light that coils like smoke and snakes

sister golden hair. (20s, transfem lesbian, swallows the sun on her tongue) this blog is largely nsfw/porn/for adults.

[petulantpony]

spider snuggles u with all my fuzzy soft legs

[petulantpony]

“looking respectfully” tagged on my sex work advertisement. i ought to kill you.

[petulantpony]

being a woman is cool because everyone will constantly remind you of how much you sexually arouse them up until the second you ask to be sexualized and praised for your sexuality. very cool how even other women do this. fun for me. definitely reinforces healthy ideas about my consent and how much it matters. certainly doesn’t make me feel like my desire is intrinsically wrong because it’s never responded to. not giving me a jaded outlook about sex at all. nope. not one bit.

[mousidy]

Sorry but I’m exclusively attracted to afab people. I wasn’t sent to conversion therapy twice as a teenager only to have people on the internet guilt me into trying to like people assigned male just like the Mormon counselors wanted. I will always advocate for trans rights but this kind of rhetoric will only hurt you. You cannot guilt or coerce people into sleeping with you or rather, you can, but you should’t.

I've been wanting to unpack this particular terf argument for a while but I'm not even sure what I wrote that you could be responding to here. yes it's bioessentialist to see trans women as our assigned sex before what we actually are, but that fact alone does not obligate you to sleep with anyone

it would be fatphobic to announce that you don't want to sleep with fat women, and someone simply calling that out alone would not constitute pressuring you to sleep with anyone you didn't want to

it's not carte blanche to announce all the minorities you don't want to sleep with and aren't attracted to

[futchlings]

these nefarious mormon conversion counselors are always telling young cis women to fuck trans girls on account of it's not gay if she has or had an outie

[petulantpony]

first frame -> final frame 🙂‍↕️ support me

[mousidy]

if you lose interest in a trans woman when you find out she has a vagina then die

[mousidy]

we're not sex toys we're people 👍

[mousidy]

oh noooo you can't fit her into the "tranny shemale futanari dickgirl" sexual archetype OR the "pure, Natural cis woman crafted by god" sexual archetype? you have to respect her as a person rather than as a sex object? fuuuuck that must be really hard for you I'm sorry

[mousidy]

it's funny that both trans and cis women alike are reduced to our genitals, but with trans women it's especially extreme. transness is thought of as infinitely worse than cisness in every way, so why would you ever desire a trans woman if not to play with her one unique feature? and if she doesn't, or can't, put out, what's the point of her? what value does she even have? she's just a sex toy, you can just throw her out

[mousidy]

[jibunbosh]

refers to my alter as a tulpa for post clout the same way trans girls gotta call themselves femboys for sex work

[jibunbosh]

really bad post

[jibunbosh]

sorry

[jibunbosh]

genuine answer: No, like, emphatically, resoundingly, I cannot stress this enough, no

[stone-d-butch]

The language surrounding trans women in porn has always been tied to the "taboo" of our sexuality. Tranny, shemale, futanari, trap, sissy, cd, and femboy all exist as labels which other people have put on us as sly (not sly) ways of degendering us, third sexing us, in order to keep the taboo alive. This is very similar to the way in which racialized women are also exoticized in porn (as with relative age, religion, appearance, etc. It's a pattern).

When trans women, especially when racialized, enter into (online) sex work, we are forced to use the language which will make us seen, and makes us more popular. Trans women's agency is removed from the construction of our own descriptive vocabulary as a prerequisite to succeeding in the industry.

Using these required labels to make a living is not some fluid identity which allows trans women mobility. It is an effect of the marginalization of trans women, and a culture which consumes us, but does not believe we are deserving of more than being consumed.

[butchdemiurge]

it is straightforwardly reinforcing of rape culture for someone to see a submissive express a boundary or show any actual backbone or agency over what they want, and be completely unable to hear any of them without shutting their ears and slotting them into their idea of what a ““brat”” is. please grow the hell up and stop projecting your dumbass ideas of sex onto people completely uninvolved with your views just because they don’t act like the bottom from omegaverse fic

[butchdemiurge]

”wanna see my ass”

[miscling]

it's not bratting, it's trying to get you to actually inspire submission in it instead of just demanding and expecting it.

[miscling]

what are you doing to actually earn the submission you're getting? what dominant effort are you putting in to get submissive effort?

[butchdemiurge]

how it feels to not really be into giving anal outside of topping transfems when every other tme queer person is an anal fiend

[butchdemiurge]

Im not trying to say anything but it would’ve been at least a bit different if he was a woman right. Or came out

[frejasvault]

🕷️✨ Caught by the Jumping Spider Girl

😍“D-don’t stare… If our eyes meet, you’re already mine.”

Artist — 熊野プラン (plan039)

[butchdemiurge]

It’s so funny that my gf thought I was gonna hate Flowery and meanwhile I’m like “not I’m not turning out voice clips, I think it’s really funny that he keeps bragging about how he’s gonna fuck my dad”

😭 YES LIKE HES ACTUALLY AWESOME

[butchdemiurge]

Top Ten Flowery Hype Moments and Aura

[calware]

the truly evil part about lolcowing is that the targets are almost always people who have done something/things that are unsavory at best or objectively harmful at worst and that is used as justification to treat them however you want with no recourse whatsoever. like you suddenly have permission to dehumanize someone for what, fucking entertainment. and if anyone tells you to cool it for a minute, suddenly they're supportive of that behavior, making you effectively immune to anyone who disagrees. like apparently nobody's ever heard of disproportionate punishment

[lady-of-vitreous-sight]

you do have to be a wings pervert. actually.

[butchdemiurge]

its so wild how many tumblr users will see you literally just use tme language and go yuuup op is #violentlybigoted about intersex and transmasculine people