you don't owe your parents anything. they're the ones who put you in this world, yes? you don't owe you siblings anything either. you didn't mean to be attached to them through this somehow socially relevant bond. better yet, you don't owe anybody anything. the person behind you coming in is of no matter, let the door close on their face. the person who will be eating after you is of no matter either, don't clean up after yourself - and even better, the person who will clean this space is of no matter either! and they are paid for it, so you are kind of giving them a job, no? you don't owe anybody anything. you were born alone into this world.
and the fun thing is - it goes both ways. the government doesn't owe you anything either. so as long as it gives, you should leech off until the last drop, munch on it to the bone, lick it dry. they're the ones proposing aid, right? but if there is no aid - that is also of no matter. you shouldn't rely on anyone. nobody owes anybody anything.
isn't that the essence of humanity? you were born alone in this world, you shall leave it alone. to ensure to leave it alone, you must also live it alone. since, of course, you don't owe anybody anything.
moreover, everything you do must come from an undetached and wholesome feeling of internal contentment. there should be no duty. you should also never expect anything. that makes relationships transactional, no? everything should be simple and come from the pure wish of your heart. a two-way connexion, in this sense, can only be established through a purely moral quest for personal joy. not feeling up to it? cancel. better yet, just don't show up. that person who invited you to their birthday? don't invite them. a gift you received? don't get them anything back. people are not financial, right? everybody is just getting paid in internal satisfaction in all sorts of relationships! you don't owe them anything.
if you don't feel unbridled joy at the idea of an action - don't do it. au passage, don't do anything too hard either. don't pick up the phone. don't even go to the doctor. don't go to school, don't go to job interviews. heck, don't even leave the house! you don't owe anybody anything, so that means you also don't owe yourself a thing, no?
as such, you shall live a very content life of not owing anybody a thing, and in that way you can avoid the criminal obligation of being kind to others, that which despicable people who feel like they owe others many things call "community". but you don't need that. you don't owe anybody anything.
