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Calm… They tell us to be calm.. But how do you be calm when it feels like the world is crumbling down on you.. A person is like a wall their feelings are what happens to walls.. People build up walls to stand sturdy and tall. They make sure there are no flaughs no imperfections, no cracks. But as life goes on people do hash things around and to this wall.. They say things like… “Why is this wall not good like the others?” The answer is simple… The people who built this wall up.. Had no intention to keeping this wall standing strong with them forever.. So this wall takes hard beatings… People critisized this wall, made this wall feel aweful. Until one day it got to a point where the wall was so sick and tired of everything. The wall didn’t wanted to stand tall. It didn’t want to trust the people who were building it up.. But it did anyway because there was no one else.. But since this wall had nothing… Its days slowly sank deaper and deaper… The wall began to crack and break in certain spots.. It got to a point where it couldn’t stand on its own.. It was weak and it could no longer pull its own weight… People saw what was happening.. But knowing our society today, they didnt want to fix the wall, they didnt want to restore its strength.. Because it is too much work to repair. They would be better off starting from scratch… So the people tore the wall down they pulled it to peices.. There was nothing left for this wall… It was in a million peices, broken, dead…. People dont relize what they are doing until its done… People are harsh and say things they shouldnt… They purposly tear people down to make them selfs feel better.. They betray.. They hate.. They love… But only to brake.. Its hard… Please if you understand this make sure you let someone know because this hurts, this pain wants us to brake down and cry… This pain is the reason we no longer trust anyone… We never want to feel this pain again.. So to us letting go isn’t hard anymore. We have been through it enough that its normal.. Please help us….
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If you’ve been looking to bind, whether you’re transgender, non-binary, or a cosplayer, you’ve probably come across binders like these on Ebay, Amazon, or AliExpress. Usually they’re called E.V.A, SHO, Whatwears, or Ancient Fish King brands, all of which are apparently, interchangeable with each other. Ross is here to tell you that these chest binders are not much of a step up from ace bandages, which in case you hadn’t known already, are the worst thing you can do to bind your chest. So here’s the run down, from least bad to worst.
First off, the sellers are usually misinformed about why someone would use a chest binder is needed just from how they title them. Why would Lesbians want a chest binder (outside of cosplay?)? I don’t know, but most of these listings have lesbian in the name, suggesting that chest binders are for girls, not men or nonbinary. This right there should be a warning sign of a company that doesn’t know what they are doing.
The strapless binders’ model is wearing the wrong size for their chest. Their breast is popping out over the top of the binder, and I can personally say that with that binder, it is very, very, painful if you have a larger chest. After about 20 minutes, bruising and chaffing will occur, especially to those with larger chests or are heavier. In the worst case scenario, the breast will rip or pop as if it were cut with a knife.
Look at the materials used. These chest binders do not have any or enough stretchy material in them. Elastic or spandex is the best. On the ones that do have spandex, they don’t mention how much there is in the binder. This is an enormous, bright, flashing sign that the binder is NOT safe. Just how bad is it? Ace bandages likely have more elastic than these binders do, and the ace bandages can still kill you if they don’t maim you. A binder is supposed to stretch, be easily manipulated, and you must be able to take a full breath in them. I’ve bought and used two different types binders from Ebay not knowing any better, and I could barely take a breath at all. I did get larger and larger sizes, and with the same result. Putting it simply, their binders could be falling off of you because they are too big and still would not be safe.
Now I can’t show you in a picture about the next part, but what’s probably the worst about these binders is that their ‘binding’ material goes all the way around the binder. Your binder should NOT have this unless it is made to correct back posture. Sports bras can, but that is better for again, correcting back posture. So not only will you be binding your chest, but you’ll be binding your ribs, back, and shoulders as well. This can warp them and damage the tissue.
So what does a good binder look like? I’m going to use the binder I’ve had the best experience with as an example. The Ultimate Chest Binder Tank by underworks. I’ve bought two of these as I’ve needed them, I wore out my old one after a year and a half of use daily including at work.
So, straight off from the site, we know this seller is knowledgeable about their target audience. Chest binders are under the men’s section and you never see the word lesbian on any of them. The only thing marked for women under the chest binder section is a sports bra, put there because transgender men often use them for working out.
