Okay, so....I have been thinking. We aren't kids anymore, and I want to settle down.....I have always cared so much about both of you and I get the feeling you both care about me too. I don't want anyone to end up hurt and I am so tired of the back and forth.....my idea was, I go out with each of you and see how it goes.....I know it's sort of sudden but I figured it's as good a time as any, Jamie wants to retire and leave me the ranch so it could also be a business venture. I know you two have silly beef, haha pun intended, but, honestly, it's been a rough few years for all of us so combining ranches might not be a bad idea. Heather has also been asking about her dad and I would much rather tell her something it being one of you than the truth.....