umm what the fuck?? that’s such a messed up thing to say to your girlfriend?? Like “oh no you’re too stupid to be the leader obviously this new kid i’ve never seen is the one in charge bc i don’t believe you could talk to people 8 years ago” like she clearly knows it makes Violet upset so why tf would she say that. And violet just, crosses her arms, looks down and takes it. Doesn’t even argue back.
Like i wouldn’t say their relationship was abusive? (Tho i wouldn’t discard the possibility) but it could seriously have been somewhat not good. Like, between Minnie not believing her girlfriend could be a leader and saying it to her face, then going to stop a fucking bomb with her and leaving Violet fucking blind alone in the beach while Minnie is magically intact, like, did she just abandon her??
Also, Violet mentions that she always wanted to dance with someone she cared about. We know she’s a hopeless romantic and really likes these cheesy things, and she repeatedly says it’s a dumb idea even if you actually accept the dance (it’s even worse if you don’t btw)
Which, okay it may be rude to deny your girlfriend a dance, but I can understand that some people might not be comfortable dancing. Hell I hate dancing (still would pull the hottest tango if my girlfriend asked). It just strikes me as weird how Violet keeps talking about it as if it was a stupid thing to ask, as if it was “too much” to ask. Sure, she could be just nervous, but when you put it next to Minerva saying that shit about not believing she’s the leader, it makes me wonder if Minerva used to treat her like she was somewhat “less”, like her ideas were “dumb” or “weird” or something, and I mean of COURSE someone could feel self-concious about demanding or asking for things (or leading people) if your fucking girlfriend downgrades you and makes you think you’re unable to do anything useful.
So she constantly downgrades her, pulls a Jahova Witness on her when she’s kidnapped to get her to join her cult the Delta while she’s on a vulnerable state (didn’t Kent describe it as “mental torture”?), abandons her in the boat next to a fucking bomb (Abandons Violet!! Of all people!! The one with abandonment issues!! also makes her blind for life btw) and completly ignores her in bridge when she begs her to stop, except for when she had to knock her to the ground, you know.
Like, maybe it wouldn’t be THAT bad if they were just random people but these two were supposed to be in love? At least before you know. Even tho I think Kent said it was mostly supposed to be one-sided, which means Minerva just, led Violet on, let her fall in love with her while downgrading her and making her feel dumb (with all the cheesy stuff Violet likes, like stargazing, cute handmade gifts, slow dancing, carving initials on wood bc i’m positive that was her), then never bothered to even try to come back to her and straight up join a human trafficking group and kidnap her while Violet was still pretty much in love with her… damn.
Like I don’t know if I’d sa it was abusive but it was definitely not a good relationship. tbh just your (ex) girlfriend saying something along the lines of “i don’t believe you’re the leader. you’re too weak to be a leader” should be enough.
Or maybe this is my sleep deprived blabbery. who knows. probably gonna regret this and delete it in the morning.
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