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julia (she/her) / 23 / brazilian / bi

[adorerose]

I just want to be surrounded by so much love in my life. And not just relationships. Love for my job, my home, the stars, the sunsets, the place I live where ever in the world that is. I want to experience love in all forms

[a-quiet-green-agreement]

–David Lee

[softheartedbutch]

it worries me so much that there’s been this (mostly unintentional) culture built up around coming out, to where young lgbt kids are putting themselves in danger at school and at home because they don’t want to “live a lie.” i just want to say, i came out when i was 15 and it created a lot of difficulties in my life that i could have avoided by waiting until i was older. it isolated me socially, it exposed me to homophobia from my parents, my family, my teachers, and my classmates at the most important developmental stages of my own confidence and sense of self… closeted people are not living a lie. closeted people are surviving. don’t let anyone pressure you to come out before you’re ready. don’t put yourself at risk when you don’t have to.

[ardhangini]

bro these days i’m ready to go to bed at like 7 pm

[aidn]

sorry to get romantic on main but i want to go to an art museum and hold hands with someone i care about

[shirotanis]

we need to talk

i really hope this doesnt go unoticed, as it is actually very important if you like kpop and especially if you are wlw. So a lot of you probably have never heard of Maman (Park Miyoung) and theres a pretty shitty reason behind it. During an interview a few years ago, Maman came out as lesbian but her company tried to pull it off as prank, something that didnt work out, resulting in her getting fired, and all evidence of her coming out, as well as evidence of her being under Jerry was deleted. Maman is the first openly gay idol, a lesbian idol. She is still a singer, though severely underrated despite having sung so many OSTs over the years. Her last work as of now is Obvious Story, a very gay mv and song. A lot of people think Holland is the first openly gay idol which is not true (i truly love holland btw), however I dont put blames on anyone since Maman is not known maybe at all. Please spread this if you can, and maybe watch her mv and tell your friends about it!

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

7 Tips for Overcoming Feelings of Inadequacy

1. Remind yourself that you are not who other people think or say you are.

2. Remind yourself that everybody makes mistakes at times, has areas of weakness, and things they want to change.

3. Remind yourself of ways in which you’ve grown and changed with time. You’re not who you once were - so celebrate how far you’ve come.

4. Also, the ending isn’t written and the future isn’t fixed. You’re free to change your image, and an old identity.

5. Identify the lies you have believed about yourself – and work on changing them so they’re more accurate and true. Also, don’t reinforce those lies by acting like you think they’re true.

6. Remember that your feelings are not the same as facts. Don’t live based on your feelings … as that will keep you trapped.

7. Hang out with those who see, and who appreciate, your worth. And take their words to heart, and let them help to build you up.

[saltchip]

tbh my music taste is so hard to describe like it’s literally everything except for the songs i dont like

[peepuddle-deactivated20230124]

i LOVE BEING IN BED !!!!!! i love being all cuddly and warm and curling up into a ball and feeling tiny !!!!! this is what life’s about !!!!!!!!!!!

[whatsnew-lgbtq]

Platonic love is real love and shouldnt be treated like less becuase it isnt romantic. Defining love as only romantic is a terrible concept. You should be able to love people in a platonic way as much as romantic way and not be seen as less

[tchaikovsgay]

IMLO (in my lesbian opinion) arguing that there’s no way to “dress gay” isn’t really that progressive. Literally almost every gay person I know does something outwardly gay with their appearance because it’s 1. empowering and 2. a really good way to meet other gay people! I get wanting to ~fight stereotypes~ but there’s a big difference between stereotypes like “gay men are predators” and “lesbians love flannel”

[frogmp3]

i’m bisexual

[italianhoney]

not to be nsfw but i wish someone was playing with my hair and giving me sweet kisses on the cheek and forehead rn

[gullahch1ld]

My life got better when I accepted that sometimes shit just doesn’t work out. You aren’t always going to get the job, the partner, the class, the internship or whatever else you care about. Sometimes shit hits the fan and you have to be okay with that. Every time your life falls to pieces you can’t hit the floor, you gotta get your shit together, let out a little cry and keep going. Like just bc shit doesn’t work out does not mean life is going terribly, it just means it wasn’t meant to be at this time and that’s A o fucking kay.

[capriking]

ugh she’s straight, alexa play sleepover by hayley kiyoko

[flipyeahkelly-deactivated202209]

terry crews could lift Thor’s hammer rb if u agree

[recoversuggestions]

growth isn’t always constant. relapses happen. it doesn’t erase all your success.