Idk if this is an unpopular opinion or most people agree but I think itāsĀ 100% considered fetish mining when people try and get their partner of any size to gain weight or eat a lot for kink reasons without telling them or telling them theyāre into feedism
Making someone do something you consider sexual without telling them and getting their permission is super messed up, especially in this case where itās actually changing someoneās body
and just in general with any kink, consent to do anything is the most important thing and harassing someone and asking several times after they said no to something and saying things likeĀ āyou wonāt know until you try itā orĀ āthatās what I thought until I tried itā is not consent



















