It Is What It Is

Random thoughts and post sharing possibly some intelligent soon

[im-taking-accountability-deacti]

There are 4 things I learned when I was 25:

You do not have to be affectionate all the time to care for someone, in fact, caring can also mean a couple of texts or silence for a few days while you both live your lives happily and separately.

People do not care for you less when they’re busy with their own lives. It’s your reaction to them being their own person - and your ability to make yourself happy - that determines how they feel about you.

Not everyone reciprocates to your actions the same way. If you want someone to acknowledge, be interested in, or treat you a certain way for your efforts, all you have to do is let them know. They will try their personal best to accommodate that within their personal spectrum of feelings.

No one owes you 100% of them, not even after 30 years, because someone having a percentage of themselves is what keeps them sane at the end of the day and that’s okay.

[ducksaysm00]

These things are so important to learn.

[vuelosola]

What your headache is tellin you

[vuelosola]

I haven’t seen this post in a min but precisely when I have a headache RN it comes up in my feed

[thedaniverse]

Two quick additions, as someone who suffered from chronic migraines

1. Behind the eyes: eye strain or just long stress. More sleep will definitely make this feel better. 2. Temples: unclench your jaw, as that bone is putting too much pressure on your temples.

[depressed-alone]

This is a fucking life saviour with the amount of headaches I have

[maxburgiv-deactivated20181216]

i thought this image was a shitpost at first

[harmony-is-happiness]

[just-shower-thoughts]

When you’re tired at night, everything’s funny. When you’re tired in the morning, nothing’s funny.

[cassiopeiadawn]

@ascendingdread7

[cassiopeiadawn]

being an adult

pro: can buy yourself whatever you want, no one can stop you

con: can buy yourself whatever you want, no one can stop you

[kristensnotebook]

The only important thing in a book is the meaning that it has for you.

W. Somerset Maugham  (via kristensnotebook)

[pineplapple]

[pineplapple]

IT WAS FUCKING TACOS

[aestheticschaos]

Galaxy Winter aesthetic

[business-witch]

[sexetc]

One of the most important lessons people should learn is what constitutes consent. Reblog if you agree!

[maureen2musings]

Eden

Arnar Kristjansson

[ithelpstodream]

[lil-bitchnugget-blog]

Ha no. I people don’t like me enough to be friends with me

[of-aurora]

Reblog if you're not homophobic

Every url that reblog’s will be written in a book and shown to my homophobic dad. 

[iirememberthinking]

Dear whoever is reading this: I wish you a life full of warmth and happiness and love. I hope you’re okay. And if you aren’t now, you will be.

[cassiopeiadawn]

Animals...

Heading home last night from a conference for work. We are about a half hour from home and we slow down because we see a deer it started to head back into the bush then decided to kamikaze into the truck... 😩😩

[just-shower-thoughts]

Don’t forget to drink water, get sunlight, and that we are basically a house plant with complicated feelings.

[kimreesesdaughter]

The year is 2018. Your bills are on autopay. You just got paid and you still have $1200 from the last check. When you want something, you buy it without moving money around. Your credit cards are paid off. You and your friends have 2 international trips planned and paid for this year. Your parents are in great health and you’re able to help if they need anything. You love your job. Your desired creative career is falling into place and you get to take your little cousins to Six Flags and Universal Studios over the Summer. Your relationships are healthy and supportive. All of the toxic energy from the past 6 years is gone. You going to concerts, eating good across the states and your crib has art and warmth throughout. 2018 is going to be so good to you.

[alexbelvocal]

In Jesus name Amen 🙏🏾

[beeyoutifulblaqueen]

I need & deserve this energy ✨

[daily-showerthoughts]

People will eat the same thing for breakfast every day of their life, but absolutely lose it when they have the same thing for dinner two nights in a row.