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Hello! I'm dead dove/anti harrassment/anti censorship Pfp by ProshipJunko, writing and art by me Autistic! I don't recommend minors following I post 18+ stuff occasionally Self ship safe! (Duh I ship myself with Bubby-) Suggested Bubby X Gordon as a joke, became addicted

If something on here bothers you, block me :) #1 Bubby simp

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shewhomustbecalledking

nanmarie

This is sad. Are people really so very afraid of what it is to be human, to imagine, to experience complicated longing. It is different than acting on it, that is the whole point, to recognize all that goes into being human and to be at times messed up, to understand what internal forces are at work, and to then choose to act in a way that reflectes your actual values. Psychoanalysis talks about “the return of the repressed” - if you are always afraid of yourself and repressing so much, you will be even more likely to act out in some way at some point.

dezdemonomania

martinkhall

And she left Kudos on the devils fanfic.

adolescenceknight

all your f/os in a room together wondering wtf they have in common meanwhile you sweat profusely in a corner

#And meanwhile the ones from the same source go *spider man point meme* what the fuck are YOU doing here???

miss-course

made an insightful infographic for those who might need it

scottstilesliam-deactivated2016

I think as a culture we have all forgotten that fandom is supposed to be fun.

It’s not that serious.

It was never supposed to be that serious.

Especially since most of the drama and hurt revolves around shipping.

All of the ships are fictional. Being canon doesn’t actually negate the fact that the ship isn’t real.

No ship, or any aspect of a fictional universe, is important enough to treat another real life human being badly.

It’s not that serious.

vervainvalkyrie-deactivated2017

“No ship, or any aspect of a fictional universe, is important enough to treat another real life human being badly.” I’ve had the misfortune of encountering some people who really, really, really need this drilling into their skulls.

razztazticffn

“No ship, or any aspect of a fictional universe, is important enough to treat another real life human being badly.”

the-final-sif

"Antis' foundation is the belief that fiction affects reality, in that any problematic behaviors or topics in media, fictitious or not, will cause people to normalize those behaviors, resulting in people (specifically minors) thinking that such actions are acceptable in real life. This is a common argument used by conservative groups to enact queer censorship, who argue that children who see LGBTQIA+ characters in television or books will "turn gay" (Bollinger 2019), so the sanitization of all adult fan spaces is therefore required to protect minors who could potentially encounter problematic sexual content (BrazyDay 2019)....

Antis attempt to glorify their ideology by rebranding it as antipedophilia and anti-incest, but it is actually a loose ideology of disinformation, virtue signaling, and legitimate abuse. Similar to the QAnon cult phenomena, which began in 2017, anti dogma is designed to promote paranoia and play off people's fears and emotions to spread disinformation. They band together to perform this function, forming what might be called a cult, a term that has been defined as a group having a "great devotion to a…movement". However, what truly marks a cult is the control attempted over behavior and thought. Participants in anti circles perpetuate a climate of fear, shame, and trauma in fan spaces. The most common targets of such abuse are women, people of color, teens, abuse survivors, and members of the LGBTQIA+ community. Fans who are already marginalized are further deprived of safety, anonymity, outlets for growth, self-expression, and relationships. It is therefore vital that we closely monitor hate speech in fan spaces and study these behaviors. Our failure to do so may open doors for bigotry, violence, and disinformation."

From The cult structure of the American anti which was a fascinating read and genuinely worth going through if you're in fannish spaces.

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boyxnet-deactivated20260107

a relationship should be 50/50. i want something and my f/o does whatever it takes to get it for me. see? 50/50.

#Me cuz I'm a pillow princess 💀#nsft mention

The song "Raise Your Glass" by P!NK is very "Proship Anthem" vibes lmao

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robloxboylikescats

fun fact!! telling people to hurt themselves/k-ll themselves over the internet can get you in big trouble!!

if you tell someone to kill themself and they actually do it you can get in even bigger trouble!!

lets not forget cyberbullying is a crime!!

spamming someone with death threats n stuff is harassment over the internet which is illegal!!

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aerykai

I've never seen a more toxic fandom than the Star Wars one. Phew you guys really love to go to the extremes. Lemme help clear up some stuff for yall since there's some confusion, and demonizing the proship term is causing a lot of unnecessary damage and harm to people in all fandoms.

Pro vs Anti 101: What They Are

Both sides have squicks and triggers. Both sides have boundaries and certain topics they don't like. Both sides don't condone or support certain things.

Proship = default setting. "Ship n let ship." They're the "It squicks me, but I scroll by and/or block" crowd. The "I don"t care what you ship" crowd. The "neutral" crowd also falls under this category. Very basic. The "I don't like this so amma move on with my life" folks.

Antiship = radicals that harass and bully, demonize and dehumanize anyone that doesn't agree with them about their hatred for certain ships. The ones who make their squicks everyone else's problem. Often known for inciting violence against those they don't like.

So say you get squicked by something. If you block it and move on, congrats. You're a proshipper. That's literally what a proshipper does and all one is. Antis wouldn't do that. They'd send hate and harass whoever posted the thing that squicked them, possibly incite violence against them also. The difference is the harassment. If you bully somebody over a ship, you're an anti. If not, then you're the default setting, a proshipper. Do NOT be proud of the anti label. It means you're a violent bully.

That is the only difference.

Learn the terms and actual meaning of them before you come for somebody or have something fucking stupid like "DNI Proshippers" in your bio, good lordie 🙄

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