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Today we’d like to share a little camping trip with you, during which Littlefrog, of course, had to wear diapers the whole time. If you look closely, you might notice that the diaper change seems to have come a bit too late. No idea who’s to blame for that!

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Diaper Chart : How to keep your little obedient and motivated

Daddy tips - 2

Hi everyone,

Since it looks like you enjoyed the quick "Diapeefy" year in review I made for my little crinkle butt, I thought I’d also share with you the template of the diaper chart I have been using in 2024 (and will be using in 2025) to keep track of all of that.

Perhaps this can inspire other Daddies/CG.

The goal is simple : Get 35 points to get a "Magic Stickies Card" for the following week. If 35 points have not been reached, no stickies for at least a week, until the next diaper chart is completed. Points cannot be carried over from one week to another. It automatically resets to 0 on Monday morning.

How to get points :

Gives 2 points :

Messy Diaper

Gives 1 point :

Soggy Diaper

Baby food dinner (baby food breakfast is everyday and therefore does not count as a bonus)

Playing for more than an hour in playpen

Gives 0 point (just helps keeping track of it)

Cage locked

Sticky Diaper

Diaper outside

Negative points :

Forgot bib (if baby eats by himself) = -4 points

If all baba have not been drank (morning, afternoon and evening) = -3 points per non-completed day

Any other naughty act can have an impact on the final number of points. Trying to remove diapers without permission is -10 points but it has only happened twice, so no need for it to show in the chart.

TEMPLATE

EXAMPLE OF A COMPLETED WEEK

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Endlich startet wieder die Saison 🚤

Auf dem Boot ist eine Windel einfach Pflicht.

The season is finally starting again 🚤

A diaper is simply a must on the boat.

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Chastity

Chastity comes up a lot in diaper stories. When I posted asking who wants to be fucked by a diaper girl with a strapon, somebody said they'd wear a chastity while doing it. And while usually I'm not a fan, that got me thinking. See, normally I view chastity as primarily a means of orgasm denial. Which is fun in small amounts, but personally I like the person I'm with - top, bottom, mommy, daddy, kink, vanilla, etc - to cum. So why would I make a sub wear a chastity? Like usually, I'd want them to cum in some humiliating way (say, in a used diaper. Or in my used diaper!). If I'm going to be fucking a sub, I want them to cum from it, right? BUT... Chastity means that there's no expectation that they would cum. Which means, the fucking is for me alone! I can go at whatever pace and intensity I want, and when I'm done, we're done.

Which is kinda neat for a hookup type of scene. So many guys out there are all "I'll change your diaper.... but then you go down on me, right?" or something like that. But a chastity makes the scene truly about me. Even if you realize that's what you want, too late. Your junk is irrelevant to the scene; you're there for me to use. And if you DID cum just from fucking, well that's plenty shameful (and fun for me), too.

Of course, this doesn't make as much sense with AFAB people, but they're less a problem with that kind of behavior anyway. They're just less orgasm focused.

And I'll admit, there's something kinda cute about a cock that's just out there doing nothing, bouncing around, while its owner is getting railed. Like it's just not useful, hehe.

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🌟 DIAPER TRAINING : diapered in public 🌟

when you wear a diaper in public, the fear of judgment (which is legitimate) can be overwhelming... Yet 99.99% of people will not notice anything... people what they see is rather how you interact with them... and generally you have no interaction at all! in the 00.01% there will surely be your family, some of your friends, and especially your girlfriend...

⭐️ here are my tips for overcoming this shame and embracing redemption!

accept yourself ! It's not shameful or weird to wear a diaper... anyway, your needs come before the judgment of others so if you need diapers (whatever the reason) then wear diapers!

dress well ! opt for a discreet and simple outfit that hides the diaper... in your outfit you must feel beautiful and comfortable (this is important)

focus on yourself! because people are often absorbed in their own affairs and if they are mean to you, it's not your problem it's theirs because you haven't done anything wrong, wearing a diaper isn't bad!

