My boyfriend is such a peach. So, the last few days he's been saying he wants to spend time together Saturday because he's been working a lot and we haven't been able to, so we've been pretty bummed. Well, I've been super stoked about it, so we're laying in our bed, but he's not really talking to me, he won't look at me, he won't snuggle with me, nothing, just on his phone, so I start to get increasingly more paranoid, "is he mad at me? Did I do something wrong? What's happening? Oh god, is he going to break up with me?" It's really freaking me out so I go to the bathroom, I'm getting super upset and start crying because the thing in my head is telling me that he doesn't love me anymore. I go back into our room, lay in bed, try to rationalize, "he was fine last night, why is he weird this morning? If everything was normal last night then things must be okay, right? He said he'd never break up with me and never stop loving me, he'd never lie to me." All of this followed by "wrong, he doesn't love you anymore." So I roll over, I ask what's going on, he said everything is fine, he holds me and I just say that I'm sorry and I just got really paranoid, I couldn't help it. He said he understands, but I need to try harder to rationalize, we've been together almost 3 years, he's not like other people, he's not going to drop on me one day that he's leaving, he's never going to leave me. I asked him if he's going to be able to handle my paranoid ass for the rest of his life and he just said "that's a stupid question, of course I will."