I apologise for my vicious rant, however, the occasion calls for it. And please, share this post widely - this behavior has to be exposed!
As a longtime dominant, a woman and mother to offspring that still fall into the virgin category, let me be as clear as I can possibly be; FUCK YOU! FUCK YOU you fucking, abusive piece of shit!
I searched your name following Anon’s question and goddamn saying I’m still fuming is an understatement.
Not a single word in your reply makes any of this any better, quite the opposite; you’ve outed yourself as a dangerous predator, a psychopath even.
This person contacted me asking me to take their virginity.
We made plans for her to stop and get a room on her way down to college. …. I’m a consensual non consent player. It is extreme edge play. I am known and sought out for my intensity and aggression. It’s well advertised, and present in many write ups done by people who have done scenes with me. I’m not a daddy dom. She knew all of this.
Do you know the meaning of being a virgin? It means, asshole, they have little to no sexual experience. It also means - and this goes without saying, that even in the most boring, vanilla setting, you - aka the ‘more experienced partner’, you tone it the fuck down!! You take your cues from her!
Unless you’re paid to do so, and even then there are rules, in what fucking world is it okay for you, a so-called experienced man in extreme edge play know for his intensity and aggression, to meet with her in the first place?!? You should have never ever agreed to this! Since you’re capable of writing it means you have some intelligence and thus capable of realising this from the getgo!
Furthermore; meeting up in a hotel room? Are you out of your fucking mind?!? You meet in PUBLIC! In a NEUTRAL and SAFE place first where you proceed to have a strictly vanilla and pg-13 conversation. For your safety as well as theirs.
Their jaw was popped because they had a previous medical condition and it was prone to do so. They did not share this information with me until after it had happened. Any medical or psychological issues that may come up in a scene always need to be disclosed in advance for exactly this reason.
Let’s, for the sake of argument, say she forgot to mention said medical condition; the very second her jaw popped; you, the dominant, and thus the person responsible for her physical and mental safety, it was your goddamn duty, your obligation to shut the scene down right there and then!
This only leads me to the next chapter in this shitshow; In my opinion, this person wasn’t physically, mentally, or emotionally ready to have sex. Especially BDSM of any type. I definitely wasn’t the right choice for her, being on the more extreme end of the scale for that type of play.
Again, I say; THIS IS WHERE YOU STEP UP AND TAKE YOUR RESPONSIBILITY AS A DOMINANT AND PUT YOUR BIG BOY PANTS ON AND END ALL PLAY!! THIS IS WHERE YOU MAKE SURE THEY CALM DOWN AND CALL SOMEONE TO COME AND PICK THEM UP!!
Don’t even get me started on what you wrote next.
I’m also not sure how my safeword system was “inconsistent” but it is true I didn’t use the check in part. I didn’t need to, she stopped the scene extremely frequently. You’ll notice she never claims I did not stop when she called “red”, because I did. Every time, and it was a lot of times. Pretty much every hit and even basic vanilla sex was too much for her.
Listen very carefully, junior; you don’t need to have lots of experience within the community to know the significance of the word ‘red’ as a safeword. And red, asshole, means STOP! WHEN A SUB CALLS ‘RED’ OR USES ANY OTHER AGREED-UPON SAFEWORD YOU SHUT THAT SCENE DOWN, IMMEDIATELY! I don’t give a shit how hard your dick is or how close to cumming you are.
And the reason they’re calling ‘red’ is because we domintants - and in this case YOU - fucked up! You pushed them too far. The very simple fact that you casually mention she called ‘red’ many times, pretty much at every hit and even basic vanilla sex makes my goddamn blood boil!
No submissive, no matter their experience, is capable of carrying on a scene after they safeworded. And even if they begged for it to continue, you shut that shit down, because you ought to know they’re not in the right, and healthy, state of mind.
What you’re writing down is nothing short of a confession to abuse. Nowhere in your reply do you recognise her feelings or her experience. Nothing in your reply represents the very cornerstones of our community; Safe, Sane and Consensual.
Quite the opposite, you blame her for your actions.
You’re nothing more than a boy, a fucking wannabe trying to fit in with the adults, and kid; you’re failing miserably. The only good thing to come out of this is your exposure as an abuser.
You’re a disgrace to all dominants who worship and respect their submissives, who move heaven and earth to keep them safe - at all times.
To all my followers with teenage and/or inexperienced kids, for the love of my sanity talk to them.
To all my young and inexperienced followers, again, for the love of my sanity, trust me when I say vanilla is the way to go for your first time. Kink grows and comes naturally with experience.
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