[nanamisbakery]

Your f/o getting lost in your eyes and grinning like an idiot because they love you so much

[jessica-fitzgerald]

✨For Yumeshippers on the autism spectrum✨

You may feel like your struggles and symptoms may be too much for someone you are with to handle. But trust me, you are never too much maintenance for your f/o to handle.

Although our irregular emotional expressions may be too much for others to handle, it is not for your f/o. Your f/o will be able to handle everything, yes, even your meltdowns. They come from a place of understanding rather than ignorance. Your f/o will help you whenever you are upset or overstimulated.

Your f/o understands that socializing takes A LOT out of us and that we need time to recharge. Your f/o respects your boundaries and will give you the space you need. They don’t ever think your being distant, ever. They understand that these interactions take a lot out of you.

You can comfortably unmask around your f/o. They’ll never think you are being cold or distant in your true unmasked state. They completely understand you even if it’s too hard to vocalize.

You f/o is completely patient with you. They never think you are being unreasonable or overreacting when it comes to change. They understand that it will take time for you to adjust to certain things and will do your best to make changes as comfortable as possible.

Your f/o will NEVER compare you to other people. They understand that everyone advances at their own pace and your f/o is always proud of you, even if you are more behind than your peers.

Your stims are never weird or distracting to your f/o, in fact they might think it’s cute!

[evilyumes]

imagine chasing their ass like this

tumblr blocked this gif because it might contain abusive content

[vergils-beloved]

inspired by someone saying selfshipping is unethical

[nonshareraffirmations]

your f/o(s) would never see your nonsharing status as “sensitive”, “cringe”, an “overreaction”, or anything similar. they know that everyone who thinks that way about the sacred connection you have with each other is just too dense to understand the depth of your love. someone talks with them: “so, they’ll get upset at… people saying that they like you? isn’t that a little childish?” “no. they just love me that much!” they respond.

(this post is not an authorization to harass doubles. it was made for your personal comfort, not for you to use to target others. best practice is blocking, distracting yourself, and moving on.)

[deathdetermineslife]

anyone else with their f/os have no cool funky fresh queer headcanons, you just assign them gay cis man. gay because I'm man. cis because I'm not of weenort. I must live vicariously through you.

[nonshareraffirmations]

if you can’t or don’t want to directly interact with every single part of your f/o’s media, that does not mean that you know them any less well or that your connection with one another isn’t as valid.

if you just watch playthrough/reaction/summary videos, that’s a 100% valid and real way to consume your f/o’s media.

if you only like some parts of your f/o’s franchise (you just watch the movies and don’t read the books, you play the games but don’t enjoy the show, etc.), that doesn’t mean that you don’t care about their story or aren’t educated on their media.

if you can’t afford to buy your f/o’s media, that will not keep your f/o from appreciating your interest in them, and nobody is allowed to look down on you for it.

if your f/o’s media contains topics that are triggering to you, your mental health is in no way something you need to sacrifice to love and be loved by your f/o.

if the creators of your f/o’s media are problematic or you don’t support them for any reason, that does not mean you aren’t still your f/o’s #1 fan or lover (your f/o wouldn’t support their creators’ bad actions either).

if you feel that your f/o’s media mischaracterizes them, you are the correct and canon one — you know your f/o better than anyone (because you actually know them), including those who made them.

if you don’t like your f/o’s media because of their “canon” partner, that does not make you petty or immature — in fact, your f/o wouldn’t like being depicted with someone other than you either.

if you can’t be in the fandom tag because there are just too many doubles/ships with your f/o, that doesn’t mean you’re not a fan, and your f/o is more than grateful that you so greatly value the exclusive love you share.

if you’re just not interested in your f/o’s media and don’t want to consume it out of a “reasonless” personal preference, that is not an indicator that you don’t care about them, and it doesn’t make them feel as if you care about them any less.

(this post is not an authorization to harass doubles. it was made for your personal comfort, not for you to use to target others. best practice is blocking, distracting yourself, and moving on.)

[catl0ving]

happy pride month!! remember: your f/o loves and supports you no matter what your identity is! ^^

[deathdetermineslife]

happy pride month to those who celebrate <3 your f/o loves you and is celebrating right along side you! if you have any queer headcanons for your f/o, feel free to share them in the reblogs!

[mrs-goemio]

To all the plus sized selfshippers out there, please know you never have to lose weight for your f/o to find you attractive. They adore every inch of you, including the soft, beautiful parts you may feel insecure about. Your body is perfect to them, and they wouldn’t want you any other way. Anyone who says otherwise? Your f/o’s already rolling up their sleeves, ready to defend your honor. 💖💪

[murderofsomeone]

NO MORE!!!!!

ROMANCE IS CANCELLED!!!!!!

[murderofsomeone]

selfshippers are allowed because they suffer more than jesus and I respect them

[fo-plushie]

selfship craft ideas

themed jewelry (kandi, locket, etc.)

write them a love letter, or have them write one to you

customize your wardrobe (paint shirts, color coordinate with your f/o, etc.)

create your own merch (plushies, pins, wall art, patches, etc.)

scrapbook or journal spread dedicated to your f/o

make a mixtape for your selfship (I burn mine onto CDs)

research and create a custom scent blend for your f/o, then find a candle or perfume that matches it (you don't have to purchase it)

recreate your f/o's signature clothing or jewelry item

decorate a picture frame to put a photo of your f/o in (or print any art of your ship and put it in there)

air dry clay crafts (magnet of your f/o's symbols or a figurine)

felt crafts (wall banners, keychain, etc.)

perler bead crafts

pocket shrine (fabric or altoids tin)

Feel free to add any more ideas, I'm always looking for more!

[vergils-beloved]

[uss-moonveil]

POV: You just saw a clip of your f/o online randomly (it was literally .5 seconds long)

[uss-moonveil]

[obscureother]

your f/o wouldnt be "out of character" for knowing all the little things about you or how you respond to things. they wouldnt be "out of character" for just picking up or just knowing things. you know where that comes from? familiarity. they may not have learned it from the get-go. maybe it took time for them, or maybe they are that perceptive or understanding on their own, but if they weren't, they would still learn it over time. your f/o can spend enough time with you to learn every little thing about you, and the f/o that cares about you so much wouldn't mind if you just suddenly needed something from them without explanation, or asking for it every time in certain scenarios.

do loud noises freak you out? do you need to hide when there's lots of people? f/o would know if you just buried into them or held their hands for them to cover your ears or your eyes, or hold your head. f/o would know over time of where that probably comes from.

f/o wouldnt be out of character. they just had to learn first before they learned you or your languages so well that they would do it on their own even if they wouldnt for anyone else. youre not just anyone, you know! you're the one f/o cares about.

[lostcryptids]

sorry man i ate your cookie run boyfriend