[justsomeghostnabbers]

Old bro art 

[chaoticnico]

Do all of your s/o's know of the other yous?

Not all of them. Some are completely oblivious or it's not talked about

[chaoticnico]

And I'm guessing the original is with meow.

Depending on the canon, yes. Sometimes though, no vuv

[luciformsys]

[traumadrauma]

hey y’all wanna talk about a lesser talked about trauma effect?

loss of autonomy.

not knowing how to do anything without explicit permission or instruction.

feeling like you’ll get in trouble if you do anything on your own will.

waiting until you’re given permission to do so much as eat.

not feeling like your body is your own.

if you experience this you aren’t broken or alone. you were abused and traumatized and conditioned to be like this. remember you belong to nobody but yourself. you are and will be okay.

[succ-prince]

reminder that many abuse victims get triggered by anger, whether it’s directed at them or not. please be mindful of your actions

[yehudah]

why did polyamory ever start becoming “cringe” on here lmao

[yehudah]

like damn REGs will go on and on about how they only bully the “cringe asexuals” because they dont face any sort of marriage discrimination or legal/societal issues but suddenly when it comes to the topic of polyamory this logic is completely destroyed

i see so many posts on here abt how polyamory is so “annoying” and polyamorous ppl are “cringe” and dont face any sort of oppression, as if half this fucking website forgets that in most, if not all, western countries outlaw polyamorous marriage

like there are posts and posts on here about how polyamorous people dont also face societal oppression, as if polyamory isnt frowned upon in western society? as if saying “my boyfriend’s girlfriend” or “my girlfriend’s husband” isnt a common fucking joke punchline, and will give you weird looks if you try to drop it casually within a conversation

yall cant make the “i only bully the minorities that dont face oppression 😖” argument and then completely throw polyamorous people under the bus and make them face the same bullshit as they always have lol

[renthony]

My boyfriend’s mother straight-up threatened me with a gun after finding out we were in a polyam relationship, and proceeded to kick my boyfriend out of the house. He hasn’t talked to his family in years now.

We regularly get told that our relationship isn’t child-friendly. Concerned parents corner us and ask us not to “bring our lifestyle around their children” even though we didn’t do or talk about anything inappropriate.

My city apparently has an ordinance that prevents more than three people living together unless they’re related by blood or marriage (not that we pay any attention to it, but our landlord could LEGALLY evict us if she found out).

When we had to take my wife to the emergency room due to severe chest pains, our boyfriend had to sit out in the waiting room, scared and alone, while waiting for me to text him updates.

And I’ve just resigned myself to not being able to have kids because of all the legal issues that could arise if a bunch of polyamorous trans people tried to adopt.  

¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[aveimperatormagnus]

This reminds me of the time when I was sitting with a co-worker during a slow period and she was texting on her phone and laughed. I asked her what was funny, as we do- we share memes all the time. SHe says ‘oh, my girlfriends boyfriend just-’ and froze. Like. Terror-froze, and looked at me. The amount of relief on her face when I was just like ‘your girlfriends boyfriend just what?’ to try to continue the conversation was… Heartbreaking. I had to interrupt my own ‘please continue’ to say something to the effect of ‘Like, you’re Poly, right? You were saying something funny?’ But just … The fact that she ‘slipped’ and was so afraid I would judge or condemn her for it was.. Fucked up. I’m queer as hell, I get having to be mad-careful about what I say and to whom I say it. But the look on her face when she wasn’t sure how I was gonna react to hearing that… Is gonna be a long time before I forget that face.

[bairnsidhe]

Please support Poly people, we’re just trying to love each other here.

[chaoticnico]

After I had ended a 6 year relationship with someone my mom and step dad adored because of so many reasons I wont go into, and not long after entered a poly relationship, they damn near disowned me. Mind you, the relationship I entered is with people who I trust completely and considered my best friends before even pursuing a relationship with them. I was going to move in with them before any of that. They accept me for who I am, love me for everything I am, so it was only natural for me to become apart of this beautiful poly relationship.

But because I left the "perfect husband material" for a loving poly relationship cross country, i was suddenly being brainwashed. I was going to be kidnapped and possibly killed. And if it didnt come to that, the relationship was so very obviously not going to work out and I'd be stranded 3000 miles away from home without anyone to help me (I have friends and family nearby that arent said parents btw).

So my parents were doing everything they could to stop me from moving, trying to get me to break up with my partners. I always told them they were wrong and they couldn't stop me. I'm 24 (almost 25 now) and wanted this. I didnt care that I was leaving a plush upper-middle class life at home with my parents to live a lower class life with loving partners. All I cared about was finally being in a relationship with people that accept me for everything that I am. Even with struggles, I have never been happier than I am with my wonderful partners in this poly relationship.

It honestly saddens me that it's so frowned upon and even illegal in most states to have this. There are so many benefits to being poly, even outside of romance. It's damn near impossible to afford a place on your own or just between two people. But three or more? Hell yeah. It's a lot less stress all around.

I'm lucky enough that my dad and step mom, along with my grandpa and uncle on that side are so fucking supportive of all of this after I explained to them what this all meant to me. They dont care so long as my partners and choices make me happy, and even actively helped me to make the move and continue to support me to this day

[chaoticnico]

Only some of you with whom?

"One of us is with another of our species, whose name is Asriel. A few others are with humans. It's hard to keep track. "

[chaoticnico]

Have you all gone on dates?

"Technically speaking, we all have before the cloning. After though, only some of us. Kinda difficult when we're identical."

[chaoticnico]

Well I hope you can manage to get to rp with them in the future.

Im sure we will ^^

[chaoticnico]

I hope you had a great time if you managed to reconnect with your friends.

I did! I spent hours talking to Tay and Dandy and even called them for the first time ;u; I had such a blast! Kammy-mun seemed pretty busy, but I'm sure her and I will have time to catch up a bit later ♡

[chaoticnico]

Okay, well I know you all and meow will have great albeit a bit quirky life together.

"Oh, we definitely do."

[chaoticnico]

Did you figure out what caused the copies to appear in the first place?

"A magic anon, whatever that means. Was only supposed to be for a few days, but I guess it never wore off."

[chaoticnico]

Well I just hope you all find success in your endeavors.

"Thank you!"

[chaoticnico]

What do you all do all day?

"Various things. Some of us still do technician work, others explore. Really depends on the Lilith."

[chaoticnico]

What did you all do?

"Mostly wondered at first how we all managed to fit on the ship. After that, it was kind of a crazy scramble to figure out how it happened. Granted, I've learned not to question things anymore after spending so much time with Dandy and the others."

[chaoticnico]

The Twitter is @scitty_kitty

Thank you ;3;