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Austin M 30s Ropes can do more than sail a ship sweetheart.

[newbyoes]

[babyfoxcollectionthings]

[ilovemygirlsgangrene]

Girlfriend that lets you practice drugging her with a syringe as she pretends to struggle so you two can lure in victims efficiently.

[babyfoxcollectionthings]

[gentlemanmotorslifestyle]

[lookingbackatfashionhistory]

• Royal blue oriental pantsuit.

Date: 1950

[inartchive]

[desiderium-aeternae]

[camdamage]

single-rope “a bit o’ crotch torture” tutorial!

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[female-orgasm-denial]

My original crotch rope instructions got deleted as it had nipples in, but here’s another nice way of doing it. It’s good to use proper bondage rope but you can also try it with paracord which is much cheaper and easy to get in big stores.

Even if you follow the first three steps above and tie it off in a bow then you have a very simple crotch rope that you can wear over, or under, or instead of underwear. And if you keep it simple and just single or double strand you could even do it with long boot laces.

[nikodonsky-deactivated20221215]

[female-orgasm-denial]

When it reached her shoulders, she was allowed to touch.

When it covered her breasts, she was allowed to edge.

When it reached her pussy, she was allowed a ruin.

When it touches the floor, she'll be allowed to cum.

Then he'll shave it off again.

[themasterofo]

My Own Cunt

Were you supposed to be using your vibrator?

“But I forgot!”

Did you have permission to use your vibrator?

“No, Sir.”

Can you just use whatever toys you want whenever you want?

“No, Sir, I know, I just-”

Yes, Sir or no, Sir is fine. I’m not looking for excuses.

“Yes, Sir.”

Do you get to just edge that cunt whenever you want to?

“No, Sir.”

Why not?

“Because it’s not mine.”

Whose is it?

“It’s yours.”

Is that just a fun thing to say to make you feel sexy?

“No! Sir, no, it’s true. It’s yours.

Then put it back on your cunt. Highest setting, and keep it there.

“Yes, Sir… oh… “

You do not touch my property without permission. Is that understood?

“Yes, Sir. Oh God, Sir I’m so close.”

I’m sure you are. You keep that vibrator pressed right up against my cunt.

“Yes, Sir, Ohhhh, oh, it’s right there. Oh please can you stop it?”

No.

“Sir, please, I’m gonna cum!”

You are not, now you will control yourself. Didn’t we just talk about this?

“Ohhhh, Sirrrr…”

That is my cunt between your legs, and I do not want it having any orgasms. Don’t I have the right to decide what happens with my own cunt?

“Yes, Sir, of course, but I- it’s so close I can’t control it.”

You will control it. Cumming is not allowed.

“Yes, Sir. I won’t… I won’t cum.”

Good girl. I know you won’t disappoint me. Now, let’s have forty-five minutes, right on the edge, and then I’ll let you take it off.

[cherishedproperty]

When It’s Hard

Several months ago, I felt like I was drowning. I was on a steep learning curve at a new job where I felt completely lost, and I was rebuilding my personal life on several levels. Every little decision felt heavy. But I kept trudging through, hoping one day the struggle would end. 

In the midst of this, my Dominant gave me a daily task. It felt nearly impossible some days. I’d get my daughter in bed and think about the task. I’d watch the minutes tick away before bedtime and try to summon up the energy to complete it. Once I completed it, I felt better. Proud. Accomplished. Connected to him. But before doing it, all I could feel was the exhaustion. 

One night I asked permission to skip the task. My boss had completely scrapped my work product—a new experience for this perfectionist overachiever who was used to things coming easily. Suddenly, I felt incompetent. Then my daughter, sensing my stress, argued with me all night. It was all I could do to get her in bed before I collapsed in tears. 

So I asked permission to skip the task. And he said no. I was furious. I told him if he loved me, he wouldn’t make me follow through. He calmly told me that he wanted me to follow through because he loved me. I called him selfish and insensitive. I refused to do it. He reminded me that I always have a choice: complete the task or accept punishment.

I sat for about 20 minutes, just staring at the wall. I felt empty. I reached inside and felt nothing. No energy, no worth. Just nothing. And then I got up, and I completed my task. I didn’t do it to avoid the belt; when I initially refused, I knew I’d take the belt for it. But the idea of intentionally disobeying him…that was too much to bear. I couldn’t. So I took my nothingness and made it something. I made it into service.

