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he wasn't even looking at me and he found me
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@chrono-conan
Finally got tumblr agaiiinnn
Name: Randy / Libra / Conan
Pronouns: Lilac/lilacs & libra/libras & ♎/♎s
No DNI I just block blogs I don't like.
Interests; DIALTOWN !!! Detective Conan
Identity stuff & flags:
Yto transage 40's-50's, chrono-adult, Conan Edogawa linker, Randy Jade kin. Schizophrenic (transseverity).
. transage blinkies .
. f2u ! rb&like if using!
. all made by me . ask 4 template
ageless culture is wanting to not celebrate my birthday because of dysphoria but also wanting things like cake, fancy dinners, presents, etc. but being in a position where my family isn't willing to forget about my birthday and being able to buy those things out of my own will.
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Was tagged by @adamnagaitis thank youuuu <3
rules: tag 10 people you wanna know more about :)
last song: Erhaben by Die Ärzte
last film: Conclave as well
last book: Judas als Sündenbock (Judas as a scapegoat) by Bernhard Dieckmann
last tv show: House :)))
sweet/savoury/spicy: sweet
relationship status: woefully single
last thing you googled: "2. papst" (second pope. (Or first. Depending if you count Peter) Fun fact: His name was Linus)
looking forward to: finishing my fckign thesis
current obsession: shackleton 🫡 (currently on the backburner due to thesis)
tagging (no pressure): @rialtoir @swanfloatieknight @faworsley @roaldamundsen @thymosghoul @voyage-of-the-porn-spreader @13shapeshifters @4-new-burlington-street @anynameisbetterthanmyfirstone @schaueruniverse <3
I got tagged in this Twice that is crazy. Woah. Ty
Last song: gut candy (hackneyed)
Last film: uhhh. I think it was tcm2?
Last book: 2001 space odyssey
Last tv show: currently watching forged in fire on the couch with the back door open im in heavveenn it feels so nice outside
Sweet/savory/spicy: savory !! but also i love spicy
Relationship status: married + open
Last thing googled: ezgif
Looking forward to: umm ? If you had asked me a week ago i wouldve said addicted to the violence (dmsob) coming out. But it already did so right now i guess im excited for my new snake bites to heal so i can get different jewelry for them :]
My current obsession: man it depends who youre asking. Overall, i guess id say learning how to make blinkies/replyboxes and bah stuff
Tagging : (no pressure at all) @permaabused @wereviolet @philosophicallie @teddy-blegh @chrono-conan @overflowingmilk @slipknotqueer @laslumbag
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Last song: Christmas kids - Roar
Last Film: The Ravine (2021)
Last book: Hojas de Dedalera - Victoria Álverez
Last TV show: Dandadan
Sweet/Savory/Spicy: Spicy :D love some good spicy foods
Relationship status: in a relationship but always open to more partners (polyam)
Last thing googled : bugbear dnd
Looking forward : working on getting my driver's license so Looking forward to being able to drive places
Current obsession : Detective Conan !!!! Raaaaghhh !!! (Can you guess what my url is based on lol) he's THE yto coded king.
(I don't really know who's comfortable with being tagged / I'm too nervous to tag ppl so anyone who sees this can join in if they want)
TransIndian Pixels.
The symbol took a while to figure out how to scale it, I hope it is alright.
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TransAge Pixels.
Transage & Multiage Butterfly
YTO & OTY Butterfly
Transage & Multiage Circle
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Heyyy 👋🏾
I'm always so nervous interacting with the rq community but I think I wanna branch out slliiiightly more
Any YTO transage people especially I'd love to talk
By the way im on an app called Emo! Now, is very small but I am enjoying it here. There are very few rq people there yet but there is a community (similar to the community feature on tumblr) for rq peoples
If you wanna get it its easier to find by searching for twinote and looking at other apps the developer made
RQ-Blobcrew is here!
A squishmallow-inspired picrew with some rq additives! Well, a lot of rq additives. Credits - https://marshmallow-maki.neocities.org/picre
At last, I have finished this thing. Uh, I have not double-checked my links on the credits list yet, but I'm sick of waiting to release this. But lmk if something is amiss
Here's the link to the flag & symbol credits!
I hope you all like it :)
Where my fellow YtOs at??
This has been taking me days to type up because I am actually quite frustrated and even a little angry, but I am trying to come to a place of understanding knowing that a lot of are transgender folks who are anti-trans anything else are coming from a similar place that anti-polyam LGBT are i.e. "this makes us look bad"
I cannot stress enough that you are shooting yourselves in the foot when you make a lot of your arguments against us.
