Dani again, I said last post was going to be the final post but I decided one last time because I made a discord server for me to post pictures and updates of cabbage!
Discord is easier for me to use and I think lachlan would be happy I’m making sure everyone can get their daily dose of the lard man <3
Check out the Cabbage community on Discord - hang out with 14 other members and enjoy free voice and text chat.
Hello, this is dani. For anyone coming at Clay for being “tasteless” please consider now is not the time to play moral superiority. Everyone reacts to things like this differently. We knew Lachlan incredibly well, I’ve talked to him every single day for 5 years. I know for a fact that coming making passes at his friends for grieving in ways would have upset him.
He was also trying to follow what lachlan wanted by not being overly sad, lachlan was strong and didn’t want anyone to worry. Until the very end he didn’t say much. Lachlan cared so deeply he didn’t want anyone to be upset.
We won’t be logging in anymore because for obvious reasons. If you cannot empathize or understand what grief looks like dni. I get you’re grieving too and may want to be told certain ways but like, seriously. Consider that’s not something easy to fucking talk about.
Losing your best friend is tough, it’s not something that’s easy to talk about. We’re still in a state of shock and disbelief, I’m expecting them to call from the hospital and say he failed to, it’s hard to even say. I keep hoping despite looking at his obituary.
Thank you to the lovely part of the community, you all have genuinely been such a help. I cannot thank the large part of you all that have shown so much kindness and support. From now on so we don’t have to interact with the cavemen of this app, please don’t be afraid to leave a comment with happy memories you had of him. I’ll reach out from my account if anyone needs to talk.
Lachlan was genuinely so empathetic and kind. He cared so much, even to those who were hurting him. He bared through it and continued to help. When someone would say something mean he was able to understand where you were coming from. Please keep those comments to yourself, now is not the time.
Thank u to everyone that has sent kind words and regards to Lachlan and to us, it's truly amazing to see how many people he impacted. I am not the only person with access with this account, it warms our hearts knowing how many people loved him and how important he was. I'll continue reading comments, dms, and whatever comes our way. Also if u were close with Lachlan and haven't reached out to me yet, please do.
To go off of this, I can not answer any questions regarding his death because I want to keep his life private for him. There is also an ongoing police investigation so I also have to keep things under wraps due to that.
Remember that if u struggle with suicidal thoughts or tendencies, reach out for help, rely on others no matter the circumstances, someone's always willing to help. People care about u, even when u don't expect it.
Take care of urselfs out there, take a breather, take a shower, eat, or take a break from social media. Practice self care.
On November 6th, 2025 Lachlan took his own life. I won't give out many details but he always spoke of his Tumblr account and moots with love and humor, like he did for most things in life. Thank u to everyone who made his time here great.
I am going to be reading DMs and whatnot for the next couple days so send whatever, not hate cuz duhhhhh. everyone stay safe out there, drink some water, take a nap, draw ur pookies, self care!!!!!!!!!
erm, ur self ship husbands and wives love u and support u thru this hard time, or what Lachlan always says
if I were to spontaneously combust into one million pieces one day and I can't say goodbye to y'all just know . I love my husbands . think of me when u see Korekiyo forever
I have had a stressful and overwhelming several days but my never ending love for my men this gay tuesday keeps me going . despite all of the stress I have them . never a moment where I'm not comforted by them .
hello everynyan sorry I've been so absent lately I've had family stuff happening so I've had no energy :[ but I'll be back to posting soon . also OCD has actually been tearing me to shreds . so . :']
HELLO selfship tumblr! Have you wanted to join a selfship server, but all of them are tight knit communities already? Fear not, my friend! For I have just the solution for you! 🌻
Join The Sunflower Field! A brand new sunflower themed, first come first serve (to ensure no doubles!), system friendly, and pretty cozy server if I do say so myself! Keep in mind that this server is 16+! Please do not join if you’re younger! 🌻
A very big help to my amazing friends @mbh004 @heartsiintune @deathdetermineslife !!! Genuinely could not have made this without you guys!
selfshippers have the ability to take a song that has NOTHING to do with romance at ALL and make it about them and their fictional lover . in this video I will–
I am Not gonna do f/ovember again this year But you all are formally invited to ask me whatever you want about my men , my selfship , whateva . exposure therapy-ing myself into talking about my men
forgot to add my creds . whoops . tag me or link the template to use !!!! pro.ship dni pls make ur own !
just wanted to make a quick lil thin bc i havent in a while . heres an example !!
