Chocolate Queen

Hello! I'm Mathilde and this my personal blog, where I post stuff I like and other random things. Hope you like it!

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growing up as a fat girl is actually traumatizing and destroys your respect for your own body. bullying you, abusing you, mocking you, all of this is seen as acceptable because its supposedly “discouraging an unhealthy body type.”

my mother never stood up for me when i was picked on for my weight by older family members. she would laugh in my face if i made any indication of liking my body. think about that.

we are not allowed to post selfies or any picture where we like our appearance, without getting comments about how unhealthy we supposedly are

“you dont like it? lose some weight” is the only reponse we get when we are tired of being treated cruelly by our peers, our families, and the media

i have been fat my whole life. i will probably never be thin. and i am not trying to be! i think my weight is attractive! i like taking up space! i like how i look! i am PERFECTLY healthy! im not changing my body just because youre grossed out by a little jiggle! it should be outrageous to even suggest that!

its okay to use our bodies as an insult, its okay to complain about how you think youre starting to look like us, its okay to only ever portray us as food-obsessed slobs, its okay to take pictures of us in public without our consent so you can laugh at our bodies

and we are LITERALLY the only people who care! we are the only people that see anything wrong with treating us like this!

EDIT: transphobes stay the fuck away from this post, you people do NOTHING but body shame and i hate each and every one of you.

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Some positivity for your day

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I didn’t know Mr. T pityed fool’s that weren’t woke, but that’s awesome. #respect

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“I think about my father being called ‘boy’, my uncle being called ‘boy’, my brother, coming back from Vietnam and being called ‘boy’. So I questioned myself: “What does a black man have to do before he’s given the respect as a man?” So when I was 18 years old, when I was old enough to fight and die for my country, old enough to drink, old enough to vote, I said I was old enough to be called a man. I self-ordained myself Mr. T so the first word out of everybody’s mouth is “Mr.” That’s a sign of respect that my father didn’t get, that my brother didn’t get, that my mother didn’t get.“

-Mr. T on the subject of his name

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I had no idea he put this much thought into this wow

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I wonder why we dont hear about this…

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Mr. T’s raw power vaporizing the guy in the last gif

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womanhood and having a voyeuristic relationship with your own pain

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“am i suffering beautifully?” “is my agony lovable?”

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Angelic Pretty -  Bunny-Chan Tea Party OP (2009) in Pink

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fathers be like i fucked u over during the most important formative years of ur life and was never there for u but now that ur an adult and theres no help or effort needed from me lets be best friends bud!

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“i wanna fix our relationship”

pay me 187k in cash by tomorrow 

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the ‘big three’ of coping mechanisms are jerking off, fucking up your hair, and playing your favorite music real loud

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hayley atwell for the guardian

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Real talk girls get asked this question repeatedly from the age of about seven. It’s also phrased as “if you could change one thing about your appearance, what would it be?”

STOP. ASKING. Stop asking stop asking stop asking.

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Nope gosh dang it I have more to say. Why are girls expected to answer this question like it’s “what’s your favorite color” or something innocuous? Why is this even remotely okay? This is in quizzes, girl’s diaries + activity books, magazines, party games, and school reflections. How is that okay? Why are girls expected to have an answer to this question? Why is it supposed to be normal to decide that you hate a part of your body? Why are we teaching children this?