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Everything wrong with Republican Party summed up in one nice juxtaposition.
This is actually pretty handy.
So this picture popped up on Facebook, and rather than start a fight with someone I don't know that well, here I am.
This is wrong. It's so religion-centric, it's risible. A Relationship is a journey you take with another person. It's a convergence of your life's path and their path, regardless of where or when the journey ends. Most journeys are finite: does that mean the trip is not worth it? that the companionship can't change you? that you can't learn valuable lessons from your shared experience?
Life is about learning and growing. All the people around you are your teachers and your classmates. Whether for a day, a week, a year, a lifetime, their contribution is valuable.
Love is infinite. Affection can't be used up. We need to stop teaching children that one experience cheapens another and that their worth diminishes the more sex they have.
These ideas are wrong for the same reason as that asshat Geraldo was wrong. He thinks his statement - about how time wears unevenly on the sexes and women are the losers in a "Beta Marriage" arrangement because they give up part of their youth, while men don't - isn't misogynistic. While he might have described something that happens in our culture, where women seem to have a harder time dating when older, it doesn't make his statement less sexist. In fact, it perpetuates the idea that women only have youth, beauty, and fertility to contribute to a Relationship and that they need to guard these resources.
We need to change the way we look at Relationships. It's not a waste of time if it doesn't result in marriage. Not just because marriage isn't the be-all-end-all for many people. But because the journey, the experience, the growth you enjoy while with another person contributes to who you are. Life is about change and embracing all those experiences. It shouldn't be about the destination. In fact, the destination is an illusion. There is only the trip.
Permit me an impertinent question (or three).
Suppose a small group of extremely wealthy people sought to systematically destroy the U.S. government by (1) finding and bankrolling new candidates pledged to shrinking and dismembering it; (2) intimidating or bribing many...
The louder the opposition screams, the more we know we’re doing something right.
Texas Governor Rick Perry sounding like a rapist while talking about his attack on women’s rights (via avocadosalad)
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As I finished reading Justice Scalia's dissent in United States v. Windsor, I suddenly found myself filled with a sad and righteous anger that James Gandolfini had to be the famous Italian guy from New Jersey who just died of a massive heart attack.
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Viral Video of the Day: High School Student Schools His Teacher
Frustrated by receiving packets and worksheets instead of a lecture, Texas high school student Jeff Bliss shared his feelings about his teacher’s lack of engagement as she made him leave the classroom.
I would like to point out that as teachers we are actively discouraged from lecturing because it is too "teacher centered" and doesn't create enough opportunities for students to track their progress in the material. That's not to say packets and worksheets are the way to go in a humanities course, but any activity other than having the students focused on working with the material directly (i.e. reading, writing) is frowned upon by the powers that are currently dictating the teaching methods du jour. Is the kid justified in his frustration? Sure. Is the teacher bad at her job? I don't know, maybe. Can we villify her and sanctify him with no background information? Not at all. This is a systemic problem, an education problem, a cultural problem. Show some outrage toward the politicians who are trying to make education a business where test scores mean profits and students are "customers." Petition that. Leave this teacher alone because she is just as bound and stifled as the students are.
It goes “zing.”
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If this woman was alive today, she’d have my vote. Shit.
Yesterday I was chastised by an assistant principal in front of my students for not taking them - all SIX of them - to the school assembly for the announcement of the new "Mr. Viking." She told me that I had to give them the option to go (I had), and that I could not prevent them if they wanted to (they didn't). She ended with, "you are not exempt from the rules."
THEY WERE TAKING A TEST.
The test had been planned for the past 2 weeks. The assembly was announced the day before.
Sorry I'm not sorry for prioritizing my curriculum.
I was behind this shit in the Trader Joe's parking lot and ended up parked very nearby. Where did this WOMAN take her 2 little kids first? The bakery next door with FREE CAKE SQUARE MONDAYS. Then I had to go kill myself because it was either me or her. We couldn't both exist at the same time. And I was about to have an irony-induced rage aneurysm anyway. THESE ARE THE PEOPLE WHO ARE REPRODUCING. Think about that for a while.
