oh wow, lovely

Ania (she/they) | Thirty-Something. Queer. Married. ⚢ Autistic. OCD. PTSD. Homemaker. Caretaker. Reveling in Queer Domestic Bliss. I do not have to choose between being gentle and being fierce.

[cedarsoot]

📌: I am grim and fatalistic. Getting you into bed is merely an enjoyable side benefit.

Ania (she/her): Queer. Married. ⚢. Autistic. Homemaker. Caretaker. Absolutely not a Tradwife. Former Teacher. Professional Card Reader. Cat Mum. Needlecrafter. Fantasy Lover. Pursuer of Many Hobbies. Cake Decorator. Gamer (Medieval + Fantasy). Roleplayer (D&D). Casual Vintage Enthusiast. I like and follow from @slewfootwitch.

Anon messages are on. Please note, however, that I will not engage with messages that are upsetting to myself or may be upsetting to others; I do not “do drama”, even if it comes to my own inbox to find me; and I don’t respond to those acting in obvious bad faith.  I do not tolerate racism, sexism, antisemitism, homophobia, transphobia, any other form of bigotry, bullying, harassment, or targeted cruelty toward others. That said, I make liberal use of the block button as a tool to curate my online experience. If you find yourself blocked, it doesn’t necessarily mean I believe you’re guilty of any of the above. Tradwives/tradfems DNI.

[misandriste]

BLACK SWAN 2010, dir. Darren Aronofsky

[cedarsoot]

Caregivers' fatigue is so complicated and so difficult. Especially when I'm also disabled myself and everyone has issues at the same time. It's difficult being the support person without having your own support person.

[divaxoxo]

[cedarsoot]

I keep traveling in my mind back to the point where someone said "Hey, there's a new blog in the community tag that has the same distinctive typing style as a person who has been shit talking your wife and friend and that person was talking about missing witchblr right before this blog appeared so you might want to keep yourselves safe." and I said (like an idiot) "Well, whoever it is has us blocked already so they can't bother us. Let's just leave it be and only address it if someone tells us something toxic is happening. Let's let bygones be bygones. There's enough community for everyone." And...I seriously want to go slap my past self.

I never gave the url (either the person who showed up in the tag or the person that someone suspected they were). I never told the other mod to look out for them specifically. I said I hoped nothing came of it. And I did not share any information except to say "If you see any weirdness of toxicity appear that we don't seem to be aware of let us know."

I am a dumb, dumb, dumb, stupid, dumb bitch.

[slewfootwitch]

Would anyone be interested in joining a very informal (basically a group chat) Discord server for non-traditional homemakers if I make one (queer homemakers, men who are the primary homemakers, people caretaking their elderly parents/grandparents, people raising their own siblings, polyamorous homemakers, etc.)? I have just realized that, although this person has me blocked, those tags and interests are probably where any overlap of our followings/circles comes from and I don't really want to continue posting in tags they might be using when my wife is dealing with all this. But I do really want to have a homemaking community that's non-traditional in a way that's not just virtue signaling. 🥺

[cedarsoot]

Spent most of the day running errands with my wife, so I am very late getting started on the housework for today. I accidentally brain fogged yesterday and did my deep clean for today in advance. So I'm going to try an overall tidy through the entire flat.

My TSH levels (tested at home) are so low they're undetectable, which explains a lot. So I'll be going to get some real labs done sometime this month and going back on medication/anti-inflammatory diet. But at least that makes some of my crazy body stuff recently make sense.

[ijaazat]

summer

1. make a syllabus for yourself - books, media, places, recipes

2. complete 40% of it

3. eat every fruit u can

[blue]

i am a bunny | illustrator: richard scarry

[cedarsoot]

This shit just keeps getting weirder and weirder. Who is this person's "friend" in the DMs (now policing the tone in which one of us deals with this situation). Literally what the fuck is going on and what is the deal with this person and the people around them?

[unhinged-elegance]

[eggtrolls]

Good morning women trying to not become their fathers let’s get this bread

[cedarsoot]

I love waxing for managing my PCOS facial hair. But I hate the awkward prickly time between day 10 and day 14.

[cedarsoot]

Being an adult who doesn't drink or smoke makes making friends and organizing hangouts so hard.

[cedarsoot]

I will always be proud of the fact that, in order to have "beef" with me and my friends, people have to literally lie or maliciously misconstrue situations. Because we don't actually do shit. Fortunately for the last couple of people though, I've never had a conversation with them that I could screen record and share to has "Yeah, here's our interaction history" the way I did with the first set of liars.

[cedarsoot]

I think I got so annoyed last night I triggered my goddamned period.

[1ovemoney]