I'm going to get a bit personal here, but it's important to understand that I desire to menstruate. Part of how my dysphoria presents itself is that I would like to experience menstruation. Now, I know there are a lot of people in the world who do menstruate and have told me how terrible it is. How agonizing the pain is, how lethargic they feel. But even those with the most mildest of experiences all have to deal aspects of it that people who don't menstruate don't have to (like the blood part). Cis and trans people who menstruate have told me this and that they would prefer not to menstruate anymore. So why would I, of all things, want this?
Something someone could respond with could be "OK Mocha, I get where you're going with this but that's different. That's gender/sex dysphoria, you want to menstruate because you're transfem." However, putting aside that I don't actually consider myself to be transfem for a second, this person would still be falling into the biological essentialism trap. One need not be a woman to menstruate, after all. There are plenty of people who menstruate who are not women at all and yet would like to continue menstruating. Some of these people still want this but not for any reason related to wanting to have children. There are transneutral and xenogender-only people who are or want to menstruate.
So why would I, someone who wants to menstruate outside of gender-related reasons, feel the way I do? Unfortunately I don't really have a good answer for that. To be sure, it is difficult to explain why I'd want bleeding and abdominal cramps in a similar way that it's difficult to explain that I feel like I shouldn't have a particular limb or that my gender is coffee-related and I have a mismatch in my dysphoria related to secondary sexual characteristics, or that I feel like the blurry-but-somehow-different "facets" that constitute "me" should be completely separate people.
A lot of incongruity within ourselves, whether dysphoric or not, may not always have a clear cause. Is the fictionkin with an anime source transjapanese because of that or is it separate? If I do not desire to menstruate for gender/sex related reasons, is it then perhaps a transabled thing? Should that sort of distinction matter to anyone other than that individual? Because ultimately, me wanting to menstruate doesn't actually affect those who already do.
Picrew chain! Make yourself!
I'll start <3
(ps respect your own dni if I'm on it)
Link!
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Closest thing you'll get to a face reveal for a long time lol
Empathetic Level Personality Disorder
A medically unrecognized disorder that has traits from all PD clusters and is therefore a cluster D PD. This disorder is characterized by conditional hyper empathy and conditional low/non existent empathy. This empathy fluctuation can affect how the person views people, and how much they possibly care about certain groups or people they have no empathy for. The empathetic fluctuations can also cause social isolation at times due to how debilitating the hyper empathetic can be but at the same time how much guilt low empathetic episodes can cause. It can be debilitating when in hyper empathetic episodes which cause panic attacks, SH, and more, or cause the person to reach out to abusers to help the abuser feel better or change.
Symptoms
• anxiety about empathy levels
• high flucuating conditional empathetic emotions
• debilitating emotions surrounding ability to aid others they're hyper empathetic towards.
• irritability or anger around those they have no/low empathy towards
• narcissistic view of oneself or views of those hyper empathetic towards being superior than those the person has no empathy towards
• dramaticized self importance or importance of groups one is hyper empathetic towards
• breakdowns due to emotions or relationships tied to the vastly different empathetic levels
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> This is not my coining! A friend of mine requested that I post this! So all credits to Moss and Friends!
@mudarchive
transage but for ages 40-50 ? or just being older transage in general i just want to be an old man instead of a 20'something but unfortunately every transage tip I've seen is for kids and teens
thanks for being so helpful by the way. i have both learned a lot about myself and others aswell as improved a lot about myself from your blog. hope you are having a wonderful day
TransAge ( 40-50 )
Casual, timeless clothing : Opt for classic pieces like button-up shirts , blazers , chinos , and comfortable loafers ! Colors like grey , navy , and earth tones can give a more mature , sophisticated look ! Consider wearing simple , elegant accessories like watches , glasses , ties , or pocket squares ! They can add a touch of class to your outfit without going overboard !
Haircut : Choose a haircut that suits a more mature look — think short back and sides or a slightly longer , well-groomed style ! Embracing gray hair can be very euphoric too ! One way would be simply dying your roots gray / white-ish to appear as though that's your natural hair ! If you prefer facial hair , taking two mascaras - one white , other black , and brushing it on your face for an aged look can be great !
Skin : Use makeup to mimic slight signs of aging like fine lines , crow's feet , or slight sagging ! Products like contouring kits can add depth to areas like the cheeks, jawline, and under the eyes ! Wrinkles too ! Subtly draw faint lines around common areas like the forehead , corners of the eyes , or mouth with a light pencil or blending product ! " Age spots " can be mimicked with fake - freckle makeup or henna ! Using blueish / greenish shadow to accentuate / thicken your veins for a more aged look !
