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astrology observation from a daughter of an astrologer: DEATH EDITION

1. Venus in 8th house / 8th house in taurus/libra / 8th house ruler aspecting saturn :

I often hear that venus/libra/taurus in regards to 8th house represent a nice and peaceful death surrounded by family. I find this highly untrue in real life though. All of these placement experience slow deaths - they're actually dying in various agonies or commas. Their deaths are usually very predictable and by the time they are actually dying, both them and their families are emotionally ready for it. They usually die from various diseases that take years for them to actually die. Most of these people die while unconcious and that's where the "peaceful death" stereotype comes from. Since most of them die predictably, they are usually surrounded by family. A lot of these people even though they are often clinically sick (cancer, diabetes, alzaheimer etc. - diseases that slowly progress and get worse), die in their own homes. Most of these placement also are taken care by their own family members before death, not by someone who is paid for it like hospice nurses.

2. 8th house in Aquarius / Neptune/Uranus in 8th/12th house / 12th house ruler in 3rd house / 12th house ruler in 1st house :

These people almost always die from death that is directly or indirectly caused by them. While placements around 8th house usually die from indirectly self inflicted death over very long time periods (for ex. their bad life style gives them diabetes, they ignore syptoms of diseases and refuse to go to doctor resulting in death, they often get STD's which aren't fatal but do shorten the lifespan of a person), while neptune/uranus and aquarius influence indicates indirectly self inflicted death that is quick (for ex. these people tend to accidently overdose, forget to take their pills/prescribed medication, die from driving under the influnce of alcohol or drugs etc. etc. - something that isn't directly a real suicide, but their negligance plays a role in their death), while the 12th house influnce is your stereotypical suicide. What all these placements have in common is dying alone. These placement almost laways die while no one watches, and even more often they aren't found immedietly after they die. These people are often many days dead when they are found. Also, these placements death isn't causing any problems or drama, actually their death often contributes to solving some family issues.

3. Pluto/Jupiter in 2nd house / 2nd house in Scorpio/Taurus/Sagittarius/Pisces:

This isn't about the way these people die, but more about their physical bosy before they die. These peoples physique completely changes when they are about to die, for ex. if the person was overweight their whole life - they die extremely skinny, if the person had long hair - they lose all their hair before the death. These people often struggle with food or water before they die (a lot of known victims of rabies have these placements - and they die mainly because of dehydration!). What is the most interesting to me is that family members of these people usually don't want to take care of them, these placements are almost always taken care of by professionals before theur death.

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astrology observation from a daughter of an astrologer: MONEY EDITION

- When it comes to finances and money, almost everyone talks about positive side: placements that get rich easily, attract money, have good jobs etc. but let's be honest, majority of people struggle - so here's some placements that have major financial issues and HOW to solve it.

1. Pluto in 2nd house / 2nd house in scorpio: Deemed as indicator of extreme wealth, pluto in 2nd house also brings extreme poverty and crisis. Pluto deeply loves extremes. Pluto in 2nd house individuals range from a homeless person to the richest people on earth. These people tend to have period of barely surviving to having unbearable excess of resurces. Pluto is also a planet of drastic change - these peoples financial status can AND will change overnight. Pluto also makes them takes risks, makes them overconfident with how well they actually handle resurces. People with this placement actually aren't rich regarding money - they often just own a lot of properties, jewerly and material things overall. This is why they are really prone to not being careful of their stuff, often destroying them, gambling them off or losing them - since pluto is also planet of the underworld. These people need to fully understand how much are things actually worth - not to them, but in general. You need to plan because you can lose and gain overnight. You can't be overconfident, this is the one of the few placements where you need to humble yourself to the ground. 2nd house kind of rich isn't luxurious, it is kind of rich that keeps you alive - enough money, food, housing for you to survive. With pluto in 2nd house, you need to always have plan B, don't be to attached to your material stuff because pluto will try to teach you to not dwell and be addicted to it by taking it away, but don't deem it unimportant because pluto will come to teach you the importance of it.

2. Jupiter in 2nd house / 2nd house in sagittarius/taurus / 2nd house ruler in 2nd house: One of the most famous indicators of being wealthy - rarely mentioned as indicator of addiction or excess to the point of (material) gluttony. These people are destined to learn a lesson of knowing what is actually enough for them, to learn their limits, and to appreciate the beauty of not having too much, but just enough. On a positive side, jupiter really helps this people to stay content. Unlike pluto, this people rarely get into extreme poverty or become homeless. On the other hand, this people will struggle with excess that brings them near poverty. They hoard, they are shopping addicts, they would rather spend money on material things (clothes, jewerly, cars etc.) and then forget about their basic needs (food, water, furniture etc.). When they actually buy food, they rarely eat healthy. They either overeat, eat mass produced,oily foods and especially sweets. These are kind of people that will wear full luxurious outfit and then not have money for a dentist. These people need to learn what is too much. They will never know the struggle of too little, but if they never learn their limits, they will also never learn the happiness of being just content, not rich, just having enough.

