicide threats Angel recieved.
Surrenity : same with adorbsies, overall done a bunch of bad things. 1 : the callout post against Angel, it was unnecessary as all of this could have been resolved in dms yet wasn't for some unknown reason. Personally I think surrenity (and ghost + adorbsies) have some sort of ill will/vendetta against Lolita. 2 : Has taken inspo / copied a rentry (supposedly for autibf) and passed it off as their own. 3 : Been very rude to multiple people for seemingly no reason. 4 : publicly posted angels account knowing it would cause harassment then saying that 'they dont care' when confronted about it.
Thehauntedcemetery : hasn't done the worst things but definitely needs to be spoken about. 1 : Has taken multiple peoples forms/introjectism & f/os. When asked to name the source of a niche/very uncommon manga they couldn't and blocked instead. would constantly say 'theyre me' to any character shown (especially with angel) even to characters they didnt know about (ex. didnt watch the anime/read the manga, didnt play the game, didnt know the source, etc) 2 : Keep breaking their own dni & others. Their dni says 'under 16 dni' yet they interact with Adorbsies (15), surrenity (13), (used to) Lolita (14), autibf (13) and most likely more. 3 : has repeatedly said 'me (lady k)' & other characters despite knowing people around them are also lady k (angel, etc) & ignores boundaries constantly then gets upset when confronted. Ghost isn't an introject and is a singlet. 4 : hypocrite. expected multiple people (especially angel) to know who they were & to not talk about it yet never shared who they were/ided with. then got upset when a character somebody was (that was also 'coincidentally' ghost) was mentioned. as well as f/os. even unknown or uncommon medias that they wouldn't be without it being mentioned as a form/f/o of the other person. 5 : sent people their art (without a tw/censor) that had self harm, gorey themes, etc. multiple times.
^ context : telling ghost not to inspo and ghost doing it anyways
Autibf : oh boy, lot to unpack here. 1 : told a person (Angel) to get a deluxe suicide & to khs multiple times (joking or not, he never asked to see if it was okay with cher or not) 2 : insanely rude for no reason, has sent people to harass others. 3 : just like surrenity, copied rentrys + graphics & passed it off as his own work. 4 : ID's with disorders he doesn't have (in reference to the adorbsies thing, it was adorbsies defending autibf & autibf agreeing with that point) 5 : made claims against somebody (copying claims, stealing, etc) while he's done it himself, reference to point 3. 6 : wrote a passive aggressive post about Angel saying che 'stole his f/o' despite cher not doing so. Lolita doesn't interact with him so how would ki know?
The 4 in general/overall : all insanely rude and just using their disorders as an excuse. 1 : didn't even try to connect with Lulu to discuss things and just decided 'hey let's ruin this girls life even more' 2 : all have made cher uncomfortable & then throw a hissy fit if che blocks them. 3 : all of them have done copying of some sort whether it be blatantly taking forms (without iding with them/knowing the media they're from), taking f/os (without even knowing much about the character/media they're from or what they're from), copying tq's, copying rentrys + graphics, etc. 4 : uses peoples suffering/vulnerability to their advantage (especially adorbsies & autibf). they profit off peoples suffering (adorbsies using anything involving angel to look good, etc)
The general community : the entire community is a train wreck. 1 : It's toxic, people are constantly accused of copying and then get bullied off the platform (harassment, threats, hate pages, callouts, etc). Engagekiss isn't the only kokoa goddess and squidthing isn't the only squid. Not everything is a copy of another popular page. 2 : chronically online. they harass and bully people over fictional characters & wont stop till they're gone and off the platform. 3 : a lot of blogs advocate for accessibility but only to one group: those with dyslexia & screen readers. those aren't the only people to exist. A lot of people suffer from major headaches/migraines from the large amounts of plain text & flag ids (especially excessive amounts). Putting them in a reblog or under a cut would help a lot of people or tag things with a warning about the amount of large text. Accessibility for one won't be accessible for everyone and in some cases can make things less accessible.