The information section on the binder isn’t just two or three lines, it’s a whole paragraph. What is this binder made of? Medical grade 70% nylon and 30% spandex knit. It says it right there and is readily available information, you don’t have to dig through the seller’s ads for cheap wholesale jewelry in the description to find it. The listing also tells us how much of each material is used, information you must have when buying a chest binder. My personal rule of thumb? If it’s under 20% spandex or elastic, it’s trash. Our listing also tells us how to put the binder on, rather than making you struggle to figure it out on your own. Size chart and customer reviews are readily available on the listing and not buried under ads for other unrelated merchandise.
Also from looking at the binder’s pictures, the front and back of the binder is made differently; the front is thicker and non transparent while the back can bee seen through a bit and is thin in comparison. This is because the front of the binder is made to compress and bind the chest and the back of the binder is not. All the binding is in the front, support in the back.
Please, know the difference between an unsafe binder and a safe one. Save your money and avoid ones found on ebay. Can’t afford a binder still? There are programs for people who cannot buy one on their own or it is unsafe for them to buy one. One such I know of is the In a Bind program, they have fantastic service if a bit slow delivery time. Remember, this program is only for transgender men and nonbinary, cosplayers will have to go elsewhere or outright buy a binder.
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i’m sorry i don’t usually comment on posts but i keep trying to tell people this over and over again and a lot of the time nobody listens (hopefully they will now because this is an excellently constructed post)
an ebay binder pushed in one of my ribs and i barely wore it for any time at all (just less than an hour for convenience in my own backyard) because i knew it was bad but it seriously injured me that quickly.
the biggest problem is most people who give these things positive reviews have NEVER HAD A SAFE, PROPER BINDER BEFORE. therefore those positive reviews cannot be trusted! they don’t know how an actual binder is supposed to feel.
this is why i urge people not to include cheap ebay binders in their giveaways, especially. it’s not a game and it doesn’t matter how “safe” you are when using them or how well you advise people- they are NOT SAFE.
don’t harm people by trying to make it seem like it’s okay just because you want a couple more followers or to give something away because it’s cheap.
i cannot signal boost this enough, i had the ebay binder as my first binder so i didn’t know that it wasn’t meant to do any of the problems that i had with it, i thought that was just how binders were.
i wasn’t able to take a full breath in it even with it on the loosest setting, and it didn’t even bind well? i wore it quite rarely because when i did i got hot flashes, dizziness because i couldn’t breathe properly and i would eventually have to take it off because i couldn’t take it.
i wore it to london mcm comic con and i nearly passed out as a result of this shitty binder plus all the walking. i had to sit down for a good twenty minutes before i could get up and i felt like shit for the rest of the day even after putting it on a looser setting. it’s seriously hurt my chest too and has i suspect damaged some of the tissue there. absolutely don’t buy these brands they do more harm than good.
Yo, guys this is really important.
I have two of these, and while I’ve never had these problems (and I wear mine all day long), I have a really small chest.
Please be safe and get something like the Underworks or the Ancient Fish King binders. They’re more expensive, but unless you have breasts smaller than an A cup like me, you’re basically screwed with the ones shown in this post.
SIGNAL BOOST
My boyfriend used Underworks like no tomorrow. They are honestly the best. Pricey, but the best.
I’m just gonna leave this here in case anyone needs it
can I add a few things? 1) ancient fish king is not safe and you should’t get them. 2) these are asian companies. there, lesbian and tomboy mean people who wear binders, not what they mean here in the west. but everything else is spot on. GC2b is also awesome.
This is so important. I had an Ancient Fish King binder for a while, but honestly it was horrible. I had to stop wearing it a year ago and my back still hurts sometimes.
This is the first binder I got before I knew I was trans. Because i couldnt (and still cant) afford a real binder, I used it for a year before I noticed the pain was significant and chronic. I now have permanent pain in my left side and back, which sucks. Everytime I run or jog, even in my special, super-shock-absorbant running shoes, I can feel the pain radiate up my spine all because i cant afford a real binder. Please signal boost!
I dont know what to do. Thats the exact binder i purchased and im dont have the money for a better one and mentally it will make me worse if i dont use it
Dammit, every time
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Just trans* things
Looking through loads of baby name websites like you’re about to become a parent
You Know You’re Trans* When: #2646 Someone refers to you by preferred pronouns, but since you haven’t chosen a name yet, it ends up being something like “Anna got his hair cut yesterday.”
You Know You’re Trans* When: #2651 You wish there were a rule requiring any cis person who asks how you know you’re trans to explain how they know they’re a woman/man without mentioning their genitals.