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hi im still alive and i dont plan on dying any time soon. i have a g/f/m open now to help get us out of florida. please please donate if you can and spread it around. help
Hello, my name is Sophie. I am a (closeted plural) transbian living in a red state in the deep… Sophie Lycanne needs your support for Help U
*dials 911*
helo, pleegs?
Its difficult to accept the terminology for feminine men's identity is wrapped up in transmisogyny and that a lot of what might superficially empower us is mostly based in either differentiating ourselves from transfemininity, which is the Bad Thing, or just appropriating transmisogynist language and wrongly thinking we can reclaim and reframe it. If something is too easy to claim it might mean that it just doesnt carry the same weight when you say it, is what I've learned. On the flip side, a lot of people will just tell you being a feminine man in itself is more perverse and bad and regressive than being any other type of man, and that is just its own form of anti-feminine sentiment. We have to carve a path forward with good intention to form vocabulary for our experience where it is genuinely needed, and to find a framework for the ways we really are degraded rather than borrowing what is pitched as describing us only because we are equated with a more marginalized group. The words and experiences that seem less weighty or meaningful precisely because they've been used to degrade us. There is no answer to the question of how to describe yourself perfectly because the world hasn't even gotten there yet. Let's all take the hard road to self actualization. Together
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there basically isn't a single established action archetype that you can't improve tenfold by making it a girl
the old master. the sneering rival. the implacable pursuer. the pragmatic mercenary. the combat hedonist. the sleeper operative. the guy who's just really big. the list goes on
I've been harassed in MANY different ways on here (from ostensibly left-wing people who are reeeeallly just looking for the thrill of leading their friends on a cyberbully adventure, to nazis, to people who spam rape-threats from multiple accounts), and the solution for all of them is the same: just ignore it.
even if it sucks, even if they're saying things you want to refute, even if you think refuting will help things because Everyone Will Understand if You Just Speak Clearly Enough. even if you want to vent publicly because you think you deserve that much, acknowledging them is almost always the wrong move. you're just pouring gas and making sure that those couple little sparks turn into a fire. and all of them love to see you upset, not just the nazis threatening rape. sucks when it's your own, but hey, hurt people hurt people!
engaging is bad for a few different reasons. the first is that these people feed on attention. reply publicly, and that will give someone enough juice to make a new account every few days for a year plus, sending you paragraphs of insults mixed with strange accusations. whereas if you'd ignored them, maybe that obsessive phase would've only lasted a couple weeks. genuinely, you can create your own stalkers by reacting.
the second is that by engaging publicly, you're platforming them. even if you just post literal puppies and rainbows, there will be people hate-following who are pissed off about how many notes your latest puppies and rainbows photo got (because if you got more notes than them, it's punching up). they will see you engaging with harassment and go, hey, I can do that too! and that's how you get harasser mitosis.
platforming also has another problem. most people are good, but by the sheer quantity of people you'll be exposed to online, some will be malicious. if you are refuting something incorrect ("I never killed that man because I wasn't even in Florida on that day!") they will go right to the original slander ("they killed that man in Florida"), copy/paste, and spread it. or they will forgo the copy/pasting and just let it mutate in their memory so that it's a whole new thing by the time they spread it ("they killed several men and women in Florida, and also California").
currently, I'm in the 'block everyone who could potentially hate-follow and harass me' phase, but there is also some danger to that, because people see blocking as you acknowledging them, which (depending on the person) might be enough gasoline to rev them up. but it does at least provide some barrier, because making new accounts to block evade takes a modicum of energy, and if they're continually starved of further interactions, that energy will eventually fade.
anyway, those are my cool strats! if you start gaining any sort of online numbers, you can do this to keep yourself a little bit sane and healthy. good luck!
never let it be said i dont treat my miis right
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The government when funding libraries, schools or public transportation
They'll call us literally anything other than women
Saw a post by another trans person calling us "people transitioning into women."
i'm really glad 6 isnt afraid of 7 anymore and you could all stand to be more supportive of their relationship
keep thinking about how I wrote in my dissertation about how every time a new form of public/social space emerges it's immediately popular with kids and teenagers who see it as a chance at freedom and then adults colonise it and kick them out. this happened with malls in the 80s and diners in the 50s and pool halls in the 20s. my dad was doing research on this trend in like 1975. and I was like "yeah so this is going to happen to the internet" and then five years later every government suddenly decided to ban kids from everywhere online. I hate being right especially when I don't even get paid for it
it’s your duty to draw that character fatter than in canon
do it yourself
it's in tumblr tos btw you have to draw that character fatter