Behavior : Doing small things like squinting at labels , grunting when you standing up , preferring to be sitting down can be euphoric ! Going on more mature-dominated socials , such as Facebook , can also be euphoric ! Consistent routine , such as " early to bed , early to rise " , enjoying a quiet coffee in the morning , or setting aside time for hobbies like gardening , journaling , or puzzles ! Practice patience and avoid rushing decisions or responses ! Show understanding when others are in a hurry or stressed ! Dadjokes all the way ! Always lightens up the mood !
Here's some more tips from a cusp-Gen X'er who's trans-elderly, most of these are elaborating on what's already been said and me just rambling
-Khakis and Levis are a staple. If you get jeans, make sure to get them thrifted, well worn in already, preferably with those lighter spots where the dye has washed out around the knees especially. Some of us still wear sneakers daily but it's less Jordans and more New Balance.
-Collect magazines! Time, National Geographic, Vogue, Sports Illustrated, whatever. Everyone in their 50's has a whole cabinet of magazines we couldn't bear to get rid of a decade ago because "what if they're worth something one day?"
-Find hobbies your parents gave up when they had kids. Did they have a front garden? Loved grilling? A lot of us in this age range are pretty simple when it comes to what we spend our free time on, especially if you're trans-chrono/era for a pre-internet time. IDK, drink from the hose? /j
-Forget about beauty tutorials and skincare tips. Wash your face with water, and at most, hand soap. Make expressions without caring for how it's "aging" your face. Hell, purposefully make exaggerated ones to create more wrinkles. Look in the mirror and just mush your face around with your hands, it makes more of a difference than you think.
-If you live alone or with someone who's cool with it, and your city still does it, get paper news delivered. This can be a great way to help start a morning routine, I highly recommend pairing it with a recliner and coffee. And by the time you're in your 40's, you've stopped giving a shit about "having it black" and whatever is associated with that, you have it with as much sugar and creamer as you damn well please.
-Take a longer time, but not impolitely so, in social interactions, especially transactions or at stores. If you've ever worked retail, you know that our generation is into small talk. Remark on the weather, the latest sports game, you don't even have to care about it, it's just friendly noises.
-Listen to music that's, counterintuitively, older than the age range you're going for. Most of us don't listen primarily to music from our 30's or late 20's, we still listen to what was on the radio when we were in high school and early college. Personally, I'm a big fan of Billy Idol.
-Change your lights from LEDs! As you get older, LEDs become harsher on the eyes, and a lot of us still opt for the familiar incandescent bulb.
-Be wary of technology. We remember a time when space heaters could burn your house down, where calls could be listened to from anyone in your home, and cameras were five pounds. At the same time, nobody was accessible to communicate with unless you were literally within walking distance- beepers couldn't send a message, just let you know someone on a landline wanted to call you, and many of us still prefer calling to texting.
-Embrace the carpet. Carpets and rugs everywhere. Not only is it stylish, it's easier on the knees.
hi guys, starscapes system with mud archive update!
we haven't been doing a very good job of working on it,,, but in order to push ourselves to just get the archive operational, we're posting the link to the new neocities archive, which is like maybe 15% finished? there's a LOT of terms to add hjhjhkkgjkhjghgjkskjjks
here's the link!
current status: main pages 100% medically unrecognized sicknesses 100% medically unrecognized personality disorders 100% obsessive disorders ~50%
lu dont use many labels for lacelf but if lu did there would be a looooottt more labels and flags on here because lu has a lot of identities. just doesn't like to label them or share much publicly
"X transids ARE their transids!"
"But what about transharmfuls/hatefuls???!"
The solution to this I've seen floating around is to stop thinking of transids as genders. Maybe some transids fully identify as the thing they are, maybe some only partially do, maybe some feel like they want to be that thing but fully believe they aren't, maybe some know they aren't that thing but want to be treated as such anyways, at the end of the day it doesn't matter. Tranids are a very personal experience and we shouldn't be making blanket claims about how any of us interpret our identities.
Another solution: Transharmfuls are still that thing but still aren't the same as cisharmfuls. Someone being their transid doesn't mean they're the exact same as corrosponding cisid and sometimes need to be treated differently.
Like a transage person can be 2 years old but may need to be treated differently from a chrono 2 year old even tho both are still really 2 year olds.
Basically: Transharmfuls can be their id without being the same as cisharmfuls.
