Trill Shit.

23.

[stephfoward]

Self love is knowing when something isn’t good for you. Self respect is knowing when to leave it.

[nayaac-deactivated20180325]

When you finally realize and accept that a certain part of your life is over it just makes you so excited for what’s to come.

[yokhakidfiasco-deactivated20210]

Summer time in the hood is a whole different vibe

[lilpicassa-deactivated20180724]

i love being a black girl btw

[lmaoooo]

[goodbyeeveryonee-deactivated202]

may u all move from hurt to healed in 2017

[hoetipsbyangel]

the “bad bitch mentality” pt. 2 🌹

(part 1 here)

*stop trying to “keep” a man’s attention. if they’re too dumb to stay interested they’re a fool & not worth the time. don’t stress over a fool, you’re better than that.

*don’t be easily fazed by money, looks, or popularity. when a guy that’s attractive or otherwise “unattainable” shows interest in you, don’t be surprised or fawn over him like “oh my god i can’t believe he’s talking to me” why wouldn’t he be attracted to you? you’re a beautiful girl. don’t be so easily impressed. 

*don’t wait on others to validate you. think you’re pretty, smart, amazing, etc. without anybody telling you to. give validation & assurance to yourself.

*treat others the way they treat you. if they don’t have time for you, start filling up your schedule as well. text him the way he texts you. if they treat you like shit, cut them off. don’t allow people to give you half ass effort.

*always carry yourself with grace. control your temper & your reactions. think before you act. there’s a time and place for everything. not every action requires reaction.

*don’t be thirsty, it looks bad. for example: leaving extra ass heart eyes under guys pics= tacky. be very selective with the men you flirt with. not every man is worthy of your time. don’t be desperate. attractive men come a dime a dozen.

*have a high regard for yourself. do not associate with anybody detrimental to you. you become the people you hang around most, regardless of how strong minded you are. hanging around a bad crowd can get you in trouble and gives you a bad reputation.

*keep your business private. not everybody needs to know what’s going on in your life. avoid telling your problems to people that gossip or are otherwise loud mouthed. 

*be educated. go to school, read books, learn from people older & wiser than you. knowledge is power. beauty fades. knowledge doesn’t.

[stankonia]

[yourmajestyyy]

½ introvert, ½ with the shits.

[itsjustsodope]

[kushandwizdom]

I rarely have the energy to connect with people these days. So if I talk to you, I hope you know that you mean the world to me.

[lyjerria]

I’m too comfortable in solitude. The company of others is an option, not a necessity.

[wxzvrdkelly]

[brigoesbang]

🗣🗣

[h0odrich]

it’s a beautiful feeling when certain people have absolutely no way of contacting you

[brigoesbang]

Today was not at all what I thought it would be. It wasn't as bad as I was thinking but it definitely wasn't great. Father's Day is always the worst for me personally, but what can I do? Just gotta learn to deal with my shit and move on and grow and prosper no matter what.

[betterthankanyebitch]

[brigoesbang]

🌹

[polychelles]

In Cape Maclear, Lake Malawi, photographed by Zach Louw