A few days later when the clouds had cleared, we talked about it. “You know I couldn’t let you off the hook,” he said. “You know it would have been the worst thing for you. It would have left you feeling alone and untethered.” He was right. There were other times when he did give me permission to skip the task, but that night it would have made everything worse. I was so grateful that he held the leash tight in that moment. He reached out to me in my darkness, and he didn’t let go. And neither did I. 

I thanked him for the opportunity to submit. Then he said four words that made my heart swell. “I knew you would.”

It’s easy to submit when you have all the time and energy to devote yourself to it. But it’s much harder to submit when everything is going wrong. Dominance and submission aren’t just for when it’s easy. Many people are capable of putting on the role for short bursts. Months, even. But the moment it gets hard, they toss it aside. And they wait for a more convenient time to pick it back up again. It’s not about whether you can play the role; it’s about whether you are the role. Anything less is just D/s dress-up. 

A deep D/s connection is about where you find your sanctuary. It’s about what feeds your soul. It’s about what replenishes you when you are stressed or sad or lost or returning home from battle to lick your wounds. If you can only give or take control when it’s easy, then it’s never going to be real or sustainable. You can’t build a relationship on that. But if you ache for D/s all the way down to your bones, then you show up no matter what. You follow through when it’s hard. You meet your partner’s needs, and in doing so, you meet your own. The dynamic can be so powerful that way. Especially when it’s hard. 

[feed-the-fire-in-me-deactivated]

Dominant values...

I’m a very petite girl.  Under 5 foot.  I can’t reach anything… least of all the shelves in my cupboard.  I HATE taking the time to get my step stool so I pretend I have the super power of being able to grow a few extra inches at will and try to reach as best as I can.  Sometimes my super powers go on the fritz.

Last night I was up on my tippy toes reaching to put away a serving bowl. My fingers slipped and CRASH! The bowl came plummeting to earth and smashed into a dizzying array of glass shards.  This damn bowl must have been made out of an alien material because I have never seen anything shatter so spectacularly before.  Millions of long, thin shards spread out everywhere! I’m sure some managed to land in the front yard.  It was insane!

I’m barefoot and still standing on my tip toes.  I’m not going anywhere.

Me:  G!  Help!  I’m stuck!

G:  Oh, sweet Jesus!  Don’t move an inch. Do. Not. Move.  I’ll make you a path.

 He breaks out the trusty vacuum cleaner (the broken glass blocked the way to the broom) and starts clearing a path.  After awhile, I see the light of freedom and make my break.  I planned to put on some shoes and finish the cleanup. After all, it was my mess.  I’ll clean it up, right?  Nope.  That’s not how G saw it.  He continued to vacuum the whole pantry and the entire kitchen.  Then he swept it with the broom.  He knows I run around barefoot and he wanted to make sure there wasn’t a speck of glass left to hurt me.

Being dominant isn’t just about rough sex or having a girl to be at your beck and call to please you.  At it’s core, being dominant is protecting and cherishing the one you love. Compare it to a mama bear protecting her cubs.  Last night, G’s display of dominance could never be pictured in these glossy pics shown on Tumblr.  A man with a vacuum cleaner?!?  It isn’t sexy enough.  But, trust me when I say that he exhibited the core values of a dominant and I found it to be incredibly sexy!  This is what dominance is really about. All the rest…is the wonderful icing on the cake! 

And, damnit, that was one of my favorite bowls!

[spankinghusband-deactivated2019]

The myth that dominance means cruelty should be smashed like that bowl. It can go in the dustbin next to the myth that submission means weakness.

[indulge-her-through-denial-blog]

Ladies and Gentlemen:

This is what it’s all about.

[happyheidi]

Moon gates ♡

[arcusxx]

[woman-in-art]

Painting The dress makers apprentice by Tony Hinchliffe, (b. 1984 Ohio) British contemporary painter✅https://t.me/erogalery

[dominant-dominion]

Hey for all the men here:

It's okay to tell another man he's handsome.

It's okay to be told youre handsome by another man.

It's okay to be open and honest with other men.

It's okay to be emotional with other men.

You don't need to be stoic around other men.

You don't need to be defensive around other men.

MEN PLEASE SUPPORT OTHER MEN.