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[chr0nically-b0red]

Yo gays, theys and everyone queer!!! since its pride month and im bored asf ima start a tag trend: ur queer journey (apologies to cishets on this app if u exist)

Before age 11: [deadname], never heard of lgbtq, not thinking abt pronouns or labels but ig cishet, she/her ig??

Age 11: [deadname]/[nickname], heard of gay and lesbian, still not rly thinking abt labels, cishet still ig, she/they

Age 12: [deadname]/[nickname], learns more abt lgbtq, asexual, idkromantic, cis girl ig, she/they

Nearly 13: [nickname], starts questioning nonbinary/agender, questioning sexuality, they/them

Age 13: [old preferred name], questioning nonbinary, aroace cupioromantic, they/them

Later age 13: [old preferred name], settles on agender, aroace cupioromantic, they/xe (later goes back to they/them for afew mths)

Current (14): Rowan, agender, aroace, omni-alterous, aegosexual, they/he/any neos

Tags below:

@lelethetopicchanger @ilikeweirdandcoolthings @walking-mushroom @burnttoast7272 @ella3clipse @schoolishomofobic @finnthegayman @greendayyy1039 @iiiidiotnathanieliii @itzactuallyace @kaihasmoreswagthanyou3 @jamiethewriter2026 @lightsabersandbluecookies @queen-of-the-sewers @veethevoyd @waitingonabook @buzzycrow @xxal13n0p055umxx @shinycr0w + opennnnnn

[queen-of-the-sewers]

age 1-9; blissfully unaware Christian baby

age 10; puberty hit, early bloomer, suddenly very aware my body is not changing in a way I want; aware of queer people but told it’s evil

age 11-14; very much aware of how I am queer and how much I don’t like my gender, but too afraid to admit it to myself—experiment with labels

age 15; via YouTube, finally learn what trans person is in a not so biased way; big awakening

age 16; experiment with labels, do what I can to learn what I feel; settle on transfemme

age 17 (now); just kinda vibing, come out in my circle of friends, narrowing sexuality down, in general, things r better :)))

TAGS

@i-will-turn-your-children-gay @yourneighborhoodgaylady @namelessanduncreative @certainly-something + every1 else who wants to

[certainly-something]

ok i got this

age 6: learned that 2 guys could get married but learned it was bad bc church and stuff (cishet he/him deadname)

age 10/11: wait hang on that boy is very cool and funny and he looks nice. gay? (cis he/him gay deadname)

age 12: eh gay seems fair enough. parents found out. incredibly supportive despite religion :D (same as above)

age 13: wait but i dont feel like boy is a great fit for me? must mean im trans (she/her straight nickname (was my gamertag at the time lol))

later in age 13: no wait thats not right lemme do research. agender huh? that seems accurate (no pronouns, liked boys, nickname)

age 14: wait but girls are pretty cute… bi/pan/something like that? (bi, no pronouns, nickname)

age 14: wait no theyre all cute but i dont really like any of them more than just friendship. aroace (triple a battery (agender aro ace), nickname)

also got sa’d that year so caedsexual

age 15: theres a LOT, this year was a year of discovery so here goes

agender aroace nickname

he/him aroace deadname

nonbinary aroace nickname

fem leaning nonbinary aroace

finally looking into new names, got rain from tumblr, spelled it different now im Rayne

demigirl aroace Rayne

transfem aroace rayne

transfem lesbian ace rayne

thats it so far

ummmm @ratcalledmicah @adh-broadway @littlechaoscryptid @the-og-starving-artist @bluebiblemana @deedeethedevil

and whoever else sees this

happy pride

[imjunebitch]

if u would take any issue with any sort of gender affirming care ur trans partner would want u shouldn't be dating a trans person btw!!!! if u would have any issue with ur transmasc partner getting a phalloplasty, stay tf away from trans ppl! if u would have any issue with ur transfem partner getting ffs, stay tf away from trans ppl! bodily autonomy is completely non-negotiable!