BONUS : it's also a question of habit, I advise you to start wearing diapers every time you go out the next time you go out and to never go out without wearing a diaper again... this will allow you to create a new habit, the more you wear a diaper the easier it will be to wear one without discomfort!

in general, it takes ≈ 1 year before you start to be comfortable with a diaper and 5 years to be completely comfortable (I set very long deadlines because to tell you that this is done quickly is to lie to you)

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ABDL : How to make your little crave for their diapers ?

Daddy tips - 1

Disclaimer : +18 only, the following applies between consenting adults.

When I first met my little guy, he liked his diapers but there was something missing. He did not crave for them. I wanted him to love them more than anything else, need them and be dependent on them.

It is no easy thing and it takes time, but here’s how you can do it too. Being a CG/Daddy takes patience, and it is a great example of how time can achieve great things.

Steps :

1. Get your little accustomed to wearing diapers and to enjoy them. Let them feel their diapers and do not push them to use them yet.

2. If you see that your little is excited when wearing, let them explore that feeling. The diaper can be opened if needed. Remember these are the first steps. Let’s give them some time.

3. Now, repeat Step 2 but do not allow them to open their diapers. If your little wants to have fun, then the diaper will remain closed. It will encourage them to hump or rub their diapers. For now it can still be dry.

4. Step four is when the fun begins. Repeat Step 3 but add a rule that they cannot hump or rub their diaper if the diaper is dry. It has to be wet, messy, or both. You are the one in charge and you get to decide.

This step is the one with no return. Your little is now used to wearing dirty diapers and it still makes them excited. Reaching step 4 can take a few weeks/months, which means that wearing diapers is now associated with having fun and feeling excited.

5. Only allow humping. This is a very embarrassing way to have their naughty fun and their face once they are done and realize what they have done is absolutely adorable. Especially the first few times. It will soon become natural.

Pairing this step with their favorite plushie is a plus. That way your little now associates their plushie with naughty fun as well, which is the closest they will ever get to a partner from now on.

6. Add a chastity cage. After maybe 3 months is a right time. This way you keep control of the situation. By this time your little will be frustrated not to be able to get their naughty fun as usual. Craving begins !

7. Now, every time they go to bed in their nighttime diaper, and cuddling their plushie, your little is safely locked and aroused.

It makes them both in pure bliss and frustrated which you can be sure will create sticky puddle in their padding.

And of course, keep in mind that a pent-up little is an obedient little.

The rest is yours to decide. How long do you leave the chastity on ?

Remember that relief is needed. We are here to help our littles be good, not to hurt them. However, relief can be done differently. With the cage ? Without ? During a change ? It’s now all up to you.

And enjoy !

- Daddy

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babydou15

Diaper Chart : How to keep your little obedient and motivated

Daddy tips - 2

Hi everyone,

Perhaps this can inspire other Daddies/CG.

How to get points :

Gives 2 points :

Messy Diaper

Gives 1 point :

Soggy Diaper

Baby food dinner (baby food breakfast is everyday and therefore does not count as a bonus)

Playing for more than an hour in playpen

Gives 0 point (just helps keeping track of it)

Cage locked

Sticky Diaper

Diaper outside

Negative points :

Forgot bib (if baby eats by himself) = -4 points

If all baba have not been drank (morning, afternoon and evening) = -3 points per non-completed day

TEMPLATE

EXAMPLE OF A COMPLETED WEEK

babydou15

Diaper Chart : How to keep your little obedient and motivated

Daddy tips - 2

Hi everyone,

Perhaps this can inspire other Daddies/CG.

How to get points :

Gives 2 points :

Messy Diaper

Gives 1 point :

Soggy Diaper

Baby food dinner (baby food breakfast is everyday and therefore does not count as a bonus)

Playing for more than an hour in playpen

Gives 0 point (just helps keeping track of it)

Cage locked

Sticky Diaper

Diaper outside

Negative points :

Forgot bib (if baby eats by himself) = -4 points

If all baba have not been drank (morning, afternoon and evening) = -3 points per non-completed day

TEMPLATE

EXAMPLE OF A COMPLETED WEEK

diaperedbaby212

Diaper hypnosis video that a friend of mine made.