My opinion on the angel situation: it was unnecessary & rude. 1 : all of this was incorrect/taken out of context. Lolita hasn't ever stolen anything, che finds that immoral & wrong. Macalo kept things off kiss forms & f/os to keep others comfortable & happy, even at the expense of cher own. 2 : Lolita uses names that ki can with permission from people of that race/ethnicity/etc. Or a lot are indeed native american/names that are from open cultures. Ki doesnt wish to disrespect cultures as cher own is constantly mocked for being 'weird'. 3 : This situation led cher to be very suicidal (as che was also off cher meds) & ruined her entirely, ki constantly thinks about it and it no doubt traumatized kiss. 4 : Che is already a very traumatized & vulnerable being (as ki is an ageslider & often ageslides pretty little, especially in distressing situations). 5 : Ki has no ill will towards anybody and truly cannot hate them, even if ki wanted to. Che treasured, and still does treasure the people that have hurt cher the greatest. 6 : Che has been in the mogai community for quite a long time (almost a year or so) & thought ki had finally found a safe place to be kissself but was then hit with all of this bullying, harassment, rudeness & threats. here's a BUNCH of ss of SOME of the harassment ki got
also no matter how many times you guys whine about "oh! don't harass angel" you KNEW the harassment would happen (surrenity even posted one of angels accounts publicly the image under here) and you know angel has been harassed MULTIPLE times even with being uncomfy talking to ki maybe ask kills at the time BOYFRIEND to talk to cher?
also you know damn well no matter how much ki blocks the hate anons they will STILL KEEP COMING. it will get stressing no matter how many times ki blocks them also ki was legit DOXXED dude pls address that ;-; ..?
also npd/low empathy will never be an excuse to be rude/not care about people's suffering/vulnerable because of your actions. #npdshouldnotbeusedasanexcuse!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! & anyways LOW EMPATHY IS STILL NOT AN EXCUSE TO BE SHITTY TO SOMEONE (explosion) (i thought that was common sense)
hai!! could you do isabelle (animal crossing) and doom guy (doom obviously /j ) rentry graphics?? if not both could you chose one of the two?? /nf tysm in advance ^_^
i have them done i nhudt need to remove the background and turn them into gifs but i ndont feel like doing it right now are you okay with waiting a bit like s day or a few days
and i don't mean stop talking about palestine or stop sharing news or information, i'm saying stop TALKING. you are not our white saviors. you should not talk over us. every single thing you guys are saying, palestinians have said it tenfold. stop feeling as though you are the spokesperson for all of palestine. you do not get to talk over palestinian voices. you must BOOST our voices. you must share OUR voices. you must speak OUT about SHARING our voices. we are and have been saying everything you're saying only now for 75 years. you don't get to prounce around all up here and claim you're suddenly a voice for palestinians. we have our own voices. we have said everything. stop taking the light away from us sharing our experiences and pretending as though you have a part or a role in talking about our grief.
we need people to share OUR voices. we need people to share OUR dreams. OUR lives. OUR strength. we do not need you to speak for us, we need you to help find a place for US to speak.
i'm so tired of the idea that "no one listens to the poc so we as white people must speak for them because everyone only listens to white people". i'm tired. MAKE THEM LISTEN TO US. do not speak for us, but share OUR voices. FORCE the world to LISTEN to US.
BOOST OUR VOICES. SHARE OUR STRUGGLES. OUR DREAMS. OUR STRENGTH. MAKE THEM LISTEN. MAKE THE WORLD LISTEN.
just saw my spinterest in someone's rentry im normal im normal im normal im normal im normal im normal im normal im normal im normal im normal im normal im normal
i am just going to say this right now, if you are neutral on the genocide, believe "both sides are in the wrong", or anything of the sort. DO NOT TOUCH MY BLOG. i stand with palestine and all of its people. my blog is not a safe space for people who are " neutral " on violence, genocide, displacement, and horror.
Don't forget it's still free Palestine, Congo, Sudan, Yemen, West Papua, Tigray, Haiti, Burma/Myanmar, Uyghurs, Syria, Kashmir, Cameroon, Armenia and Kurdistan.
Regardless of who you are or where you come from, if you do not feel outrage, anguish, and grief for these innocent lives lost, something is amiss, and you must consider why you lack the drive to take action.
Their fight should be considered our fight, as it is one for human rights.