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Occupy Wall Street was a fucking mouse fart compared to the damage our generation could do to the system if every last one of us suddenly decided to stop making payments on our student loans.
I doubt it would take all that many conscientious defaulters to reach a tipping point — maybe a few hundred thousand — and the student debt bubble would burst. Credit scores would be meaningless. Ivory towers would crumble. The entire fucking economy would implode.
I dunno, it might be worth doing.
Lead the way, captain.
On the one hand, this seems like a message that every young person every PERSON needs to hear because it gives perspective.
But on the other hand, it's completely impractical. It ignores the reality of life - which is that the system is rigged to work against those who would buck the system.
"Do what you love doing and eventually you'll become a master at it and the bills will get paid." But when? How long between following your dreams and being able to support yourself within a system that is based on nothing but money? Even if money is just an illusion, it is still the cornerstone on which the facade of Capitalism Is The Best And Only Way is built. Money and debt are still the shackles that keep us chained into this unhealthy, unhappy obsession with "making a life".
In the end, someone still has to pay the bill. Because bills and payment are what our Society is based on.
Why do we send children to school to learn the same facts and take the same tests to tell how different they all are? I'm becoming increasingly more convinced that Education is being redesigned to kill creativity and independent thought. The people at the top of the Economic ladder keep coming up with new ways to "encourage" "21st century thinkers" - they keep feeding us new "tools" to make "better learners" - but each new method, each new benchmark, each new test just stifles learning and creativity and genuine thought even more. Why?
To force future generations into the the ladder. Specifically, to force the vast majority into the lowest rungs of the ladder so that those on top will remain comfortably in control. They do this by subjecting dreams to price tags, sacrificing talents to debt.
Money keeps people in line. It keeps them docile, malleable. ..."Docile" means "willing to be taught or instructed" - it's synonymous with "obedient" - in case you didn't know. ...The only people lucky enough to be able to follow their dreams are either so talented that they don't have to pay for it, or financially secure enough not to have to worry about the cost. These people are few and far between. The rest of us must do something we don't want to do. We can sacrifice our goals forever or for just long enough to get comfortable, but at some point we will be forced to play within the rules of the game.
Maybe the message of this speech should reflect that: "Do what you have to do just long enough to make what you want to do a possibility, then do that."
Because the game is rigged and the winners are predetermined. And that's a pretty damn hopeless thought.
Chelsea Welch, the US waitress who was fired after she posted a picture of a tip receipt on Reddit, wrote for us:
I was a waitress at Applebee’s restaurant in Saint Louis. I was fired Wednesday for posting a picture on Reddit.com of a note a customer left on a bill. I posted it on the web as a light-hearted joke.
This didn’t even happen at my table. The note was left for another server, who allowed me to take a picture of it at the end of the night.
Someone had scribbled on the receipt, “I give God 10%. Why do you get 18?”
I assumed the customer’s signature was illegible, but I quickly started receiving messages containing Facebook profile links and websites, asking me to confirm the identity of the customer. I refused to confirm any of them, and all were incorrect.
I worked with the Reddit moderators to remove any personal information. I wanted to protect the identity of both my fellow server and the customer. I had no intention of starting a witch-hunt or hurting anyone.
Now I’ve been fired.
The person who wrote the note came across an article about it, called the Applebee’s location, and demanded everyone be fired — me, the server who allowed me to take the picture, the manager on duty at the time, the manager not on duty at the time, everyone. It seems I was fired not because Applebee’s was represented poorly, not because I did anything illegal or against company policy, but because I embarrassed this person.
In light of the situation, I would like to make a statement on behalf of wait staff everywhere: We make $3.50 an hour. Most of my paychecks are less than pocket change because I have to pay taxes on the tips I make.
After sharing my tips with hosts, bussers, and bartenders, I make less than $9 an hour on average, before taxes. I am expected to skip bathroom breaks if we are busy. I go hungry all day if I have several busy tables to work. I am expected to work until 1:30am and then come in again at 10:30am to open the restaurant.
