Using him as your object [#1]
the property of a good or a commodity whose individual units are capable of mutual substitution (i.e., interchangeability)
Fungibility is a form of objectification that consists in treating a person as interchangeable with objects.
From a (con)sensual perspective it can provide a fun new form of control over your partner. It allows the dominant part to exercise complete power over her submissive, while doing very little and totally relaxing.
Reducing a man to the role of a mere object can be a quite powerful display of your superiority. It might feel almost like something a bit too cruel to do at first, but there’s a veiled mutual appeal to it that becomes quite obvious when put in practice. Turning a man temporarily into an object can become, in this sense, a subliminal expression of your own sensuality; a way to demonstrate how much you can and should be adored.
Wouldn’t it feel empowering to secretly be able to turn a man into a personal object, and use him according to your whims? Wouldn’t it be even nicer if he’d love every second of it and submitted himself with passion to you? In a world where women are often (unwillingly) objectified by men and the media, having a man willing to used by you in such a way could prove to be quite an interesting change of scenery. It might offer you a fun way to tease his imagination and inspire his desire for you even more, reinforcing your power over him. But in any case, it will provide you with a nice way to sit back and unwind a little bit, allowing your body to relax but still feeling like a powerful sexy goddess.
3 fun ideas of things to try in this way:
make your man kneel on the floor in front of you and use him as your personal foot-rest. Play with him, teasing him with your feet, or simply stretch your legs and ignore him. It’s up to you: the important is to feel relaxed and superior to him, and watch him helplessly (and happily) admire and serve you like foot stool, for your pure entertainment.
Make him get bow down in front of you, in the floor, and sit on his back, using him like a seat whenever you need to do something sitting down, like change shoes.
Make him stay by your side and hold something for you without moving or complaining: e.g. hold a mirror for you, a makeup bag, or a couple of hangers with your clothes, when you’re dressing up and getting ready to go out. Alternatively, you can turn him into a human smartphone operational system: tell him to hold your cell phone, read out loud and respond (according to your instructions) to any text messages/emails you might get, sparing you from the inconvenient of typing on the phone.
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