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Thank you @tbboy420 and everyone who got me to 50 reblogs!

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Why you should take control of all your partners diaper checks and changes

Alongside making my baby wear diapers 24/7 the other big step we took which proved to be highly beneficial was me taking control of all his diaper checks and changes.

Before making this switch I’d change him maybe once a day but he’d often change himself out of convenience or embarrassment. I wasn’t checking him so he’d almost always be asking for a change. The big problem with this is he felt scared to ask for a change if I was busy or if he was 💩 which resulted in me changing less diapers over time and contributed to a feeling of isolation on his side that I wasn’t involved.

We tried to increase the amount I changed him by me assuring him it was ok to ask me any time but always after a few days we quickly fell back into the same routine.

Then I decided to try taking full control which I knew would be a lot of work for me but I hoped would help solve the feeling of shame he was suffering with at the time.

It was a huge success and actually wasn’t as much work as I had thought it would be.

The rules were simple:

He wasn’t allowed to ask for a change or change himself if I was around. Including at home, in public or on vacation.

I’d check his diaper regularly and decide when to change it

I’d change all his diapers where possible

If I wasn’t around, he’d have to ask for permission to change himself with a safety net of if I didn’t respond in 30 mins he could proceed.

From my side getting into the routine of diaper checks was hard initially but what worked in the end was setting a 2-hourly alarm/reminder on my phone prompting me to check him.

Checks are super easy and only take a minute so it doesn’t add up to much time each day. I also think checks are as important as changes in making your partner feel loved and accepted.

There are lots of ways to do it, but at home I like to get him to stand up and drop his pants exposing his diaper, where I can visually check it but also do a quick squeeze to make him blush. Comment on the state of it to add a little embarrassment but weave in encouragement to use it as well. For example “Good boy for using your diaper, it’s held your accidents well but I think it can hold for another hour or so yet”

Dry and wet changes are very easy and quick. I’d highly recommend having a changing area always setup (changing table is ideal but not required) with a mat, range of fresh diapers, power, adult sized wipes and disposable gloves. Messy changes are more work but with some disposable gloves and adult sized wipes it’s still easy to take care of these in less than 5 minutes.

Like the benefits of making him wear 24/7, being responsible for his checks and changes is actually easier for me as I’m not always worried about what I should be doing for him and when. There is a lot of benefits to just knowing he always wears diapers now and I’m responsible for keeping him clean.

In the first few weeks expect some leaks as you get used to the capacity of the different diapers and it’s ok to ask after checking them if they think it will last another hour to two etc. Once you’re up to speed though, they should have no say. Also try avoid changing them too often, they should be in diapers until they’re full and as diapers are expensive you don’t want to waste them.

From my partners perspective this change in routine really helped him feel accepted, loved and much happier overall. Checks and changes are now an enjoyable part of my day where we get some intimate and caring time together throughout the day.

Try be as strict as you can be with taking over all checks and changes but there can be exceptions, for example in certain public scenarios there might not be an option for you to change them so give them permission to go change themselves.

I’d love to hear how do other partners find doing diaper checks and changes? And who else has taken the step to fully take control of it 🚼

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Helping your partner go 24/7

We’ve talked quite extensively about the benefits in having your partner wear diapers 24/7 (or as close as possible) for their mental health and your relationship.

But getting to 24/7 or having diapers as their default underwear isn’t super easy especially in the first few weeks. Many people reading this will have tried 24/7 and managed a week or two before it fell apart or watched their partner say they want to try 24/7, start and then silently let it slip away a week or so in.

This is where you as a partner to a diaper wearer can make a critical difference and ensure it’s a success in the long term.

