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@cisphobiaintreal
saying that cishet aces aren’t straight because their asexuality takes away their straightness DIRECTLY states that gay aces are not gay because their asexuality takes away their gayness
either gay aces are gay and cishet aces are straight, or cishet aces aren’t straight and gay aces are forcefully robbed of their identity to be inclusive to cishets
does that sound like a good movement to yall? cause my gay ace ass doesn’t think so
I'm actually quite embarassed for you. If someone isn't completely "cishet", ie (cisgender, heterosexual AND heteroromantic), then they are part of the community. People like you are the reason why so many ace/aro people feel even more excluded.
I know? what do u think “cishet” means lol then again, if u don't experience same gender attraction of any sort (sexual/romantic) and ur not trans ur not LGBT
After scrolling through a bit of your blog, I've decided that you can ignore my comment. You can post it with or without a response or make fun of me if you want, I don't give a damn. I've seen how you dismiss people by calling them ugly or stringing together a row of expletives. I don't know what I was thinking when I figured I could politely reason with you. Feel free to prove me wrong.
LMFAO
Hey so I think that the way you attack the ace community is a bit aggressive. Half of it is probably bait, but still. If a younger person who is still questioning comes across your blog and sees the hostility towards a sexual identity they feel resonates with them, does that makes you no better than a person who is homophobic. Your intentions may (though it seems doubtful) be innocent, but the way you carry it out can be harmful to those just trying to find a place in the world.
i dont attack anyone but ok
Ok so you claim to not be for cishets in lgbt that's all good and fine, but you think pedophiles should be banned from the lgbt community? Even if said pedophile identifies as lgbt? The real test.
um yes? terfs, pedos and cishets are not welcome here
That side of depression
Why do people never talk about the part of depression when you just don’t want anything anymore? Everybody talks about when it hurts like hell, when you cry, when you cut, when you take drugs, when you break down. But no one ever talks about when you just lay down in your room, with a hole inside of you that you don’t know how to fill, and you don’t want to do anything even the things you usually like. So you just spend your day kinda waiting for it to end. And it’s horrible because you feel empty and guilty for that at the same time.
tbh ace discourse is so distressing to me bc like. i highly doubt inclusionists even understand what the lgbt community is all about?
like ive seen inclusionists legit ask what resources cishet aro/ace people and cis aroace people could ~~supposedly~~ steal and like. do you know why there are lgbt homeless shelters? like has it even crossed your mind why lgbt people cant go to standard shelters? its bc wed get kicked out in the best case scenario and get assaulted or murdered in the worst case. who is gonna kick someone out of an homeless shelter bc they dont feel sexual attraction?
the same goes for lgbt scholarships, hotlines and so on. we need these resources bc cishets either dont give a shit about us or they want us dead.
and the lgbt community and the ace community also have extremely different goals. i support the ace community. i think we should make people aware of informed consent, we should talk about the sexualization found in our society, about how sex and romance arent the only things that make us human and people can live a happy life without them. but the lgbt community isnt the place where to do it.
listen. for lgbt people sex is often a demonized aspect of their lifes. homophobic sexual jokes; ‘predatory gay man/lesbian/trans person’ stereotypes; equating gay relationships with sexual intercourse; sexual harassment suffered especially by wlw’ the slut shaming suffered by bi, pan and poly people; corrective rape; ‘love the sinner hate the sin’ mentality, are all things the lgbt community is supposed to be free of. now i hope you understand why, for someone struggling to see their sexual attraction as something good and normal, in the only safe haven they have, having somebody preach that ‘not feeling sexual attraction is ok!’, is downright disrespectful and hurtful, even tho its a valid statement.
the lgbt community and the ace community can be allied, but we cannot be united, and thats not hate speech, thats just me caring for my own.
You are a bad person who hurts people.
lmao
Ok I agree it's stupid for ace ppl to liken themselves to things like forest gump, but it's exhausting when everyone shits on them constantly. There's literally no need for it, and I h8 to be the one to break it to ya, but the A in LGBTQA stands for asexual
people mock yall because you have a shitty community and jump on posts that dont belong to you.
you tried to make the pulse shooting about you. you tried to steal corrective rape and call it aphobia when it was simply misogyny and misderected homophobia. you demand for LGBT organizations to be shut down simply because they didnt include asexuals. you obsessed over Bill Nye’s sexual life simply because he said yall exist. you people support pedophiles and pedophile apologists simply because they say “aces are LGBT”. you spout dangerous idealogy that makes me hope no child ever sees you shitty community. you think you can protect children by over exposing them to sexual things and telling little 6 year old kids that they need to obsess over their sex life. you call dead gay activists “heteromantic asexuals” and lose your shit when someone points out that lol, no one gives a shit if a straight person doesn’t have sex. you try to create a divide between people in the LGBT community for your sick attempt into gaslighting young bi and trans individuals into thinking they’re unwanted. you target lesbians and mock the gay men who suffered from the aids crisis.
and no you fucking dumbass, there was no A in LGBT
*cracks knuckles* you really wanna test me right now?
