Wait, Christians pray TOO MUCH?
I've been puzzled about something lately, and I am thrilled out of my fuzzy head to have stumbled across an answer.
My main questions were, "If Christians are to surrender everything to God and not worry about it or let it distract us, then why do we keep praying about something over and over again? Why do we dwell on our request and keep reminding God, as if the more we pester Him eventually He'll just give in out of sheer exasperation?"
I went through a few verses and listened to a fantastic fellow who spoke on the subject (Otto Koning). The most telling verse was "pray continually" (1 Th 5:17). But do we pray the SAME request over and over again? Surprising answer: No! Here's why...
There are two kinds of petitioning prayers.
Prayers that ask for everyday necessities, such as...
These of course are modeled in the Lord's prayer (how handy!). Sometimes we ask for these things for ourselves and sometimes for other people.
Note: These requests should be said every time you remember... every day!
Prayers that ask for a solution to a decision, problem, or a need.
A particular job opportunity
Pray these boldly and don't stop until you receive assurance from God... not necessarily an answer!
"Don't worry... just pray and the peace of God will rush over you."
My laughable paraphrase of Phil 4:7
How often do you ask God for something, and then you're like, "Ohhh great. Now I have to keep praying this in order of it to come true?" Giving things to God isn't suppose to make us more worried. We're suppose to get peace.
Here's where it gets wild: This particular prayer ("Faith Items") should very rarely be said more than a few times, if at all more than once. Why? Ask God boldly, give it to Him, trust Him, and that's it. No more! Trust that He has taken care of it. Even Paul followed this model when he prayed and then God assured him.
Three times I pleaded with the Lord to take it away from me. But he said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.”
Don't turn something wonderful (a prayer request to God) into a legalistic task. It's not the number of requests that bring about results, or the volume and vigor at which you shout your prayers. It's God's power behind the request that brings the result. Say it once--in quiet, bold faith--wait for assurance, and let Him do whatever He'd like.
Finally the Parable of the Persistent Widow comes to mind; a parable that speaks of a widow who pesters a selfish judge to give her justice. The comparison is then drawn between God and the judge,
"And will not God bring about justice for his chosen ones, who cry out to him day and night?" (Lk 18:7)
We should always be cautious about extrapolating doctrine from a parable's details--focus on the main point of what Jesus was trying to get across. And of course the main point of this parable is not "keep asking God until He gives in." The point rather is this: "Keep heart and keep praying." Because a) there are millions of Christians seeking and asking God (not just one widow), and b) God is just and loving (compared to the judge). As a matter of fact it says right before Jesus shares this parable, "He told them a parable to the effect that they ought always to pray and not lose heart." (vs 1) This is why you should pray--not over and over again over one thing--but because God because God is listening, and He wants to take care of us.