I have worked 12-hour double shifts without a chance to even sit down. I am expected to portray a canned personality that has been found to be least offensive to the greatest amount of people. And I am expected to do all of this, every day, and receive change, or even nothing, in return. After all that, I can be fired for “embarrassing” someone, who directly insults his or her server on religious grounds.
In this economy, $3.50 an hour doesn’t cut it. I can’t pay half my bills. Like many, I would love to see a reasonable, non-tip-dependent wage system for service workers like they have in other countries. But the system being flawed is not an excuse for not paying for services rendered.
I need tips to pay my bills. All waiters do. We spend an hour or more of our time befriending you, making you laugh, getting to know you, and making your dining experience the best it can be. We work hard. We care. We deserve to be paid for that.
I am trying to stand up for all of us who work for just a few dollars an hour at places like Applebee’s. Whether a chain steakhouse or a black-tie establishment, tipping is not optional. It is how we get paid.
I posted a picture to make people laugh, but now I want to make a serious point: Things like this happen to servers all the time. People seem to think that the easiest way to save money on a night out is to skip the tip.
I can’t understand why I was fired over this. I was well liked and respected at Applebee’s. My sales were high, my managers had no problems with me, and I was even hoping to move up to management soon. When I posted this, I didn’t represent Applebee’s in a bad light. In fact, I didn’t represent them at all.
I did my best to protect the identity of all parties involved. I didn’t break any specific guidelines in the company handbook – I checked. But because this person got embarrassed that their selfishness was made public, Applebee’s has made it clear that they would rather lose a dedicated employee than an angry customer. That’s a policy I can’t understand.
I am equally baffled about how a religious tithe is in any way related to paying for services at a restaurant. I can understand why someone could be upset with an automatic gratuity. However, it’s a plainly stated Applebee’s policy that a tip is added automatically for parties over eight like the one this customer was part of. I cannot control that kind of tip; it’s done by the computer that the orders are put into. I’ve been stiffed on tips before, but this is the first time I’ve seen the “Big Man” used as reasoning.
Obviously the person who wrote this note wanted it seen by someone. It’s strange that now that the audience is wider than just the server, the person is ashamed.
I have no agenda here. I seek no revenge against the note writer. I have no interest in exposing their identity, and, at this point, I’m not even sure I want my job back. I was just trying to make a joke, but I came home unemployed.
I’ve been waiting tables to save up some money so I could finally go to college, so I could get an education that would qualify me for a job that doesn’t force me to sell my personality for pocket change.
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Workout clothes specifically designed for maximum sex appeal. Not for fuctionality. Not for comfort. Designed so that for the 2 weeks you actually keep your annual New Year's Resolution to go to the gym regularly, you will feel like you are doing anything other than making a fool out of yourself. News Flash: You are making a fool out of yourself.
The gym regulars? They think you're an idiot, if you've even registered as more than a nuisance to them.
The bra-with-the-cutouts-and-optional-extra-padding? Would look trashy and tacky on a beach. Put on a t-shirt, you ditz.
The yoga pants with mesh panels in them? You're already wearing spandex, which leaves nothing to the imagination. If you want bare legs, go buy a pair of Kino's hot pants and be done with it.
And on that note, a tangential rant:
Think joining a yoga class in the key to meeting a guy at the gym while not a sweaty mess? Think again. Let's look at some yoga statistics. Men make up just about 30% of American yoga practitioners. So let's say that any given class has about 3 or 4 men in it. Even if a quarter of the men who attend a yoga class are doing so out of desperation to meet women (obviously there are no stats for this scenario), that means only 1 guy might notice your ridiculous pants. Assuming that the men who are attending an actual yoga class are serious about their practice and not just there to creep on women in spandex, you probably won't register on any of their radar. Yoga is a very individual experience. It's not a competitive, contact sport. The goal is self-awareness and self-pacing, not comparing yourself to the person next to you, not socializing, and certainly not flirting.
Besides, in my experience, men tend to prefer the intense yoga classes which leave everyone a sweaty, exhausted mess. Sorry, Barbie.