@/hyrdere is a weirdo towards minors under the age of 16 and just in general. this is a post made to spread awareness against blair and call him out for his strange behaviour and in no reason is made to hate and harass blair. before we start i have a few notes to discuss please keep mind of these as they are useful and must be acknowledged.
everyone in the screenshots besides blair are under 16 while blair himself is 17. this is a very important fact please keep in mind.
everyone besides blair is covered for their privacy. do not try to find out who they are, and if you already do know who they are, do not mention it.
do not harass blair. no matter what. as ive said in the first part. a simple block or unfollowing blair would be enough.
warning as this post has mentions of: kinks, cum, fetishism sexual jokes
Him introducing explicit sexual topics around the younger teens as shown in this screenshot, in the first part of his message he suggests he knew what he was about to say was something sexual and potentially inappropriate. he actively brought the topic into the chat instead of it coming up naturally. in the second screenshot he's basically admitting he has a breeding kink right in the gc openly with the other younger teens present. we have all our desires but you should keep it to yourself and not admit it in a group chat that are full of younger teens. (i accidentally blurred to much but the person said "i thought you meant u had a breeding kink")
in these screenshots below blair says explicit things about one of the members and their yumeship, in the first one blair is asking the members a nsfw hypothetical It's phrased as "what is your answer," which invites the member to participate in the sexual hypothetical rather than it just being a passing joke. Even if Blair meant it as humor, a 17 year old shouldn't be prompting someone under 16 to engage with fetish-related questions. this is unhealthy in many ways considering its encouraging the member to participate in the said nsfw hypothetical, the other two screenshots are self explanatory. Regardless of whether it was a joke, blair is publicly associating someone way younger than him with a sexual fetish. That's not an appropriate thing to do with someone younger, especially in a group chat.
other examples of blair repeating the pattern of acting strange and saying nsfw stuff in front of his way younger friends. Whether it's about a fictional character or not, it's still a sexual comment made in a chat where younger teens were present. this can contribute to an environment where explicit sexual conversation is treated as normal with younger teens.
in the other screenshots below it showed blair and another member casually talking about a popped squishy, blair then voluntarily turned it into an explicit sexual joke involving me in it suddenly. that matters because he introduced the sexual content himself, he made me the subject of the sexual remark without my exact confirmation on whether its okay and I'm comfortable with it, i allow sexual jokes to be made towards me from time to time but doing it without my permission & knowing i have a partner and completely off limits & infront of one of the youngest members in the group? that's just weird and creepy. It's not just "haha dirty joke." It's taking an innocent conversation and steering it into explicit sexual territory, anyone with an average iq can understand why that's wrong and harmful. and so on in the other screenshot. It involves another real person (me) in a sexual scenario without my exact permission again. this was also said in front of the younger teens it's even more inappropriate because they're being exposed to explicit sexual conversation that blair initiated.
also recently, another member explained to me that blair exposed a nsfw media to them, giving out a nsfw media to someone way younger than you THEN proceeding to warn them about the media in question having nsfw/suggestive themes is straight hypocrisy.
ending note: do not try to defend Blair's actions by saying "the members didn't care!" or "they were comfortable with it!" two of the members came forward to me saying they were uncomfortable during these conversations. at the end of the day its still extremely weird to behave towards people way younger than you like that and expose them to sexual and explicit conversations & words & scenarios no matter what. dm me if you have any questions but be respectful
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