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being neutral about other peoples kinks is necessary by the way. when consenting adults are doing things between consenting adults, and you prioritize your discomfort over their autonomy and right to exist safely in a space without having their private interests excavated and recontextualized to make them out to be predators, that says way more about your willingness to place yourself in the position of moral authority than it does about them and you deputizing yourself on the basis of nothing but vibes and your personal traumas makes you very dangerous politically.

carbonatedeverclear

every time someone reblogs this and tags it with “yeah! except for-“ i start barking

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[Image descriptions in order: two comments by the OP, which say: when I say any kink between consenting adults I mean any. I don't care if they're problematic, I don't care if they're physically dangerous, I don't care if you find them triggering. people deserve spaces to indulge in kink and spread safety information and advice and build community with eachother. if it's not for you, move on. not everything that causes you discomfort is a personal attack. kill the cop in your head.]

[yes I mean ddig, yes I mean ageplay, yes I mean incest roleplay, yes I mean fiction.]

is it selfish that anytime a trans woman of color that I know of gets FFS I am immediately afraid of her surgeon trying to make her white? like not in a “you’re so beautiful, don’t change anything!” context but in a “i’m sorry that someone convinced you that white women are the blueprint for what women should look like” kind of way?

it’s so wild to think about how there are actually people who think people should be in prison for cheating on their partner. Especially baffling when it’s someone who otherwise considers themselves a feminist but didn’t try to stretch that thought for 5 seconds to realize how easy that would be to use to harass and degrade women

imagine saying this to a trans person. Like sir I’m sure you have never received like 30 messages at once off of grindr from guys drooling over the suggestion of your pussy because they assume you’re a bottom.

getting messy bc i usually don’t touch this shit with a 10 ft pole, but it’s never going to be a suprise to me when a self-proclaimed baedel starts calling other trans women she doesn’t like autogynephiles and crossdressers. a lot of them only run on a reactionary mindset of “feminine good masculine bad” and that never ends up working out for trans women even when it’s trans women who are doing it

The more you try to tell me what I can and cannot do when I’m age regressed based on what is and isn’t appropriate for a person who is physically a child, the bigger the bong rip I’m going to take when I’m mentally 6

do you ever get sad when you think about how many less women would get murdered every year if we as a society, didn’t normalize jealousy and possessiveness as a normal part of romantic love?

like, do you ever wonder how many women would’ve lived longer if it wasn’t so acceptable for straight men in relationships to want to know where she is at all times, control who she sees, control how she dresses, go through her phone, and basically stalk her in her day-to-day life for her “safety”?

queer discourse is making me lose faith in humanity faster and faster every day because what the fuck do you mean I just saw a post where someone is insisting that lesbians need to stop calling themselves butches because it’s a slur? Go fuck yourself.

what media affects reality means: the way we portray things in popular media can say a lot about what we accept about them socially (think the way a white author writes black characters) and the culture created around a form of media can have a societal impact (think scientology and birth of a nation) by motivating group/political action

what fanfiction discoursers online think it means: all media must be a morality play that acts as an instruction manual for how to correctly behave and any media not written with this purpose is evil and will brainwash you into repeating the actions of its characters directly

person A would like to have a conversation about how call of duty connected and emboldened white supremacists to organize together after fantasizing about being soldiers in arms in an online game

person B thinks everyone who enjoys werewolf porn is secretly having sex with dogs

stop trying to act like these people are saying the same thing and are both perfectly reasonable