But first some hard truths about 24/7:

- It would sometimes be a lot easier for them to not wear a diaper

- It add extra planning and inconveniences to trips out of the house

- Sometimes things can get smelly or embarrassing

- Throwing on underwear would be quicker when they’re in a rush

- They will sometimes not want to wear a diaper or feel shame/regrets about the whole 24/7 idea

So how can you help?

Internalize the idea that they NEED to wear diapers and this is a PERMANENT thing.

If you’re hoping this is just a phase and don’t really want them to succeed in going 24/7 it most likely won’t but your relationship will likely suffer as a consequence.

Also try reset your expectation of them to being that they wear diapers all the time and they need them to avoid accidents.

Provide consistent encouragement, especially in the first month

It’s extremely likely they will be feeling worried & anxious about how you are finding them being 24/7 and will be plagued by all the fears they’d had growing up about having these desires.

Being silently ok with it isn’t enough and they’ll probably just assume you’re hating it & them. So make sure to provide encouragement to them for wearing and using their diapers.

There are several areas of encouragement to provide:

1. Acknowledge their diapers as being normal. Tell them you’ve laid out a fresh diaper for them in the morning, ask if they’ve packed a diaper bag before leaving the house, ask if they need to order more diapers or if you should pick up more baby powder when shopping. 

2. Provide praise for wearing diapers. Tell them that diaper looks cute on them and that you’re glad they’re now wearing all the time. Check they’re wearing a diaper when they get into bed or when you leave the house and say something like good boy/girl for wearing it. If you see a public restroom or have to go yourself mention that they’re lucky they’re wearing their toilet (this makes my baby blush) 

3. Provide praise for them using their diapers. Talk about the state of their diaper in a positive way for example saying “I’m glad to see this diaper held all of your pee ok” or “remember you should just let go straight away now you’re in diapers”.  Messy diapers will likely cause them the most anxiety so be extra aware in those situations and don’t just ignore it. If you detect a messy diaper acknowledge it with something like “Is that a messy diaper I can smell” or “I think someone might need a change” it can be slightly embarrassing but just saying something shows that you’re not surprised or annoyed they’ve messed.  If you haven’t noticed a messy diaper in a day or two, ask them if they’ve need some help to use their diaper and tell them explicitly that you expect them to use it for everything. Administering a suppository to help force the issue can also be a great way to show you’re serious. 

4. Assure them it is discreet. A fear when wearing diapers 24/7 is other people noticing as often they’ll be wearing in public more than before. Provide simple assurances that their diapers are discreet and that even you struggle to tell.  Even an obvious diaper bulge to you would go unnoticed by the vast majority of people so a small white lie to give them confidence will help a lot even if you can just see the outline of it. Interestingly the more confident they are the less likely others will notice as they wont be touching their bum etc out of fear it might be noticeable. 

5. Make it clear this is permanent  Them wearing diapers 24/7 is now the new normal and you should make sure they know you’ve accepted and expect that. Talk about diapered plans far into the future, for example if you have a vacation coming up in a few months mention that you’ll need to make sure to order enough to last or discuss if shipping diapers to the hotel is the best option.  Start discussions with confirmation of this reality, e.g. “Now that you’re going to be in diapers for the rest of your life… …maybe we should convert the guest room into a changing area” …lets look into laser hair removal for your groin” …we should order diapers in bulk” …I’m going to throw away your old underwear”  Tell them things like “It’s funny to think you’ll never use the toilet in the house again” or “I’ve got used to the fact you’re now always going to be in a diaper”, or “I wonder how long it will be before you lose control at night and in the daytime”  You’ll like notice a positive improvement so assure them you’re happy they’re now 24/7: “Things have been better now your always in diapers so I’m glad this is permanent” “I can’t imagine you without diapers now “ “I’m keeping you in diapers from now on, I hope you know that”

Be prepared to “force” them to wear

I can almost guarantee that one day you’ll see them putting on underwear instead of a diaper or realize they’re not diapered when they should be.

