We can say that more peaceful and copacetic methods were had. I am fine with retconning, because it’s not as if the means were necessarily as important as the ends. It really doesn’t matter either way to me; the reason it was done this way was precisely because we didn’t want to godmod your character.
Saying “grief and thresh had a talk and everything was ended amicably” would still be godmoding your character. Godmoding them in a positive way, but godmoding all the same. And seeing as you didn’t seem to want to talk to us, and you had all but abandoned your blog, we tried to go about it in a way that would involve your character in the most minimal of manners.
You don’t have to apologize for not playing your character, and the only issues that it has caused is this one we are having right now. Understand that the reason we went about things the way we did was because we *have* been playing our character, and since you seemed completely MIA, we didn’t know how to go about initiating a conversation. Especially when it would have been me personally doing so, and you are clearly uncomfortable with speaking to me.
As much as I appreciate you being upset, it is also a bit inappropriate if your intentions are to make attempts at controlling how the characters reacted to the breakup or events after them. They are going to react how they like, and sometimes the reaction is going to be negative, sometimes it’s going to be fear that yours is being a bad parent, or anger.
I understand that you’re upset, and I understand why you would have a kneejerk reaction to anything that even remotely implies that your character would be a bad parent, considering how closely you identify with your character and how closely that issue hits home with you. However, if that’s the issue, then that goes beyond what I can personally do to assuage.
We are free and able to discuss the events themselves and adjust appropriately, but the reaction may still be negative.
If we can get this handled properly, it may not be an issue of having to throw away the blog and character completely. So of course, I need to ask if there is anything else that you need to hash out that would prevent you from bringing your character back, or anything that should be handled now.
I know that this has affected your muse, and that this character is very important to you. So I want to handle all the issues that we need to handle now, so there aren’t any issues like this in the future. Even if it means completely detailing everything that happened.
On a personal note, whenever I see you posting things to the effect of “I had a bad breakup with Nate and it’s causing him to behave negatively towards me as a person,” especially publicly, I get exhausted. I know that you’re smart enough to know precisely how that is being construed among others, whether you’re doing it intentionally or not. If we are going to promote any kind of amicability between yourself and us, this is going to make it difficult.
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