3. 8th house in aries/scorpio / mars/pluto in 8th house / ruler of 8th house in aries/scorpio: This is the one placement that punishes you for being too careful. With this placement you can't be dormant, you cannot hoard you resources. This placement wants you to hustle, to risk, to USE your resurces whenever possible. You can literally earn money by spending it first. These placements similiarly to pluto in 2nd house, can bring you periods of poverty and wealthness, but this periods are much shorter and more brief than with pluto. You thrive in jobs that need you to risk and go all in. Investing is made for you actually. The moment you are scared, these placements will take your resources from you and make you do the bold moves. You either risk something, or you will be forced to risk everything.

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astrology observation from a daughter of an astrologer

-this may be a bit controversial, but I hate how everyone always talks about relationships when talking about 7th house. The 7th house in astrology is about public, contracts, legal documents, agreements and disagreements. That's why marriages fall into this house - marriage is a legal agreement signed with documents after all. It also doesn't represent your husband/wife, that is your mars/venus/jupiters job, this house represents the marriage itself. The dynamic in it, the struggles of it, the highs and the falls. This house represents your public enemies, your known connections to the other people - relationships not signed by contract don't fall under here, but under 5th house, the literal house of romance. I also don't find it true that it can describe your future partner. Sure, it can amazingly explain the whole energy of that relationship, but not the person after all. The thing i don't understand the most is when people try to find their "ideal partner" based on 7th house. There is no ideal partner - majority of people aren't destined to be with 1 person only their whole lifetime. Just like transits are always changing, your life and circumstances should too. 7th house can tell u how your ideal relationship could look like, but that doesn't mean that you cannot experience it more than once with more than one person!

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astrology observation from a daughter of an astrologer: YOUR MOM EDITION

1. libra moons / 7th house moon / 11th house moon children tend to have overly friendly relationship with their mother and often their mothers don't set healthy bonderies resulting in the child (libra moon) being exposed to topics and dramas they are too young to know about and are forced to become mediator in those situations. Based on house and aspects, i find that a lot of libra moon view their mother more as a friend and not at authority. If the moon is nicely aspected, the person appreciates how open their mother was, if it's badly aspected, the person hates it.

2. scorpio moon / 8th house moon children have intense relationship with their mother a lot. What is actually interesting to me is that a lot of them hate or somehow despise their mother in childhood BUT later in adulthood, they start viewing their mother through rose-colored glasses. It's almost as if they forgive her everything and start praising her about everything she did. They won't admit if their mother was ever wrong or made a mistake, they almost start to see her as this "mother mary" - completely pure, innocent and perfect women. I noticed that this especially happens if the mother passes away. This is also more prominent if neptune/pluto are aspecting the moon.

3. Uranus square ascendent/rising children are often forced to move or travel because of their mom directly or indirectly. Their mother maybe picks them school that is far away from home, sends them a lot to relatives that live far away for a visit etc. I also noticed that these people often have fathers from different countries than their mother. Their mothers are often multilingual too. What is interesting that a lot of people with uranus squaring ascendent/rising are in middle of travelling when their mother dies.

4. Sun in 3rd house children often have to start working extremely early in their teens to support their mother financially. These people often end up taking care of their siblings too. Their mothers are often poor or financially unstable so they have to end up going to work as early as possible. They also may have been physicallly close to their mother when she working. Maybe she worked from home or she took them to her job with them. These people are often pushed by their mothers into certain schools, hobbies, activities etc. that help them in their career life later in life. I also noticed that these people seem to treat their mother mindset as a gods word. They often completely copy their mothers opinions and beliefs when they grow up. On the other hand, very often these people are born as the oldest sibling, and end up helping or providing better life for their younger siblings.

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astrology observation from a daughter of an astrologer: LIARS EDITION

1. Libra mercury: I noticed that no matter in what house libra mercury is located and no matter what aspects it makes, these people have tendency to lie about their life situation. It's not lying even, more of sugar coating. They tend to make their struggles sound like accomplishments. They have this inner need to make everything sound positive and polish to the point they completely disfigure the truth. On one side it's good, because they try so hard to not bother anyone with their problems, but on the other hand they also overlook, ignore and often underestimate problems of others because they're using the same mindset on people beside themselfs.

- for ex.

- on a positive side: libra mercury can be secretly starving because of lack of money, but will tell people how proud they are of loosing the weight, choosing not to worry other people about their situation

- on the negative side: libra mercury wouldn't tell their friend if they look bad, they will always choose to tell some fake compliment over having to confront someones feelings

2. Moon in 11th house: These people aren't necessarly liars, but they overexaggerate everything they say. If they tell a story, they make it seem more dramatic than it was. If they think something is funny - they will laugh louder than they actually would, if they like something - they will say they love it and if they dislike something - they will say that they despise it. Moon in 11th doesn't lie about something, but it lies about the intesity of it.