#prokink #profiction

people who think that I am encouraging rape by calling women mommy while they’re inside of me would probably lose their minds if they found out that there is an entire market for pocket pussies that bleed when you fuck them

carbonatedeverclear

there is no magical version of asthma that causes you to die instantaneously if somebody vapes or smoke weed within 15 feet of you in a public park but is completely unaffected by people cooking on a charcoal grill at the same public park and sometimes it’s not ableist to point out that exaggerating the threat someone else poses to you is fucking annoying

carbonatedeverclear

should anyone be blowing smoke in strangers faces? no. would designated smoking areas solve a lot of these issues? yeah. but unfortunately people seem to think that getting rid of designated areas to discourage smoking entirely is more important than accommodating multiple groups of people so we are all just going to have to deal

there is no magical version of asthma that causes you to die instantaneously if somebody vapes or smoke weed within 15 feet of you in a public park but is completely unaffected by people cooking on a charcoal grill at the same public park and sometimes it’s not ableist to point out that exaggerating the threat someone else poses to you is fucking annoying

carbonatedeverclear

being neutral about other peoples kinks is necessary by the way. when consenting adults are doing things between consenting adults, and you prioritize your discomfort over their autonomy and right to exist safely in a space without having their private interests excavated and recontextualized to make them out to be predators, that says way more about your willingness to place yourself in the position of moral authority than it does about them and you deputizing yourself on the basis of nothing but vibes and your personal traumas makes you very dangerous politically.

moniquill

Additional reminder: Adults writing fiction for other adults is an activity that only involves consenting adults, regardless of what happens in the fiction.

severebananapuppy

(pedantically) ah, the internet. notoriously known for being a place only consenting adults can access

carbonatedeverclear

if an adult is posting something with a intention of it being shared with other adults, and there are warnings that have to be clicked through to let someone know that the information they are about to have access to is meant for adults and not children, I don’t understand how in anyway the adults in the situation are responsible for it if a child is allowed on the Internet with no supervision and accesses information that had warnings on it that it would not be appropriate for a child to engage with.

like, this is literally the exact same logic set that people used to try and ban sex education materials from public libraries.

annoyed because I saw a post on TikTok from some sober living activist trying to say that you cannot effectively organize as leftist unless you’re sober because substances cloud your mind and I am so frustrated with that as a sentiment for multiple reasons but the main ones being

A. why would you want to discourage people from organizing?

And B. people who struggle with addiction are statistically some of the most vulnerable populations to institutional violence and addiction itself is often a form of coping with being a victim of that violence, so demanding that people sober up in order to be able to participate in their own liberation, just ignores that reality

anyway I need white straight edge punk “activists” to shut the fuck up

wow, puritans using their moral panic about “sexualizing children” as an excuse to treat adult women existing in public as a sex act? who could have seen that coming? it’s almost like divorcing the concept of “sexualizing children” from actual children and using it as a way to police how adults exist when children aren’t even around is a control tactic and was never about the kids at all. how shocking.

carbonatedeverclear

being neutral about other peoples kinks is necessary by the way. when consenting adults are doing things between consenting adults, and you prioritize your discomfort over their autonomy and right to exist safely in a space without having their private interests excavated and recontextualized to make them out to be predators, that says way more about your willingness to place yourself in the position of moral authority than it does about them and you deputizing yourself on the basis of nothing but vibes and your personal traumas makes you very dangerous politically.

carbonatedeverclear

how about we put our thinking caps on?

I don’t see any difference between the people who would call me a pedophile for participating in CG/l and the people who would call someone a pedophile for writing explicit fanfiction about a teen character from an anime. in both cases, you have somebody participating in a form of sexual exploration that is not harming or exploiting anyone that is being reconceptualized by somebody outside of that situation in order to connect it to serious harm so that they can justify the invasion of privacy and harassment that they want to inflict on that person for being abnormal.

I just saw a post where somebody said that they don’t like referring to indigenous americans as ‘people of color’ because they shouldn’t have to be othered on their own land and they believe it is a show of respect , and it is just never lost on me how much y’all refusing to speak to indigenous people to form your opinions about us just leads to y’all being more and more racist. like, in what universe would indigenous people like for you to not acknowledge the racial violence and discrimination that we experience as indigenous people as a sign of respect?

The reason that the I is separate in bipoc is because there are indigenous people who are white and being indigenous creates a different structure when we are talking about race and racial discrimination. Not because indigenous people aren’t people of color.

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