“you tried to make the pulse shooting about you.”
“you tried to steal corrective rape and call it aphobia when it was simply misogyny and misderected homophobia. “
“you demand for LGBT organizations to be shut down simply because they didnt include asexuals.”
“you obsessed over Bill Nye’s sexual life simply because he said yall exist.”
“you people support pedophiles and pedophile apologists simply because they say “aces are LGBT”. “
“you spout dangerous idealogy that makes me hope no child ever sees you shitty community. you think you can protect children by over exposing them to sexual things and telling little 6 year old kids that they need to obsess over their sex life.”
“you call dead gay activists “heteromantic asexuals””, which my bad, some idiot inclusionist actually called a gay man a homoromantic bisexual despite explicitly stating he was not
“and lose your shit when someone points out that lol, no one gives a shit if a straight person doesn’t have sex.” i dont even need to find a source, look at the endless discourse about people claiming that aromantic heterosexuals and heteromantic asexuals are oppressed
“you try to create a divide between people in the LGBT community for your sick attempt into gaslighting young bi and trans individuals into thinking they’re unwanted.” again, ace tumblr literally thrives off of this belief. its why they coined terms like REG and claimed that all exclusionists are exactly like terfs
“you target lesbians and mock the gay men who suffered from the aids crisis.” hell i dont even have ENOUGH sources for the shit yall pull.
oh and just for funsies! lets add the fact that yall claimed that gay men and lesbians were hogging all the resources from LGBT organizations away from bi and trans individuals
all asexuals are good and valid
⭐️ asexuality is real 💕 lgbt asexuals are valid 💫 cishet asexuals are valid ✨ all asexuals are valid
but! that doesn’t automatically make you LGBT. We belong in different communities (LGBT aces are obviously welcome n the LGBT community) cishet people are our oppressors as LGBT members and cishet aces are still our oppressors regardless of how many or how little sexual attraction they experience. That’s why it’s safer for us to not have you on our safe spaces. if you don’t understand this you’re being homophobic/transphobic since you, as a cishet ace, want to forcefully be in our cishet-Free spaces. being asexual is okay. Being a cishet asexual is okay. just stay in your lane and it’s all good.
Exactly. I’ve got nothing against aces, I’m ace myself, but it’s better for all of us if we stay separate. The issues of cishet aces are not comparable to the issues of LGBT aces. There is that, and then there is the fact that lack of sexual attraction doesn’t make you queer. Ace people are not oppressed, only minorly discriminated against, and even less so for cishet aces. It is for the safety of the LGBT community and the well being of cishet aces that we must be kept separate. Sorry if this upsets you but honestly, it should be very obvious why this is important.
Gr8 B8 M8
no b8
Some ace kid was like “It’s been so hard for us aces on Tumblr this year I’m so proud of your bravery <3” and apparently that’s their definition of having it rough. Our definition of having it rough? Pulse massacre. Anti trans laws. North Carolina cancelling city discrimination ordinances. Murders of trans women. Avid homophobe and transphobe running as Vice President. All in 2016.
But hey, at least people know we exist, right?
Is it actually physically impossible for them not to do this??
IM GOING TO DIE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
CISHET AROS AND CISHET ACES ARE PART OF THE LGBTQIA+ COMMUNITY!
shut your fuck youre so annoying lmfao
CISHET AROS AND CISHET ACES ARE PART OF THE LGBTQIA+ COMMUNITY!
LGBTQRSTUVWXYZ+ is the right acronym ://
STOP SPREADING FALSE VALIDITY AND ATTACKING THE ACE COMMUNITY!
go cry about your stuff with your ace community and leave the gay, bi/pan and trans/nb ppl alone we dont care
STOP SPREADING TOXICITY INTO THE ACE COMMUNITY JUST BECAUSE YOU'RE A BITTER ASS.
sorry for being bitter about being oppressed :(