Do not be silent. Tell them in no uncertain terms that they need to be wearing a diaper and to get changed immediately, ideally take them and diaper them yourself.

Equally something might come up where they ask if they can not wear a diaper. Maybe you’re going out for the day or some other activity where diaper wearing will be more inconvenient. Push back heavily on this unless it was a pre-agreed exception and tell them no, they must be wearing a diaper.

The other high risk time is post orgasm especially in male partners. The low following this is prime for feelings of shame and regret, so even if they don’t say anything make sure to put them straight back into a diaper and provide positive encouragement about their diaper wearing.

Be prepared for challenges

While you’re both getting used to the new reality of 24/7 it’s very likely some things might go wrong.

Their diaper will probably leak at some point onto clothes or furniture, try laugh these off and learn from them.

Their messy diaper might cause you to react instinctively in a way they perceive as disgust and cause them to feel ashamed. Counter this quickly by apologising and assuring them you do want them to use their diaper for everything.

They might forget to bring a spare diaper with them on a day trip and need to change. Ideally you should approach a problem like this with the mindset that they need diapers so just changing out of it isn’t an option. Go into a drugstore with them and buy some more diapers to wear as a temporary measure, the embarrassment of this will likely help you both make sure a diaper bag is always with you.

Normalize diaper wearing in your house

Now they’re diapered 24/7 and the expectation is they need diapers and use them, it shouldn’t feel hidden or secret.

A dedicated changing area should be setup with lots of diapers and changing supplies on display. Invest in a diaper pail / genie to make disposal easier. Hang up their ABDL clothes in this room. Empty their underwear draw and replace with diapers.

A spare bedroom can often be converted for this purpose. Design it in a way so the room can be locked or items easily hidden if you have guests.

Buy a diaper bag and have it packed and ready to use for any trips out. This can be a real diaper bag but for more discretion a small backpack can be used, ideally buy one that’s more juvenile than a plain black one.

Add a mattress protector to your bed to protect against inevitable leaks.

Convert their wardrobe to suit their diapered status

Early on after making the switch hold a fashion show where they try on their clothes while wearing a thick or wet diaper. Anything that doesn’t hide their diaper well put to one side to go to goodwill.

Next go shopping while they’re thickly diapered to find new clothes which work well. General rules are darker & loose fitting bottoms hide diapers well and dresses and skirts are great for women. Overalls can be super cute and combined with onesies for discrete abdl wear. Longer tops can help hide the extra padding around their bum.

It also might be worth expanding your ABDL clothing for use at home so they have a full wardrobe of options to wear daily.

Get involved

The best way to show your support is to get as involved as possible in their diaper wearing.

Ideally try take control of their checks and changes when you’re around. If you’re uncomfortable with messy changes that’s ok (but honestly they can be the most intimate and positive events if you’re willing to try).

Pick out diapers for them to wear if say you’re not around to change them into a fresh diaper in the morning. Browse and buy new diapers for them. When shopping add diaper/baby supplies without comment such as powder, rash cream or more ABDL items like a kids no spill cup or a cute teddy.

(Side note of one of the things I did which made my partner incredibly happy was coming home from a normal grocery shop with a toddler plate and cutlery set and telling him I thought they would be cute for him. Later he told me this made him feel so accepted and loved 🥰)

Pack a diaper bag for day trips or help him pack enough diapers and supplies for a vacation. Try make this as matter of fact as possible, “Do you think these diapers will be the best for daytime”, “Have you packed your swim diaper”, etc.

Be involved in dressing them with a view to not hiding their diapered state at home. At night especially they should always be in ABDL attire which makes it obvious they’re diapered and in the daytime where possible too.

I do believe that most 24/7 diaper wearing should be combined with ABDL activities as well. At a minimum use ABDL diapers and clothing with pacifiers and bottles used where possible. But definitely experiment with things like crawling, bibs at meals, holding a bottle for them and feeding them. Baby talk can also be a lot of fun to tease them with.

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