Rant... Haven't edited yet so may have grammatical errors.
On the topic of wanting versus having again... I know it can be confusing when you hear people tell you this because it's not clicking in your head.
So. Wanting. You want your desire so you act like you have it in order to get it. So you do your techniques and wait.
Now isn't that contradictory? You act like you have it now and then wait for it. That's what most people get confused about and why some of you aren't manifesting. Now let me set this straight, that's HOW manifesting works. You're not wrong about that, it's how you apply the steps that's incorrect.
The key here is to not wait at all. I know. It's confusing.
But think about the steps to manifest.
Accept that you have it NOW.
No one said to wait. If you wait, that's what's going to manifest. You're sending signals that you want to manifest waiting if your state right now is waiting for your desire. You must understand and drill this in your head. Are you waiting right now or accepting fully that you have what you desire right now?
Do you accept that you're rich or do you wait to feel rich?
Do you accept that you're pretty or do you wait to feel pretty?
Do you accept that you have your SP or do you wait to have your SP?
Let me rephrase this. Do you accept that you have it now or do you wait for the 3d to validate what you feel right now?
Are you using your techniques, hoping to feel rich and wait for the 3d to show your desire to feel what you want? Are you waiting for signs instead of giving that feeling to yourself? Then you're not manifesting being rich. You're manifesting waiting to be rich. You want signs to validate your faith that you're rich. And that's what you're going to experience.
Take a good look at yourself and ask if you're waiting. If the answer is yes, I'm sorry to say you've been successfully manifesting waiting for your desires, instead of having them.
"But I'm trying to manifest it in the 3d, it's not enough that it's just in my imagination that I have it."
If you have it in your imagination, then it's happening now. Confusing? Ok let me explain more. You don't want money. You want to feel secure and to not worry about money anymore, to buy everything you've dreamed of without looking at any price tags. You don't want the physical, you want the feeling that comes with the physical thing you want. Imagine having a monthly income of 200k. Wow, that's a lot. Feel lighter? Feel like all your problems are solved? Great, you manifested being rich. That's why they say manifesting is instant, because that's your ultimate goal in the end. To feel secure and not have to worry about e.g money. So it's not the physical money you're after, it's the feeling.
You can instantly put yourself in the state of being rich without having the physical evidence to support it. Manifesting it in the 3d is the bonus part because you've let yourself experience that state frequently.
So again. You don't want the 3d. You want the feeling that comes with it. And what can you do to experience that without physical evidence? Your imagination. Use it. When it manifest in the 3d then it's caused by you frequently going to that state.
"But I can't do that. I need to see signs in the 3d or I'll get anxious about it not coming."
Listen, you're scared. Plain and simple. You're afraid to put faith in yourself. Because if you let yourself feel that way for even a second, it feels like you're ignoring your problems and that feels irresponsible. We've been taught to always focus on the problem and look for a solution, so I get it. But I'm telling you right now to breeze past analyzing the problem and looking for a solution and just go to the end where everything is fixed. How does that feel? It feels safe and you're not worried anymore? Great, you manifested it instantly. Because that's your goal. To feel safe and secured, to put your mind at ease at last.
Remember, your goal should be your state, not the physical. If you focus on waiting for the physical, then you're manifesting waiting. If you focus on your state, then it manifest in the 3d as a bonus. It's causation.
Gonna remind you again until it sticks.
You don't want the 3d. You want the feeling that comes with the physical manifestation of your desire. Again, with the money example. You don't want a crummy old paper, you want the feeling of being rich. So if you successfully feel rich, that's instant manifestation because you got what you wanted. To feel safe and secure with no worries for money. That's the state you wanted when you become rich right?
I'm just gonna keep repeating it until it sticks in your head. What do you want to achieve by being rich? You want to achieve not having to worry about money anymore. And is that a physical thing? Nope! It's all in your head. It's all feelings. So once again, you're ultimate goal is not the physical manifestation, but the feeling that comes with it!
So if you successfully make yourself feel like you have it, then that is what we call instant manifestation. Because you have just successfully achieved the state of another version of you who has no worries for money. And the more you return to that state? Great news, the product of you going back to that state is the manifestation of it in the 3d!!
So go and manifest instantly!!