-For ex.

-on a positive side: moon in 11th house will always light up the atmosphere with their (fake, but not in malicious way) over the top emotions and reactions, even in the most akward moments or after a bad joke being told, they will always laugh and make other people laugh too.

-on the negative side: moon in 11th house often ruins reputation of others. If they had a small disagreement with someone, they retell it as a big fight and often make the victim out of themselfs even if they were the one being wrong. They also pretend to be more hurt than they actually are.

3. Mercury in 11th house: These people will lie and they are amazing at it too. This people have such an elaborate lies, complete backstories, they often even plan ahead. They often tend to even tell multiple different lies to different people to achieve a certain outcome, because 11th house is house of networking after all. This isn't always with bad intention, because they mostly use it to solve some sort of conflict, solve friendship issues, and lessen the negative atmosphere or make consequences less drastic, but on the negative note, they often tend to lie when they see that their surroundings don't agree or think the same. If they say they like orange in front of someone, and then they find out that person hates orange, the next day they will tell everyone they hate orange too. These people lie so good, they often can't distinguish what even is true at some point.

-For ex.

-on a positive side: mercury in 11th house thrives in politics, debates, discussions and law. Their lies are still lies, but their purpose isn't always malicious. They often lie in order to make everyone less mad, to lessen the consequences and to achieve some kind of harmony at the cost of a complete truth.

-on the negative side: mercury in 11th house tends to lie to make themself liked by people around them. They are willing to lie about their beliefs, morals and values just to fit into the crowd. This often leads them to moral dillemas where they have to decide what is more important: being liked or being yourself.

4. Neptune/Chiron in 3rd house: This placement lies in the way that only hurts them. These people inherently have problem with expressing themselfs verbally. That often comes from the fact that they experienced their words being used agaisnt them or other people misintepreting anything they have said. Because of that, these people tend to give up on trying to explain themselfs and rather just lie in order for people to leave them alone. This placement also EXTREMELLY often gets accused of lying wrongfully - especially when it comes to neptune in 3rd house. People somehow always doubt your words. Also people often retell their words incorrectly, leading to disagreements and blame often lands wrongfully on this placement.

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astrology observation from a daughter of an astrologer

- many people argue that empty houses mean there isn't a major focus on topics of that house, but in my experience, person actually CANNOT focus on the topic of empty house and isn't able to manage that part of their life on their own resulting in inhabitting something from their family members, copying others, needing direction from someone etc.

- for ex.

1. Empty 6th house: These people tend to inhabit habits from their family members, they tend to hoard like their grandma or garden like their aunt. They tend to look up morning/gym/school routines on the internet and copy them to the every detail. IF THE RULER OF THE 6TH HOUSE IS BADLY ASPECTED, these people actually completely skip routines or habits that could bring them closer to their goals. They would rather pay restaurants every single day in order to eat rather than cook themselfs. If they want to lose weight, they would rather starve than diet, if they want to start running, they immedietly go for 10km run instead of 1km run.

2. Empty 3rd house: These people often have extremely stereotypical accent, you can almost pinpoint the exact town they are from based on it. Whenever they learn another language, they will still have extremely pronounced accent of their mother language. Their humor is often heavily monotone and simple, and they mostly repeat whatever is funny currently on the internet (they have "popular girl humor" as the best example, but i find the term heavily misogynistic). IF THE RULER OF THE 3RD HOUSE IS BADLY ASPECTED, these people will never actually express their own opinion or need, resulting in unsatisfied life altogether. These people will never complain or argue, pinpoint a problem or whatsoever, resulting in harming themselfs and others.

3. Empty 1st house: These people tend to follow one style/aesthetic etc. intensely. If these people like skirts, they will throw out every pair of pants out of their house (metaphorically). They also have tendecy to want to become copy of someone (their parent, content creator...) to the point of lying to themselfs and convincing themselfs they like something they don't. IF THE RULER OF THE 1ST HOUSE IS BADLY ASPECTED, these people will not only try to force themselfs to be something they're not, but also everyone around them too. These people will cut off everyone who doesn't see them as the version they want to be seen, even if that said version is worse. They tend to project their unfulfilled dreams into their friends/children etc.

4. Empty 7th house: These people base their view on relationships based on their surroundings and generally want the stereotypical relationship of their world. If people around them want and have relationships, they will base their entire self worth on their relationship status and being single drives them crazy. If the people around them see relationships as unimportant, these people will be almost celibate or force out of their life anyone who is into them, even force out the people they are into. IF THE RULER OF THE 7TH HOUSE IS BADLY ASPECTED, these peoples relationship status will always contradict them. A lot of nuns and pastors that are supposed to be sworn to celibacy, are heavily sexually active with this placement. On the other hand, the ones that "yearn for relationship in public", actually don't love their love interests, but they just crave being loved by them. They only want to be attracting, while not being attracted to anyone inside. They crave the idea of relationship, while being disgusted by intimacy of it.