[enbaluka-tokyo-drift]

[enbaluka-tokyo-drift]

[walmart-the-official]

if you don’t like SOUP stop going to the SOUP STORE and complaining about their SOUP

[enki2]

[ahmnorhein-zkn]

Repost, now do your honors.

[terraswallows]

Shoutout to the weird girls who became weird boys, and the weird boys who became weird girls, and the ones who became both, neither, or something entirely their own.

The ones who never quite fit, never stayed in the shape they were given, who grew sideways instead of straight, the ones who preferred being softer, to the ones who liked being strong, and we can't forget the ones who enjoy being confused in all the right ways.

Let’s be strange. Let’s be messy. Let’s be wonderfully, unapologetically weird together.

[certainly-something]

this guy in my class pulled out 4 pints of full fat milk in biology and drank the entire thing what the hell happened

school isnt real atp

[certainly-something]

am i too powerful to be here

im at a religious festival (spring harvest) and i accidentally started a cult. a cult surrounding bucket hats.

i wore seven bucket hats to an event and people started calling me the bucket king. it really came to full fruition tonight when we played a silly little game with glowsticks. basically theres two teams, everyone gets a glowstick, if you get tagged by someone on the other team you give them your glowsticks, team with most glowsticks after five minutes wins.

my team DOMINATED. since im the bucket king, everyone just gave me all their glowsticks before running out to get more and i had a line of minions defending me so the other team never got close. one game we won 90 glowsticks to 44. WE WIN THESE.

i was worshipped tonight. i am now a cult leader at a religious festival and i am too powerful.

[badwolfdogbutch]

I really hate when I have to unfollow someone because they decided to be transphobic. Can we all agree that there's no place to hate on trans men or trans women or nonbinary people? Like it's getting really old. Solidarity or nothing. I don't want fake ally-ship you either stand with each of us or none of us. You cannot say you support trans people and willingly hate one side of the trans spectrum. We can absolutely call each other out and hold each other accountable but this stereotyping and malicious behavior towards one another needs to fucking stop. It's concerning how easily people are falling into the fascist trans hate belief systems. Decolonize your thoughts.

[hexpatient]

theres a lot of teehee'ing about autistic people needing things to be specific and whatever but i really do think everyone (allistics) could benefit from learning to communicate better and be more specific about things. miscommunication problems suck soooo bad and they can be reduced with a little more effort, like being more specific. who cares if its awkward or blocky if it means you both understand each other properly? i think its really important. personally i Need to be understood and being specific helps a lot i think.

[battle-for-dyke-island]

doctors love saying “it’s just your anxiety” to mean “I don’t have to treat you” as if anxiety doesn’t need to be treated

idk if your anxiety is so bad you have tics or repeated vomiting or horrible migraines or trouble breathing or seizures or fainting spells or temporary paralysis or or or IT SOUNDS LIKE YOU SHOULD TREAT THAT FUCKING ANXIETY!!! (and if you start treating anxiety and the symptoms don’t go away it might be that the anxiety is caused by the symptoms and not the other way around. and you should treat the underlying cause)

even IF it is “just anxiety” it still needs to be treated

[donniehaspronouns]

respect non-binary people not because this is “a step to realizing they’re really a trans man/trans woman” but because non-binary people are deserving of respect in their identity. because being non-binary is not “just a stepping stone” for many people and they still deserve their identity to be respected.

being non-binary is being trans, and we respect our trans siblings in this house. full stop.

[myheartflutters]

I Need This Pin (VIA AVAILABLE HERE)

[evil-bread-offical]

Whenever I get overwhelmed my entire verbal diary becomes song lyrics

[gauntletknight]

All computer safety ever for the past 30 odd years: "if you go on the internet — especially if you're under 18 — lie about everything. Lie about your name. Lie about your age. Give as little information away about yourself as you possibly can. Obfuscate, falsify, and omit anything and everything as otherwise They Will Get Your Ass. Actually, avoid it in the first place if you can altogether."

All computer safety(?) since like 2020: "it's imperative we make every 8 year old scan a passport before letting them use their LeapFrog™️. Always-on connectivity required."